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Posted:Nov 17, 2011 7:56 am
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2013 4:49 pm
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Well a few weeks ago we met another couple who was visiting from California. They were really great. They could sense our nervousness and helped us through it. Though no sex happened We were very comforable with the couple. It wasfunny for me as we pulled up to the restaurant we were meeting at my wife says "Dinner only we are not going back to their room". Then as we were heading to the room she says "We are only staying for one drink" After her third glass of wine and three hours after arriving we decide to head home. After leaving my wife admits that she really enjoyed hanging out with them and would like to see them again. So we are getting more comfortable with this lifestyle and are looking foward to the next meeting.
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Looking up
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Posted:Oct 9, 2011 5:45 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2016 6:56 pm
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Well things are starting to look up for us and soon we should have some time to meet people and get to know them and see where things go.
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12 June
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Posted:Jun 12, 2011 6:35 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2012 6:34 am
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Well it has been a long while since our last posting. Life has not gone the way we had planned and so had to put this part on the back burner. Since the last post S(Female) has been pushing to finish her college degree while still working and B lost his job. So one of us has too much work to be able to play and the other is too busy trying to find work to be able to play. But things are starting to long up, when you're on the bottom there is only one way to look, though the view kind of sucks from down here. We will again be slowly traveling down this road to see where it may lead. We think this break helped out a lot allowing us to step out of the rush of a new journey. We have discovered that though we like the idea of having sex with others it is the idea having sex with those who we consider friends, that is the true rush for us. Soe will be slowing our pace and focusing on one or two couples at a time. We will probably never be the type to meet someone and go right to bed, It will take us a little while to cozy up to the idea of having sex with an other couple. We hope you all have a great time with whatever you choose for yourself. Aloha
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2 May
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Posted:May 2, 2011 8:39 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2011 10:22 am
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Okay If you have read this blog you know how we got started in this "lifestyle". So we were wondering how others have gotten started. So please tell us your story on how things evolved for you.
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1 May
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Posted:May 1, 2011 8:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 8:8 pm
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Well getting back on topic today. Today wet met with that wonderful couple we met with on the 23rd of April. In talking with them just today prove how lucky we are. These two are good looking, intelligent, fun to be around and we never seem to run out of things to talk about. But we did not get a chance to talk about boundaries like we had planned. The restaurant that we were at just was not conducive to that type of conversation. So we tabled it for a later date.
For our part we are a bit more comfortable we them now. Wife is really happy that J took off his sun glasses so she could see his face. Sorry J but she was a bit disappointed that you played secret agent man and she couldn't see your face last time, lol. Well we talked about an hour while having lunch. We were all ready to discuss the sex portion but our voices seem to carry through the tiny restaurant. They were able to tell us that they read our blog and are okay with whatever we are comfortable with so that made it a little easier for us to continue this journey.
Well we need to work out schedules and hopefully get together again soon.
Aloha
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Off Topic
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Posted:Apr 29, 2011 11:48 am
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2016 6:55 pm
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Okay so as the title says this will be off our normal topic. Not that we don't like where this journey is taking us just hit a few bumps and need to spout off about it.
So, first off I need to apologize to those who actually know how to read and are courteous here on this site. This posting is meant for the others. Who seem to think that because they are here we all should be on our knees sucking their dicks.
Secondly, You should know that even though my wife is reading what I write, this entire post is written from a male prospective.
So my first complaint is why do you single males fake that you are a couple? Your profile screams single male and the way you write your emails scream that you are a single male. So beside yourself who do you think you are fooling? The one thing you single guys need to know, is that when a couple plays, for the most part, the male may be doing most of the contacting but it is the females that control the who, what, when and where. And the way you write screams single desperate male, not loving couple. So please be real.
Next up you pushy people. If we tell you in our profile that we do not like pushy people, then why do you show up in our email? You can send all the emails that you want demanding anything you want all that gets you is blocked. We are here for our pleasure and hope that in the process we bring pleasure to others. but if what you are giving us is not pleasurable then we will leave. It is that simple. If you do not like getting beaten with a stick and I keep beating you with a stick, are you going to keep coming back? So please people respect what others are looking for and if you do not match up then you do not match up.
And finally you LIARS. I guess this could have been covered in the single male faking to be a couple paragraph but it gets so much worse. I have heard of the ones that say they willing to meet up but never do, Though I have never experienced that, Thanks Moon and J. But I am talking about those that lie about their age, height, weight or body type. It will come out eventually so why lie about it. If you say you have an athletic body please let people know that your sport is SUMO WRESTLING. I am 5 feet 6 inches tall, I cannot change that. So why in the world would I tell someone I am 6 feet, if the ultimate goal is to get together naked. Don't you think it is going to show then.
So make the argument that if we talk long enough and we end up liking you with your lies then by the time we find out it will be too late for us to walk away. Just to let you know a little about that theory, it is never too late for us to walk away. And beside if we find out that you lied about one thing how do we know that you have not lied about every other item about yourself.
Again my apologies to those who are honest and respectful but I needed to put this out there so that I do not let it ruin the chance to meet some of the great people that are on here.
If you have run into these people, or if you have had other examples of rude behavior and need someone to vent to post it here.
Aloha and have a great day
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April 28
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Posted:Apr 28, 2011 9:42 am
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 11:37 am
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Well today marks 2 weeks of being committed to the lifestyle. We do not feel we should say we are in the lifestyle since we have not done anything except talk to people. Though that may change quite quickly. We are having lunch with the couple that we met with last week. Though this will probably be a strictly platonic meeting this will also probably be the last platonic meeting we have with them.
At our last meeting when parting we all agreed that at our next meeting we should discuss boundaries, so that will be the topic of conversation at lunch. Well for me I am pretty open to almost anything, while my wife has some concern over same room sex.She is also concerned that the guy may want to get a little rough. I am hoping she gets over the same room issue because my wife is hot and even hotter while having sex.
So we wait for Sunday and hope for the best
ALoha
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April 23
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Posted:Apr 23, 2011 10:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2011 8:46 pm
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Sorry for not posting yesterday but nothing happened. Same cannot be said for today. Today we met face to face with a couple who we have been chatting with here at Passion. After much talking between us and a sudden schedule change we were able to pull off a meet and greet. Of course before we actually met all the different scenarios were running through my head. We would meet and we wouldn't like each other. We would like them and they wouldn't like us. They would love one of us and not the other. And every other possible outcome.
We had scheduled the meet at 1030 but because of an emergency, wife wanted to get her hair done, we had to push it back to 1100, late last night. So I emailed them and had no response at the time I left for work. So to insure we do not miss them I showed up at 1015 to wait for them. Well they had gotten the message because at 1045 when my wife called to say she was on her way no one matching the description I was given was there. So I sit there by myself waiting thinking what if they had given me a false description and are sitting there watching me. Or had come in saw me and said "HELL NO" and left without letting me know.
Well 1055 comes and in walks a couple matching the description I was given. I look at the male and think "Oh, wife will like that" then I look at the female I think "ME LIKEY". I start to stand up to introduce myself when a thought runs through my little brain, what would they say when behind the mask of the internet they are talking to a couple but at the meet it is just a single male with a lame excuse why the wife is not there. NOT LIKE THAT HAPPENS HERE AT Passion. So I decide to wait till my wife gets there. The Couple takes a seat a bit away from me.
A few minutes later my wife arrives I point out who I think the couple is and we gather up our stuff and head over. Well they were the couple we were there to meet. So we say hello and I take an instant liking to them. Later I find out so did my wife. So I am expecting to talk, make some pleasantries, and schedule another meet later, half hour maybe forty five we are done. Well two hours later after talking about everything under the sun it is time for them to leave. We all got along great and all we were doing was talking and sex played a very small role in the conversation. Wive exchange cell numbers, we say our goodbyes and head off to do some errands before heading home.
Well of course while doing our errands the conversation is dominated by the meet and greet. We discuss what we thought, how we felt, what we are feeling now and whatever else we could talk about to over analyze this couple. Bottom line we like this couple and can see ourselves hanging out with them at the beach, or a movie or dinner, we would be okay with just doing nothing with them. We are open to where ever this encounter leads.
Well now we await the turning of the page for this story. Where it leads we are not completely sure but we walk this road together.
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April 20
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Posted:Apr 21, 2011 1:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2011 11:49 am
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Okay so it seems things are moving along, well a lot faster than we expected. We started a week ago and have exchanged face pics with a couple of friends, setting up a date to meet with a couple and a single female, and the setting up the monthly group meetings is taking it's first couple of steps. And the best part is the sex between us is more frequent and more intense, which is an unexpected surprise that we just love.
We were talking about how fast we have been moving along in this. We went from this not being even a thought to being on the verge of meeting our first couple and single female, both none sexually. With all this only taking a week, this does make us a bit nervous. We are worried that we are not good looking enough or not wild enough. But funny thing is that we don't think that as a couple, as a couple, we think, individually, that we will hamper the others chances of having fun. It is great knowing that in this adventure we are more worried about each other than ourselves.
So nervous, excited, and hopeful we continue on our journey.
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April 15-18 2011
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Posted:Apr 18, 2011 11:24 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2013 8:32 pm
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Well this is our blog on our journey into the world of swapping. We have decided to chronicle our trip down this road so that we can look back and see where we started and how this all plays out. Let's start with a little about us, We have been married for almost 19 years and have lived all our lives in Hawaii. Most of it, for both of us, on the Big Island.
So I guess our journey truly started in Nov. 2009. While away on on a trip, I had called my wife as we do whenever we are away from each other. During this call my wife says that her and her friends were having a conversation and someone asked "what do you guys think about open marriages?". They had seen it talked about on some daytime talk show. All the women gave there responses and my wife's response was she was curious. So my wife asked me "would you be okay with an open marriage?". I thought about it for a while and then said that I would be okay with it. Well that topic dominated the conversations between us for about a week when we finally decide that we would do it.
Well as we discussed the rules that we needed to follow for this "arrangement" my wife says that she would be uncomfortable with seeing me have sex with someone else or to have me watch her have sex with someone else and though I wanted to play together we decide that we would only play separately. Wife chose to only play with a friend that she had known since childhood and I chose to just play as the opportunity presented itself.
So now it is April 2011 and my wife had stopped play but allowed me to continue. Early evening of April 14th as we are talking on our bed my wife asked me if I would be willing to go to a swingers' party. I said yes but would you be comfortable since other people will probably see you having sex. She is not sure but is willing to see where things lead. Well we started as anybody would in this information age. We Googled Swingers club on the island and could not find one, so we contacted one on O'ahu to see if they might know of one on this island. They responded by saying that they have no affiliation with one on our island but would like us to head up a sister branch of their group for them. Thought that was strange since we told them that we had no experience with this lifestyle and knew no one in the lifestyle
April 15
Well, we decided to open a couple profile on Passion as a standard member an got some interest from a few couples but we could not few their profile as we were standard members.
April 16
After being contacted by a member that allowed standard members to view their profile we decided that we needed to get a premium membership. We viewed a few profiles we had emailed a couple and waited for a response. A few more profiles and we start to wink at couples that peak our interest. We also accepted our first friend request. At night we worked a bit on our profile adding pictures and more information.
April 17
Well we got a positive response to our email they are asking for pictures and we were a bit scared what if we are not good enough. well we put a few pictures together and send an email with more information about us. I know that they will respond well to my wife she is beautiful but my on the other hand could send them running to the hills. I guess adding pictures does help since adding picture we have had quite a few views, flirts and friend request. Viewed a few more profiles and sent a few flirts.
April 18
Today we started our blog and we have noticed how excited we are to take this journey. Though we are a bit nervous not knowing what to expect or not know how we will react to our first encounter. We are excited to be doing this.
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