About labels and definitions
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Posted:Aug 20, 2014 3:30 am
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Sexual labels and definitions are social constructs which unfortunately have a deep impact in our human sexuality. The existing moral divide implanted in our brain between different so called sexual orientations is a clear example of the subject being manipulated by these artificial constructs, among them we find the concepts of heterosexual normality and homosexual deviation. Trying to fit in these opposite extremes any other sexual manifestation and preferences which may not abide by the accepted social standards is an economic imperative of our current socio-economic environment since the diversity could undermine the accommodating bipolarity of what's good or wrong in sex following the oppressive morality of the moment.
As pure biological entities we belong to one of the rare species in the planet where sex is not just a reproductive instinct but an integral part of our interaction with other human beings. In our case sex is an inseparable mix of need and desire. If we tried to apply our labels and definitions to the other species known to be involved in sexual activities beyond the rigid biological reproductive obligation, we would have to face a gruesome dilemma. They simply ignore our rules and therefore display a wide variety of sexual activities where the same individuals engage with both genders following only temporary and circumstantial factors. Are they then naturally born bisexuals? No, they just don't need any labels. There is no need for them to define themselves within any shade of the sexual spectrum since they may move without distinctions along this same wide spectrum according to the factors mentioned earlier.
Then what happened to us? What makes us different from the bonobo apes or dolphins with respect to our sexuality? If you read The History of Sexuality by Michael Foucault there is an interesting thesis which I believe may explain this awkward situation in which we are now. Sexuality was transformed during the Victorian times into just another instrument of oppression. The elite wanted people to focus on their work, to increase the productivity and thus multiply the profits. Sex was an undesirable distraction and needed to be confined exclusively to the matrimony bedroom and for the unique purpose of reproduction. Nobody should even talk about sex acts in public. This thesis allowed me to understand that sex has been also mixed into the same cauldron of oppressive tools together with religious institutions and bourgeoise morals in order to suppress any manifestation of free will which could affect the productive output of the individual worker.
If we link the History of Sexuality with the previous scientific fact about the open sexual behavior of the other sexually active species, we should arrive to a compelling conclusion that sexual orientation, as it's understood in our current world, is a cynic artificial invention forced into our own state of mind and imprinted in the internal and external projection of our self within the existing socio-economic framework. What we see today as the standard, the so called heterosexual normality, is not a natural phenomenon nor the result of any evolutive process taking place in our social mind. It is simply an artificial creation, a social construct to serve the governing elite in their purpose to extract more profit and to keep the masses submissive and focused exclusively on their work. Only by recognizing this fact, this social construct could be then successfully deconstructed.
Humans like the other sexually active species are born without prejudices or any firm unchangeable sexual preference. With the exception of a truly hormonal distortion which could affect the biological inner self gender and thus making someone to become inclined into following the sexual behavior of the opposite sex, the rest of us are supposed not to follow any preset rules about what we should desire and the way we could obtain personal gratification from sex. We should respond exclusively to the circumstantial and temporary factors mentioned before like availability, compatibility and our own sudden sexual impulses of the instant. The way we decide to engage in sexual activities with someone in specific or with various individuals together from both genders should be an exclusive non judgmental process happening in our brains where we would analyze only those specific circumstantial and temporary factors mentioned above instead of constantly reaffirming a repulsion for this or that type of sex. We really believe that these repulsive feelings are certain and natural without knowing that they were simply implanted long time ago in our social mind.
In summary, the monogamous heterosexual normality is just an invention so deeply imprinted in our brain that we truly believe it is something that most people would follow by instinct while the other forms of sexuality are merely deviation of that norm. Homosexuality situated on the other extreme of the spectrum is trying now to gain social recognition and to establish itself also like an alternative norm for those who claim being born that way. In my opinion there is no point in encapsulating our human sexuality in either of these extremes and a mistake implying that these are natural states of mind defining someone to be born straight or gay. I'm not saying it is a choice because it is not, but we haven't found yet a gene that defines sexual preferences from the moment we were born.
Sexuality should be separated from the rest of our social behaviors because being a biological urge to receive gratification from sex is not a cause for projecting ourselves as representatives of a specific norm of sexual conduct. We should get rid of these internal and external taboos and feel free to experiment with any form of sexuality without having to put a label or fit into an imposed definition. Socially we are entities well above the sexual preferences of everyone. Sex is just for our own very private entertainment and should never have become a social issue nor a political flag. However, due to the existing conditions, the long term repression of our sexuality, the degradation of homosexuality and the oppression of women, it's understandable and totally necessary to fight for our rights and to get the recognition we deserve as sexual beings no matter what preferences we believe we have. On the other hand, this should not be an obstacle for our own internal liberation from the same taboos and preset norms we are trying to fight at the social level. By first stripping ourselves from the labels and definitions we can then experiment and explore every single way of obtaining sexual gratification and be bound only by the criminal code forbidding non consensual sex, the only restriction which should stay in place inside our minds.
That was supposed to be our true History of Sexuality until the production relationships entered in the equation together with one of the most horrible crimes committed by our specie, the oppression of our females by the males. This gender oriented power structure in our human society undoubtedly created the imprint in our minds about the superiority of the masculine over the female and therefore the association between authority and virility. Any submissive role taken by a male in sexual interactions was viewed as a lack of virility and therefore socially and mentally diminishing. This together with the requirement to suppress sexuality in general made possible the establishment of the monogamous heterosexual normality and the social degradation of anything outside of that imposed standard.
I'm totally convinced that if we could hypothetically isolated a small group of human babies and follow up from a distance their social evolution focusing exclusively on their sexual behaviour we would be able to witness a large spectrum of preferences these individuals would develop once they had reached their puberty. Under the lack of externally preset norms, we should expect that a great diversity of sexual interactions would be displayed among the subjects without any specific gender preference. Following this line of thoughts in that direction it would be impossible to define one specific set of sexual cannons as innate or the natural outcome. Therefore we should arrive to the conclusion that our normative standards enclosing human sexual behaviour are entirely determined by the dominating type of production relationships and enforced through known tools like the religious morality, the conservative traditionalism and the political and economic existing framework.
I do believe that the origin of the monogamous heterosexual normality currently predominant in our modern society was born under the influence of these external non biological factors which we can call social constructs. Meaning that the socio-economic environment is the one that dictates how we as individuals view our own sexuality and forces us to encapsulate our mind in an apparent natural state which defines our so called sexual orientation which then must be constantly projected towards our internal self and also outside to the social being that we represent.
Sexual preferences if left alone and outside of the social framework would develop spontaneously and in response to circumstantial and temporary factors, changing and evolving indistinctly and without any moral ranking. In this scenario the use of sexual orientation as a social identifier would be not only superfluous but damaging because as soon as sexuality becomes part of the definition of who we are as social beings, there would be the need to apply the concepts of right and wrong to these interactions and be measured using the same rules of conduct as with the rest of our social behaviors. Therefore we should stay away from any labels or definitions and feel free to search for new ways to expand our own sexual pleasures without having all the time to ask if this type of sexual interaction is right or wrong, or question ourselves if by doing this or that we are gays or straights or bisexuals.
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A Special Friend
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Posted:Jul 27, 2015 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:18 pm
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A Special Friend
The door was open. He knew we were waiting for him. He stepped inside the house, closed the door behind and called "hello, I'm home, honeys!" My wife and I rushed to meet him with a wide smile in our faces. He embraced both of us and placed a kiss in our lips. We went to the kitchen and while I prepared some drinks we did the usual small talks about our families, work, daily life for the past week. Summertime it was and we went to our patio with the drinks in our hands. My wife was wearing a tight black dress with no underwear. I was covered only by a bathrobe. He stripped naked as soon as we came to the patio and sat on the chair with his drink and a cigar. My wife and I admired the view and smiled wider when his dick started to twitch and soon was up pointing to the sunny sky.
The conversation sitting around the patio table didn't last long since he wanted to jump in the hottub with us and his toy was desperately claiming our attention. I opened the lid of the jacuzzi and took of my robe. He and I, stark naked under the sunny evening, approached my wife and together helped her out of her dress. Then he embraced us again harder with his strong arms and guided us to enter the hottub.
Once in the warm water he placed himself in the middle, his arms over our shoulders and our legs pressed against each other. Through the transparent liquid I enjoyed the contrast of colors of our skins together, a descending gradient starting from my darker tone passing through his lightly tanned one to the pale white of my wife. His arms squeezed our heads toward his and we all kissed together. My wife was the first to take care of his throbbing toy which danced freely like a submerged pole in between us. She grabbed his dick with her tiny hand. He placed one hand in between her legs and the other hand encircled my dick and balls together in a tight grip. I started to feel his chest with my left hand stopping briefly to play with his nipples. The three of us were moaning softly, each of us being pleasured by a hand or two, our feet and legs entangled together under the water, our faces against each other, kissing and rubbing,
Next he made us sit on his laps, each of us on one of his legs. His hands were now making me and my wife moan even louder. I continued rubbing his chest with one hand and the other went down to help my wife with caressing his dick and balls. My wife and I kissed passionately while he watched us increasing the speed of his strokes. My wife and I did the same with him. The moans became even louder barely muffled by the background chill out music playing from the outdoor speakers.
He then sat on the border of the tub to refresh a little. My wife and I graded each of us one of his legs and placed our faces to rest on his thighs looking mesmerized at the straight up pointing pole in the middle between her eyes and mine. We both smiled and start to kiss it at the same time while his feet were rubbing against hers and mine centers of pleasure and his hands were caressing our heads guiding them slowly and gently up and down his shaft and balls. I stretched out one had to grab his foot rubbing my wife and guided his big toe to stroke in between her legs. My wife grabbed my dick and started rubbing it against his other foot under the water.
We both looked up at him. His eyes were closed focusing on the amazing pleasure of two mouths and tongues fighting hungrily for his hard cock and the caressing of his feet by our hands and genitals.
Feeling he was about to explode, he made us stop and jumped back inside the tub. He grabbed me and pushed my back against his chest making me sit on his laps, his dick went between my legs and under my balls to get out just below mine. He took my wife by the arms and make her embrace both of us, her pussy rubbing against the two dicks and her pointy breast pressed firmly against my chest. He was rubbing my chest and her breast at the same time. He kissed my neck while I kissed my wife. Next it was my wife who got sandwiched in between us sitting on his laps. I took her previous position, my dick touching his and both rubbing together while pleasuring my wife at the same time. My knees started to hurt a little. I sat back and he grabbed my dick in between his feet. I watched how he caressed my wife breast and they kissed, his dick throbbing wildly under my wife's pussy. His feet were stroking faster my dick while I caressed his toes with my hands. My wife was moaning again louder and I couldn't resist the temptation to grab his hard toy and start playing with it teasing my wife, rubbing it agains her clit. And this proceedings soon made her to climax into her first orgasm.
Enough of hottub, she said, and we decided it was time to take the play to our bedroom. We went up the stairs forming a train chain, my wife first with me grabbing her tits and pushing my dick against her back, he followed behind me grabbing both of us at the same time and I could feel his hard pointy toy pinching my ass. Once in the bedroom he jumped in the middle of the king size bed and opened his arms calling us to each of his sides. We crawled on the bed to cuddle with him under his arms, our face resting on his chest, our legs all entangled together. We started kissing his chest, tongues plying with his nipples, knees rubbing against his cock. He encouraged us by caressing our heads and shoulders.
My wife stretched up to reach his mouth and kiss him, I joined them for a bit but then I moved down his body until my face reached his dick. My mouth engulfed it at once without hesitation and he let escape a loud moan. He stretched his arm for his hand to grab my dick without stopping kissing my wife. He started stroking gently my dick and balls while I was sucking his and caressing his legs. My wife mounted him like a cowgirl and moved her pussy down to where my face was. I got the chance to lick both together, her clit and his cock. Slowly I guided his tool inside her and she started to ride it like it was not tomorrow. I then began to lick his balls and under them while he stroked faster my dick with his hand. My wife stopped kissing him and stretched up sitting on his laps with his cock inside. I moved again and also saddled on his chest facing my wife. He grabbed my dick again and started rubbing it against my wife's clit. She was leaning back and riding his pole slowly while I was licking her breast and feeling his breath close to my lower back. I pushed back until I could feel his hot tongue pushing to reach my ass. He continued stroking my dick against my wife and started to set the pace of her ride on his toy by bending his knee and pushing it in and out of her pussy.
My wife was now screaming with pleasure and soon she got her second orgasm of the day. Listening to their moans I was about to burst a load when I dismounted our special friend and went in between his legs. My wife rested her body on his without letting him out of her. I lifted his legs over my shoulders exposing his ass to me while my wife started slowly riding him again. I started to explore his ass with my tongue, his balls squeezed against my nose and my hands stroking his hairy legs. My wife had him pinned under her hands by his chest. He started to moan widely and my wife increased her pace riding his cock up and down. My tongue got further inside his ass while with one hand I was gently rubbing his balls, the base of his dick and my wife's pussy all at the same time. He grabbed my wife's breast with both hands and she picked up more speed. His balls were bouncing over my nose and my tongue was trying to follow up and down the movement of his ass. She was moaning very loud and soon she started screaming with pleasure. Her third orgasm almost brought him too to his climax. I could feel his ass contracting around my tongue and his ball tightening over my nose. But my wife was exhausted and wanted to go the bathroom which she did.
He then made me lay down on my back and crawled in between my legs facing my dick. He engulfed my dick with his mouth while caressing my chest with his hands, he also licked my balls and my ass and back again to suck my cock. My wife came back soon from the bathroom and joined him sucking my dick. It was always an extraordinary sensation having two mouth and tongues pleasuring me and I started to moan. Then he made my wife mount me facing me. We kissed while he was directing the scene. He lifted my legs over his shoulders with my wife leaning her body over my chest and on her knees on each side of me so everything was easily accessible for him. I felt very exposed with my legs straight up and my dick and balls just below my wife's lifted pussy. Then he started to gently spank us with his hard cock, sometimes he hit my ass or my balls or her pussy. At some point he got closer and grabbed my dick positioning it together with his and started pushing them against my wife's exposed pussy. Slowly he managed to get them both inside her at least partially. My wife was moaning uncontrollably. Then I felt his hand squeezing softly my balls and soon a finger picking around my ass with the cool sensation of some lube being inserted in it. He increased the pace, his finger massaging my prostate and my cock being rubbed against his inside my wife pussy while she was kissing me, was driving me crazy. He grabbed my right foot and started licking my sole and sucking my toes. My wife pushed back against his cock. Mine escaped out of her pussy leaving him the room to get in deeper. I took my cock and began rubbing it furiously against my wife's clit. The sensation was overwhelming for both her and me and together we soon reached a fantastic climax followed by his savage growl when he leaned his chest over my wife and started pumping faster and deeper. His body started to shake and a muffled scream signaled his intensive orgasm as well. He left his body rest motionless over my wife and me for a few minutes before moving to my left side on his back. My wife did the same to the other side of me. The three of us smiling with pleasure still under the influence of our respective orgasmic instants.
Next he grabbed me by the chest and pushed me to lay on my side and against his body, his still hard cock resting firmly in between my ass, his chest pressed hard against my back. I did the same to my wife, grabbing her by her breast and pushing her gently her back against my body. His arm went over me to caress my wife's body while I could feel his agitated breath on my neck and his cock getting softer but still hot pressed against my ass. The three of us exhausted rested our bodies entangled together and we closed our eyes.
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The Un-Gendering of the Soul, stepping out of the box.
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Posted:Sep 15, 2014 12:53 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:19 pm
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Everybody has heard of the expressions "open your mind" and "free your mind" when speaking among other things about sex. Well, there are two different approaches enclosed in these two statements when talking precisely about sex. The first one refers to the ability to lower our constructed barriers and to accept a certain level of experimenting outside of the box. The second predicament, which looks similar but it's not the same, refers to the need of bringing down those barriers for good and letting us to step outside of the box completely. The first one, to open our mind, could be seen as a transition before taking the next broader step, or it could be understood as an attempt to try new things, evaluate them and maybe come back to the safety of the box with the usual outcome of making us believe that we did not like the experience and therefore we will not try it again. In this scenario the second step is never taken and we convince ourselves that the original boundaries must stay in place since they are supposed to be the natural state of things. However, when the second step is taken, things suddenly change for good and a sense of liberation finally settles in our mind. This is what I call the Un-Gendering of the Soul.
Sex can be practiced at a pure physical level, there is no doubt about that. In this case to open your mind and explore different venues is part of the plain physical reality in which we all thrive some way or another. But even when we go ahead and try some limited exploration outside of the box, we are mostly prone to keep some anchors that allow us to stay attached to the social constructs which had been preset almost from birth in our mind and to come back to the box. Meaning that we may try this and that but always return safely to the sexual identity we think we have to project to the outside world and to our own internal self.
On the other hand, sex can also be experienced at a deeper spiritual level when the participants tend to establish a strong link between their souls. This can be achieved only when we are able to reach climatic points by extracting the same type of physical and emotional pleasure from the others entangled together in the same sexual activity. Once we realize the vast spectrum of experiences that opening this door provides to everyone, there is no coming back to the limitations existing within the boundaries of the box. The gender of the person receiving our attention stop being an issue because we feel connected to that person, because we want that person to feel a climatic sensation and because we will also feel satisfied by reaching this objective of getting pleasure by providing pleasure to someone you care for. At the same time we must follow the flow and let the others, no matter what gender they are, to do the same to us, because we understand that they will be pleasured by pleasuring us as well. This total freedom of doing what you want, feeling what others feel, and engaging in a mutual rendering of any imaginable and unimaginable type of pleasure among all the participants without gender restrictions, becomes the true liberation of our sexual mind.
This liberation of our sexual mind is part of the task of freeing our soul from the box. It is one of the way to overcome the social barriers and taboos imposed by the external framework and artificially adopted by our own internal identity. Some of us are not yet ready and even may feel proud of that closeted state of mind when they refuse to even try it. They simply don't see the point and prefer to look outside of the box only through the narrow filtering windows exposed for them through the biased media for them to judge and criticize and to stay away from any discordant note sanctioned by the social framework. However, in my experience, many of us are actually willing to cross the border given the right circumstances, not just to explore and see how the world looks outside of the box, but actually to feel and enjoy being part of that free space. And again, once that step is taken, it becomes a mind blowing experience which destroys the box entirely and for good.
The Un-Gendering of the Soul is this process of freeing our own identity from the sexual restrictions imposed by the conditioning of a biological form to a socially expected behaviour. A man is expected to enjoy sex only with a woman, to be the dominant factor, the penetrator, and a woman is supposed to like being pleasured only by a man, to play the submissive female role and to be at the receiving end most of the time. These social constructs embedded deeply in our sexual identities conform the box, the limits, the boundaries, and anything outside that box is the forbidden, the taboos, the things that threaten the very essence of who we are, both our projection to the outside world and to the internal mirror where we see ourselves. Therefore stepping outside of the box may seem like an enormous risk, something extremely hard to achieve. But in reality, once it's understood that everything we have been told about sexual orientations, preferences and identities are just pure inventions created in order to make the current social framework functioning as expected, it becomes almost the natural thing to do.
Let's imagine the following scenario. A same sex friend of yours has a bad accident and is not able to use his or her hands because they are both bandaged. This situation will not be resolved for a long time. The person needs help with everything, getting dressed, going to the toilet and you are the closest helper in sight. The friendship between you both runs very strong and you are willing to do things that could be embarrassing for both, if it is a male, you as a man feels a little awkward having to change his clothes or hold his penis while he is urinating and that kind of things, the same if it is a female and you are a woman having to wipe her vagina and helping her in the shower. But then one day there is a very hot conversation between you both about sex and the person ask you for a great favour, he or she needs help masturbating. It has been many weeks already in this situation and it's becoming unbearable for him or for her, especially if it is happening at a young age. What would you do under the circumstances? If you want to keep everything strictly in the box you will obviously deny him or her the favour. The taboo weights too heavy inside your mind and you prefer to leave your friend in misery rather than step outside of the box, even for just once. Or maybe you will consider the gravity of the situation, make an excuse to yourself for doing something against your principles based only on compassionate circumstances and go ahead and do it just once. During the act you feel repulsion, avoid eye contact and when finished you rush to the bathroom to wash your hands. Or maybe you really care for that friend of yours so much that you would like that person to have an enjoyable experience, so you go beyond the impersonal strokes and feel his/her body in a sensual way so the climax is reached in a more natural and pleasant environment.
These three different choices mark the distinct degrees of self confidence, real love for the friend and your own courage to cross the borders and drive on the left lane. What would you finally do will depends on these three factors. However, the outcome will be different. In the first choice both you and your friend are kept safe inside the box. In the second one you both had opened your minds to agree at least for one time to step outside of the box and see what happens. At the end you both may come back to the box with the excuse of the uniqueness of the specific situation. But at least one border had been crossed once and it could lead to more experimenting in the future if both are willing to explore the other side. The third option would definitively help in the process of freeing your minds. The barriers were brought down and the comfortable feeling of achieving a pleasurable state was mutual even when only your friend was the one who reached the climax under your manipulations.
This hypothetical scenario is a forcible factor, I agree, but just playing it in our imagination gives us an idea of how far would we be willing to go in breaking the rules of the box for satisfying the need of a dear friend. If this connection exists, if the souls are truly surfing the same empathy wave, then you will be able to understand the need for the Un-Gendering of the Soul. We are not talking about a romantic engagement with that same sex person, which may or not happen later on, but just about a special type of friendship with benefits and no other string attached. If we added more emotional factors to the relationship it would obviously become a little more complicated, but we could make it stay at the level of just really good friends who may have romantic relationships with others and who also enjoy good times together, alone or in the company of one or more of the other romantic partners.
In summary, the Un-Gendering of the Soul, even at a friendship level without a romantic engagement, is a necessity if we truly want to step outside of the box and experience sex in a new broader realm, free of taboos and socially imposed restrictions, exploring the vast diversity of pleasures and reaching the point where we finally get there where we are supposed to be, free souls navigating the sea of life following only our true will and the pursue of happiness for everyone.
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The Seduction of a Married Coiple
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Posted:Aug 30, 2014 11:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:19 pm
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The seduction of a married couple
He is in! It took several picture swaps and a dozen of emails to convince the couple that he was the right one to get their invitation. He knew that they had been looking for a while and that others in the site were trying to get in too. How come he had ended up in this situation, fighting with all his strength to get noticed by this couple? First he liked the simple way they had described themselves in their profile. Among a very well written introduction and mind blowing blogs, they mentioned that they wanted to explore their sexuality with a bi curious or bisexual man. He considered himself as straight as a pole, never the slightest question about it. He had never been with another man and never had a thought about it. Well, that's not exactly true. Most men had sometime thought of how would it be to have some limited interaction with another male maybe in a threesome. He had been lucky enough to try before once with a young couple. It happened two years ago and it was an amazing memory. Sex was just around satisfying the woman, but at some point the guy took his cock and used it to brush his woman's pussy. He remembered the weird touch, the manly hand wrapped around his organ and to his own surprise it wasn't that bad as he had thought. But that was all the contact he ever had with another guy.
He wondered why he answered this ad in first place. The woman in the pictures looked very sexy, indeed. The guy in the pictures wasn't intimidating at all. But that wasn't the real reason. There was something more profound which he felt arousing his interest while reading the blogs posted by this married couple in their late forties. He was intrigued by the description of a very new thing he never had tried before, like being in the middle of a couple in love, sharing their intimate moments not as an observer but as an active participant of those private instants. How could that be, how would he feel being sandwiched in between two people, having a man and a woman worshiping every inch of his body, cuddling together, that feeling of becoming not just a sexual toy for them to be used, which already was a big turn on even if everything was about just that, but to be also the target of a loving and tender dual attention from a real married couple? He really wanted to experience that, at least once.
Finally he decided to give it a try. When he started emailing with them he was a little sceptic. Maybe it was a trap. Maybe the profile was a fake, some guy who invented a wife to attract straight guys into his web of lies. But the blogs looked so real that he persevered even when the man was the only person in the couple with whom he had been having a conversation through the emails. He started just the correct way, instead of sending them a picture of his dick, he sent them a picture of him fully dressed with face and his killing smile, the same picture he would use when trying to hookup with a classy lady in an online dating site. Secondly he directed the conversation to the right spots, using spicy words but not overly sexual, aiming more to the sensuality and tenderness described by the couple in their blogs. Third he decided to go all the way and to be completely honest from the start. Being honest was something very hard to do in the lifestyle, it felt like striping naked in front of others without knowing if they would follow and do the same or just watch, laugh and leave. But he thought that in this case it was worthy taking the risk. So he did it.
He explained that he had never been with another man before, not even in a threesome, and that the way the couple described what they were looking for was something he had never encountered before in the lifestyle. It was true that many single women said in their profiles that they were interested in pursuing a more serious relationship with the guy. Most men were on the other hand allergic to that sort of reasoning and avoided any type of commitment. But sometimes it happened and great friendships developed in between two people who met for a while and the chemistry had worked fine. Only he had never heard of a functioning true relationship among a man on one side and a married couple on the other. He knew of some polyamory cases, but those were the exceptions, mostly when a couple added another woman to their bed and, besides, this couple clearly stated that they weren't looking for a third in their marriage. However, it was obvious that these guys were into something different, something more intimate than just a good moment of fun. And that was precisely the thing that intrigued him the most.
He always had this fantasy of having a regular couple to play. Why a couple? He really didn't know, but he thought it was something more stable and safe to play with a married couple. On the other hand in his mind, a threesome with a couple was only about servicing the woman, two men enjoying and sharing a female body. Mathematically speaking MFM were the best scenarios. To truly satisfy a woman requires a good amount of physical effort and being in his forties it was becoming a true challenge for him. With two guys engaged in the same effort, the possibilities were unlimited and the woman would always get more than she wanted. This was his original reasoning when he started looking for a couple and not just women, but in this case there was a twist to the story. The couple had clearly specified that they were not into focusing on anyone but on the three at once without stupid rules or taboos of any kind. That statement made him to be full of doubts. He tried to imagine himself touching a guy and he couldn't picture it in his mind. He may be fine allowing the other guy touch him and even suck his cock together with the wife, but that was the furthest he could make his imagination work in this scenario. In any case, that was his plan anyway, just get in and then see if he could get away with what he wanted without feeling too uncomfortable with the husband.
He read their blogs several times. He had to credit some good points to the writings. It's true that the social taboos were too strong inside his mind. He recognized that he had nothing against bisexuals, but he truly never felt any attraction for the male body. Although there was something in this couple that had made him take a step outside of his comfort zone and try to get together with them at any cost. Of course he knew it wouldn't be easy. These guys were talking not just with him. There were others, some even openly bisexuals who obviously looked like the more fitting candidates for them and the couple had also said that they were looking for just one special friend. But for them in order to select the right guy they would have to meet with some of them first and he was hoping to at least enjoy a good time with that sexy woman in the picture if at the end he couldn't overcome his reluctance to engage sexually in any way with the husband.
Finally he got in. The couple accepted to invite him over to their place. The rules were very simple. They would first have a chat with some drinks in the living room. Then if everybody was fine with the initial impressions they would jump together in the hottub, naked, and continue to chat with more drinks and then, if the chemistry developed in the right direction, they may take him to their bed. At any time, even in the hottub, he could just leave or the couple could just limit the encounter to some adventurous touching under the water but never consummate the act in their bedroom, meaning that he was out. Those were the rules. He understood it was not a case of two desperate horny people looking for a third to enjoy themselves, but a more lengthy approval process he was putting himself in. Was he ready for the challenge? He thought he was. He actually wanted to win the competition and become the one. He had decided to give it try and he wanted that to happen, but for that he needed to walk on a very thin line where the couple would be watching and judging every word he said and every move he made. His ultimate goal was to get in bed with them, let the guy touch him and then claim his reward, the sexy lady from the picture.
When he arrived to their home he immediately noticed that this couple was different. They were very polite, the house was beautiful and nothing indicated any rush or sexual charge in their attitude. He felt like he was visiting a couple of friends. They were well dressed and invited him for a drink keeping at all times a prudent distance. He was seated in an arm chair and the couple sat on a sofa in front of him. The first impressions were good and it seemed to be working fine from both sides. He had put on a casual attire, a long sleeve shirt and trousers. She had a beautiful black night dress and high heels. The guy was also wearing casual clothing similar to his. The woman was beautiful, much more beautiful than she looked in the picture. The guy was fine, a little short, a little chubby, but in any case, he wasn't interested in him, at least in the physical aspect. All his attention was focusing on her, but he soon understood that he had to be careful or the couple would reject him for doing just exactly that costly mistake. He thought he would have force himself to look neutral. However, as soon as they started chatting it was like revelation for him. These two guys were really educated people, sympathetic with his situation of being the guest in their house and were doing a great effort to make him feel comfortable. Soon he felt like he had known these guys for a long time. They spoke about everything, their travels abroad, their interests in art and culture, their background and they asked similar questions. At the beginning he felt a little afraid of saying something wrong, but after a while he understood that the best way to go was to be himself and fully sincere from the beginning. He had barely travel abroad except for some vacations to the south. He was a simple ordinary guy with some college degree but good for him he loved reading books all the time and that helped him finding very soon a common ground where to focus their conversation. History, politics and philosophy were his natural strength and he could very well navigate in those waters and answer all the questions with a similar level of sounded knowledge like these other two had. He soon sensed that he had past the first test. Besides never acting aggressive or pushy, he knew when and how to insert the right compliments to both of them in the middle of the conversation. Once he celebrated her dress and her hair. Another time he mentioned how young the guy looked for his age. The right smiles in their faces told him he was going in the right direction.
The invitation to the hottub didn't delay that much and after less than an hour of a very soft interrogatory that looked more like a spontaneous conversation, the husband said why they didn't continue the interesting chat they were having together in their hottub in the patio. That would serve as an obvious ice breaker, the moment of truth when everyone had to get naked in front of the others. He had never been shy in shedding off his clothes so he was the first to jump naked in the tub. The guy followed him while the wife went upstairs taking her time to fix her hair so it didn't get wet. For a second the thought of being alone and naked with another guy in the hottub came to his mind. The old taboos were trying to surface, but he just smiled and bravely made a move so their legs were touching under the water. That move was a key one. He had to make the husband understand that he had nothing against feeling the naked skin of another guy against his. He knew he wasn't being totally honest. He did that on purpose like a premeditated step to gain the husband's confidence since the guy had stated very clear in his profile that he was bisexual. And then she came in to the hottub wrapped in a towel with a sexy cap on her head to protect her hair. Graciously she took off the towel and entered totally naked, her beautiful white body shinning under the dimmed light of the half moon in the sky. He couldn't stop looking at her amazing greenish eyes. Her look of lust and happiness was overwhelming. He had to forced himself to look at the husband too. He knew the guy was thoroughly observing his every reaction. So now he was facing the most difficult task he had ever had in his entire sexual life, how to seduce a married couple, how to make them feel comfortable with him and let them know that he was up for the challenge.
He didn't know how to proceed. He never had been in this type of situation before. Should he wait for them to do the first move or should he initiate some approach and if so in which direction? He understood that he could try to identify who was the leader in the couple. If it happened to be the woman it would be much easier for him, but if the husband was the commander in chief, a little mistake could be the end of everything he had been working for so far and so hard. He made again the exact right move. Instead of going for one or another, he touched both on their shoulders and that was like an electrifying moment for him. For the first time in his life he wasn't blinded by the desire to feel a naked woman with his hands. He actually liked to be with both of them in that hottub, the way they smiled to each other and to him, the subtle movements of their feet under the water to accommodate his presence in between them.
They got closer to him and at the same time the couple started kissing softly first and then with increasing passion. He watched from a very short distance as his dick responded with a twitch and began an enormous erection under the water, sometimes pressed against the hairy leg of the man, sometimes against the smooth leg of the woman, and that was totally fine. Then the husband grabbed his neck and gently pushed him into their kiss. He closed his eyes and let it happen. He felt the two mouth on his face and their tongues exploring inside his mouth. It was a brand new feeling being kissed at the same time by a man and a woman. The difference in texture and taste was a very curious one, even exciting sensing his dick pulsating with anticipation. He embraced both with his arms, feeling the heat from both bodies, male and female, in his hands and against his chest. At last a hand went down and grabbed his dick which was screaming for attention. He even didn't try to know which one, it just felt amazingly hot and somehow right. He wanted to thank that friendly hand. Breaking the three way kiss, he explored a little the neck of the woman with his mouth. She moved to his side and ended up,sitting on his left leg. The husband was still kissing her and he felt the man's erection pushing on his other leg. He moved his right leg to make some friction and the guy moaned, only then he realized that the hand on his dick was the husband's and he smiled. That wasn't too bad. After all the guy knew how to handle it, the right pressure on the right spots. He grabbed the husband by the arm and made him also sit on his lap beside the wife. He moved one hand down to feel her wet pussy and the other cupped the balls of the husband. They were now all moaning like a chorus of strange but exhilarating sounds. He then grabbed both by the neck and forced them to kiss him again.
Time had stopped for him. The background music, the candles in the patio, the kisses and the touching were much more than he had expected in his wildest imagination. When the husband suggested to go to their bedroom he even didn't notice that he had past the second test. For him it was just a natural following to what they had been doing in the hottub. The wife exited the hottub first and wrapped in her towel went into the house. The husband was about to follow but he wanted to thank this man for having allowed him to share this special moment of their intimacy. He grabbed the husband by the shoulders and pushed him down again in the water placed him within his legs, the back against his chest and he embraced the guy. He kissed the husband on the neck and grabbed his dick. The guy wasn't hard but obviously enjoyed his unexpected move. After a few seconds he released the husband and followed him upstairs to the bedroom.
The wife was in the bathroom. The two guys jumped together in the bed. He again pushed the husband against his body, the back again this chest and his hand wrapped around the man's dick. It was a new and weird feeling, but he really wanted to make the guy feel good, comfortable, and desired. He stroke for the first time another man's cock and even when it wasn't even closer to the feeling of touching a wet pussy, there was undoubtedly some mix of the forbidden and the fact that he really had started to like this man as a person with whom he would readily start a friendship, a solid one, in an instant. This made him feel compelled to make that guy happy and if stroking his dick and pushing his own erection again the hairy ass of the man was the way right now he could fulfill this desire, so be it.
The woman finally made her entrance, totally naked, her red hair floating like a fire around her beautiful face. She moved like a cat, softly entering the bed scenario and sliding her soft and smooth slim body in between them breaking their embrace. The husband turned around to face her and he hugged her from behind. He moved his hand in between her legs to find the man's dick resting against her pussy. He grabbed the soft dick and started to brush it against the wetness of her. They both moaned with pleasure. He kissed her on the neck. The husband extended his arm to embrace both his wife and him. He could feel his own erection going wild pushing against the smooth ass of the woman.
After a moment the wife gently pushed him to lay back and quickly saddled herself on his waist and started to kiss him. The husband moved in between his legs and began to caress his feet and up his legs until his hands were playing with both his clock and balls. He couldn't see the man because the sexy wife was in the middle kissing him, but he felt every touch and his dick responded with a full blown hard on which required immediate attention. He didn't have to wait long until he felt the warm of the husband's mouth engulfing his throbbing cock. The guy sucked his dick like an expert, moving his tongue along the shaft and pressing the head with his lips.
He was now kissing the wife with passion and feeling her perky breasts with both hands. If the man down there continued in this fashion he wouldn't last too long, but the husband understood and stopped. He felt a hot tongue going down his balls and even further until it started inquiring around the entrance to his man hole. His first reaction was to clench his ass to deter the intrusion, but the tongue insisted and it felt good. He finally relaxed and let it explore as the guy wished, in the while he also felt a hand placing a condom on his dick and then the wife moved a little downward, grabbed his cock and placed it in position. She let him in very slowly without breaking their kiss, the sensation of the hot tongue playing with his ass and the warm wetness of the woman surrounding his cock was the best ever he had experienced so far. She started moving back and forth with his dick inside her. He knew that he was too close and he didn't want to disappoint the woman. He tried to focus on the man working down there with his tongue in his ass, but that didn't help, on the contrary, the sensations of the erogenous nerves in that area were too much to handle and the view of the woman who had now broken the kiss and was riding him like it a cowgirl on her was driving him totally crazy and out of his mind.
She began to moan even louder. The guy had stooped licking his ass and moved to his side placing his dick against his face. The husband didn't force anything, he just let it rest on his right cheek. But he wanted now to please both of them at the same time. He moved his face until the strange cock was touching his lips and he sucked it inside his mouth. This was the first time he had a cock in his mouth. The taste was a little salty but nothing repulsive as he had imagined. The texture was silky and warm. He did the best he could but he knew he wasn't an expert and focused only in keeping his teeth out of the way. In the while the wife had increased the pace and was moaning like crazy. He felt now very close getting to the point of no return. The husband took his dick out of his mouth and started to stroke it fast against his lips. He was squeezing with one hand one of the woman's breast and with the other he had grabbed the guy by his ass keeping him close to his face. The first to scream in absolute pleasure was the wife, her body was shaking and he could feel the contractions of her vagina squeezing his cock. That was too much for him, seeing these amazing people enjoying his naked body in every possible way made him explode in a fantastic orgasm almost at the same time that the husband began to shoot his load all over his face. He closed his eyes and tentatively opened his lips and got a drop with his tongue. The taste was again salty and the texture sticky but nothing out of the ordinary. He looked at the wife and she nodded. She wanted him to taste it and he did it. He used his tongue to take some of the white stuff covering his face. The wife joined him and began to lick his face, the husband did the same and the three of them ended up kissing passionately together.
Finally she got up and went to rest on his right side. The husband did the same on the other side and embraced him from the left, placing one leg over his emptied balls and caressing his chest with his fingers. The woman kissed him and also crossed one leg all over his belly. He grabbed both of them with his arms and squeezed them against his chest. The wife and the husband were cuddling against him, caressing his body with their hands. It was true what these guys had said in their blogs. There was nothing compare to a true free for all passionate sex between a married couple and a special friend. But for that it had to be this way, the connection must happen first and after that, well, the sky was the limit. He felt that his mission had been accomplished. He had successfully seduced this amazing couple to the point where they were now each on both side of him, in his arms, worshiping his body from head to toe and he was sure that he had never felt this type of supreme happiness before. He just couldn't stop smiling.
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Late Night Masseur
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Posted:Aug 22, 2014 9:50 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:20 pm
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Our very private masseur
We knew that he was coming so we had left the door unlocked for him to come in. My wife and I went to bed, naked of course. We wanted to start some foreplay just in between us, but decided to wait and relax as he had instructed us to do. We had some candles and background music playing in the bedroom. We were both laying with our stomach down, touching our hands. I felt drowsy and closed my eyes. I woke up when I felt a shadow coming into the bedroom. He had taken off all his clothes in the living room so he didn't have to make any noise undressing before getting into bed at our feet. He also had already picked up the flask with almond oil from the bathroom.
I heard my wife moaning before I felt one of his hand touching my right foot. She loves foot massage. I never had one until now. I lift my head and look back. In the dimmed light I can see he is naked and sporting a semi hard on. He works with both hands switching between my wife's feet and mine. I see him pouring some oils on my wife's back and then he does the same on mine. He slides his body in the middle in between my wife and me while embracing both our backs. Then he gets on his knees and positions himself in between my wife's legs who had been forced to spread hers a little. He works now with both hands on my wife legs, ass and spine. I watch and smile. He is good, my wife can't stop the moaning feeling his strong hands working hard on her ass.
He moves now up to her shoulder while leaning all his body over my wife's back. I can't see his hard cock but can imagine it touching my wife's pussy. He presses himself against her. This time she moans loudly. His cock and her pussy must have made some serious contact. He doesn't stop massaging her shoulders while kissing her neck. I watch mesmerized how his body moves up and down, his legs pushing apart my wife's legs. He is definitively inside her. She is now pushing up very slowly, her left hand grabs mine and squeezes it. I can't see her face buried in her pillow, but I can see the two bodies moving at the same pace up and down. He is now touching her ears and she moans even louder. Then he increases the speed and she follows. The dancing massage now focuses on her pussy, the tool is his hard cock. He goes now faster and my wife starts shaking, the prelude to her first orgasm of the night. He doesn't stop but moves even faster. My wife finally screams with pleasure, her body reacting profusely to the climatic sensation. Now he slows down, his dick still deep inside her. Then he stops and allows all his weight rest on her back while kissing her neck.
After few minutes of absolute quietness and silence, he lifts himself off her. My wife also moves and turns around on her side looking at me. It's my turn now. He places himself exactly the same way he was before with my wife, kneeling in between my legs, his feet pushing slightly mine forcing me to spread my legs. He starts by putting more oil on my legs and my back. He pours a good amount of oil on my ass, much more than he used on my wife. Then he begins working up my legs. His hands are strong and my muscles can feel their pressure along my legs, first one, then the other. He moves his hands a little further up until they both grab my ass. He does some circling movement while pressing the muscles. Then both hands approach the middle and stretch out both sides of my ass exposing my anus where most of the oil had gone to after he had been massaging the surface of my ass.
He moves a little closer and up my body. I can feel his belly on my ass and his hairy chest touching my back. His hands are now working on my upper arms and shoulders. I can feel his warm breath on my neck. I look at my wife for a second. She is smiling and still squeezing my hand. Then it happened, his hard cock touches my anus sending shivers all over my body. He continues massaging my shoulder and now he is softly kissing my neck. Very slowly he slides his body up my back and the pressure of his cock against my anus increases. He murmurs on my ear to relax my body, to let it happen. I'm afraid, I never had a cock before up my ass. But he gently pushes and I decide to let it in. His cock begins a very slow assault, pushing harder until his dick head stretches enough the whole to pop in. I feel the pain and bite the pillow. My wife is squeezing harder my hand. He asks if everything is ok, it's not, of course, it hurts, but at least he is not moving but waiting static until my ass can expand and accommodate this initial intrusion. At least it's well oiled and the lubricant helps when he slowly move up another half inch. The pain begins to recede and a weird pleasurable feeling take it's place. He slides in another inch and now it hurts like never before. His cock is poking some place inside me which wasn't ready. I manage to muffle a scream but he notices and retreats a little.
He now leans completely on my back and embraces me with an arm around my chest and the other around my neck, his legs keeping mine apart. I can't move, I'm totally at his mercy. He pushes again this time more carefully and then I feel a shiver on intense pleasure. My prostate is now the focus of his treatment. He slowly increases the pace and even when it's still hurting the pleasure I feel from the prostatic massage is overwhelming. I have read that a man can ejaculate without touching his dick just by having his prostate massaged. But he is not willing to take the risk and moves his arm under my body to grab my soft cock. Now he coordinates his strokes, his cock inside my ass and his hand wrapped around my dick. I don't get hard, the distraction on the other side is too powerful, but he has not intension of leaving my cock in peace, on the opposite, he increases the speed of the strokes while synchronizing the movement of his dick against my prostate. Then I feel the build up and the release of load after load and the most intense orgasm I had ever experienced before. My body is all shaking. He presses harder my cock with his hand while the contractions inside my ass set his cock into an explosion of warm liquid filling in my anus, I can feel his orgasm with very inch of my body, his hand on my dick, his chest on my back, his cock in my ass, now I look at my wife and she is watching us with a mix of curiosity and excitement. I lift a little my head to look at him. He has stopped moving at all, his sweaty body resting entirely on mine. I feel his cook getting soft inside my ass, my wife gets closer and embrace both of us at once. We all finally smile and kiss together.
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Second Round
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Posted:Aug 9, 2014 8:34 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:21 pm
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His erection is back on. That's the signal for the second round to begin. We are still embracing together with him in the middle. My wife smiles at me with that special face expression that makes me shiver with anticipation. She grabs our heads together for a three way sensual kissing. She likes kissing both of us at once with our tongues interlacing together. I gently touch his balls and move my fingers up until they firmly frame his throbbing member and slowly begin to stroke it while he moans with pleasure. My own dick is pressed hard against his leg. His right hand moves to take mine and cup it together with my balls. His left hand is now on my wife's wetness in between her legs. The play is definitively on.
I stand up and release from under the bed the restraining kit we had recently bought in the sex shop. We have already mentioned it to him and he said that he would love to try it. While my wife is still kissing him, I attach the Velcro straps to his ankles spreading his legs wide but in a comfortable angle. Next I tie up his wrists and finally place over his eyes the blindfold. He is now our private prisoner in bed, totally naked, exposed and unable to resist our advances. This is the ultimate trust, being tied up and blindfolded, placing his body at the mercy of a couple, a woman and a man, for both of us to do whatever we want to him. This is also our common fantasy, to share him as we do with a tasty main dish of a succulent buffet.
My wife does the first move and mounts him straddling his face and placing his pussy right over his mouth. He can now smell the sweet essence of a woman in heat. I can see his cock pulsating against his stomach. I touch his feet, massaging his soles and toes while listening to my wife moaning, his warm tongue surely exploring her wet insides. I move in between his legs and without hesitation encircle the head of his cock with my lips and gently increase the pressure, with my tongue tasting a drop of saltiness on the tip. My wife looks backs and makes eye contact with me. We both smile with the certainty that we are ready to give him the pleasure he deserves.
I move my lips down trying to accommodate his hardness within my mouth while cupping his balls in one hand and the other caressing his stomach. Now he is the one moaning loudly forming a synchronized chorus with my wife who is slowly moving her pelvis so that his tongue can reach the most sensitive parts inside her. His breathing gets faster. I slide my lips up and down his shaft stopping for seconds at the head to let my tongue play with a sensitive spot I discovered right under it. I feel the tension building up within my mouth. I slow down the pace and finally move my tongue down towards his shaved balls, taking one at the time in my mouth. Then I go even further down under his balls. I feel his legs shivering with pleasure when my tongue reaches the entrance to his back door. I can hear his muffled moaning, my wife's pussy blocking most of the sounds. My tongue works slowly it's way in wetting the entry channel and playing with the many nerves that exist on the walls. Next I place my index finger together with my tongue in position and gently push it inside while letting his muscles relax. I now let only my finger moves in and out very gently and his moans increases every time I touch the delicate membrane separating his prostate from the rectal channel. I continue massaging his male G-spot with my finger while I take back his hard dick in my mouth, my tongue sliding back and forth along his shaft.
He can't talk, he can't said a thing, he is under our spell, a wet pussy blocking any sound from his mouth, a finger locked in his insides exploring and slowly driving him crazy. I increase the pace of my mouth working hard and consciously on his stiff and hot pole. Now I encircle the base with one hand and start stroking it faster with my mouth focusing on the upper part. I feel he can't hold it any longer. It's my decision to let him explode right now or wait. But my wife is the one who goes first with loud moans and shivers all over her body. I decide to not wait any longer and grab his wet dick with one hand and start to stroke it faster, my mouth buried in his tense balls and my finger feeling the contractions inside him. He explodes like a fountain of pleasure, my wife pressing harder against his mouth to muffle his wild screams. That moment seems to last forever. Once it becomes too sensitive for him, I gently let my finger out from him and place my warm mouth on his still throbbing member. I'm also ready to shoot my load. I'm kneeling in between his legs and I use my right hand to stroke mine while my left hand is resting flat on his stomach. The tip of my dick is brushing against his pulsating ass, the sensations are overwhelming, seeing my wife still saddled on his face and his dick deflating slowly inside my mouth. I can't last any longer and explode covering with my juices his balls and in between his legs.
My wife moves out and falls at his right side. She gestures me to come to the other side. I do that and look at his face. His smile says everything I need to know. We both kiss him at once and his smile is now even broader. I remove the straps freeing his ankles and wrists from the attachments. My wife removes his blindfold, his eyes seeing us for the first time after the most intensive orgasm he confesses he ever had. He grabs each of us within his arms and the three of us embrace together forming an unscramble entangle with our naked bodies, legs and arms all over each other. This time nobody talks, we allow the silence to reign only bothered by the soft background music playing in my iPad on the night table.
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First Round
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Posted:Aug 4, 2014 8:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2020 1:21 pm
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He arrives impeccably dressed with a bottle of a vintage red wine and a nervous smile in his handsome face. I shake his hand and tell him to keep his shoes on because we are going to be in the patio, a secluded tree paradise that looks like an ancient stone ruin in the middle of a tropical jungle. My wife is already there waiting for us in her black sexy dress and with the glasses for the wine on the table. I take him downstairs and to the patio. My wife gets up and kisses him on the cheek. He hasn't changed his smile and grabs the seat we offer him in front of us. I open the bottle of wine and pour the red nectar into the glasses. He proposes a toast for a long lasting friendship.
We had been exchanging emails for a while, explaining everything about how we envisioned a special friendship with us. At first he was concerned with the scenario of sex without gender boundaries since he had never touched another guy before. We recommended him to read our blog in the site. He read every word carefully and after some hesitation, which translated in few days without a response, he finally decided to give it a try.
The conversation picks us very quickly. He explains that he is involved in a vanilla almost sexless relationship and that he decided to explore the lifestyle looking for what he can't get at home. He confesses that he had been with a couple of women from the site but that he wanted something more stable and safer, like a mature couple with a solid relationship and with no drama, meaning people like us. We tell him that we also have some experiences with a couple of good friends from the site, that we see then every so often and that we are looking to expand our circle of close friends since the ones we already have aren't available as much as we wished. He understands and likes the fact that we respect everybody's privacy and are not looking for a third in our marriage but just a plain good friend with whom we can relate and have a good time whenever the three of us could get together. After some good jokes and laughs we feel comfortable enough to invite him to our hottub which is in a corner of the patio surrounded by trees. I put some music for the ambiance, open the tub and we strip naked and jump in the warm water grabbing our glasses of wine with us.
The chatting becomes more lively and sexually charged. I approach my wife and we start kissing while he watches politely, smiling all the time. I take his hand and slowly let it rest on my dick. He grabs it nervously but without hesitation. Then I do the same with my wife's hand and put it on his cock, she smiles and looks at him. I signal him to join in our embrace and then the magic happens. We are three bodies fused together. Hands run freely through each other bodies and we have a joint kiss for the first time. I place my hand in between my wife's legs and notice that she is getting wet and not because of the water. The time stops and we are in that special dimension where only the senses exist. The exploration under the water continues, everyone touching and kissing.
After a while we are too hot for the tub and decide to go to the bedroom. We get out, grab some towels and go upstairs. My wife goes to the washroom and the two guys jump in bed together. He hugs me and places my head on his chest while our hands are caressing each other cocks. Then my wife reappears and gets in the middle and we form a perfect triangle, she is kissing me and he is kissing her neck, my right leg is on her and his left is on mine. We embrace harder, breathing even faster. I start licking my wife's breasts and now she is kissing him passionately while her hands is playing with my cock and his hand in between her legs making her moan as if it was no tomorrow. Next I move to the other side, behind him, pressing my chest against his back, kissing his neck and grabbing his cock with my left hand brushing it against my wife's pussy. The three are still in an embrace only with him now in the middle. It's his turn to get all the attention from both of us.
He is on his back now. My wife is on one side kissing him and caressing his nipples. On the other side I go down on him, licking his shaved balls and his hard rock cock. He moans as I engulf his dick with my mouth while my wife is stroking mine and he is fingering her pussy. I alternate between licking my wife pussy around his finger and sucking him. Then my wife mounts him like a cowgirl and slides down until his pussy is pressing on his cock and I can lick the two together at once. I take a condom and put it his cock then I grab it and position it at the entrance to the wet heaven which is waiting for it. My wife slides down even more and his cock disappears entirely inside her. I then play with his balls and my wife starts a very slow ride while he is grabbing her breasts and she is caressing his chest. I now move and position myself on the opposite direction along his side so my feet are near his face and his big toe of his right leg is in my mouth. He brushes my feet with his lips and grabs my cock with his right hand hand, his left hand still playing with my wife's breast. My wife increases the tempo and we can only hear the moans of the three of us like in a perfect concert. My left hand is on his hand guiding him in the movement jerking off my cock. My right hand is caressing his balls. I'm the first to explode shooting my load over my stomach. He understands and slow down his strokes moving his fingers later to my empty balls, few seconds later my wife is screaming with pleasure and then he also gets his share of a fantastic orgasm.
The three of us need a little rest. We lay down together, he is still,in the middle, both my wife and me under each arm pressed against his chest, all smiling happily while we are caressing his body with our hands. Slowly the conversation starts again and we laugh together. It's recovering time for getting ready for the next round and to discover the mysteries of this amazing sex only possible among the three of us.
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MMF: Sharing a conversation
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Posted:Jul 27, 2014 8:03 am
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2014 6:38 pm
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We had many interesting exchanges with honest people who had expressed interest in meeting us. We decided to share this hypothetic dialogue which clarify many aspects of how we see the act of sharing our intimacy with an open minded male friend:
Hi X
We are looking for someone that is really into a 3some where there is no focus on anyone in specific but in pleasuring each and everyone of the participants. If you are fine with mutual oral male to male engagement, touching sensually in between everybody without restrictions, cuddling together the three of us, three way kissing and so on, let us know. The only rule for now for everyone is no actual anal penetration, only mild anal play between the boys in the context of the threesome is accepted. We do enjoy long foreplays, a good conversation while caressing each other naked bodies, some drinks and chat in our hottub. Now it's your turn to tell us about you.
Cheers,
R and S
Hi guys, my experience before was mostly in being attentive to the woman, with the male being second, I've never kissed a guy, and to be honest don't know if I could. Sucking and playing I'm ok with, my last couple was all about pleasing the woman, and group oral. It was about no one being left out. The woman liked dp, so most evenings or afternoons usually lead up to that.
I may not be as hard core as you are looking for, if that's the case I understand. You guys are great looking people, I think it would be a lot of fun playing together.
X
Hi X
We spoke among us and we are a little concerned because we are not a woman focused couple and we don't want you to feel awkwardly when playing with us since we are about the three joining together without gender boundaries or rules about whom and what to touch or suck and things like that. It's not about being hard core bi, but about being with us as a couple, not just a shared wife or cuckold submissive situation.
Thanks,
R and S
Good morning guys, I thought long and hard about your email. Let me see if I understand this, you guys have dropped all the implied social boundaries, and truly focus on pleasure and passion, for everyone. The idea of being with people that are connected at that level without social limits, is quite frankly, liberating. We are conditioned about the do and do not 's, but that closes so many doors.
You have a very give and take, Ying and Yang approach to pleasure. One that I'm very interested in, to break my own boundaries and free myself from the social frameworks.
I'm really interested in learning more, as this type of relationship is very new and exciting to me.
X
Good morning X
I appreciate your response and yes you understood very well what we are at. We had a friend before who used to join us every so often and with whom we felt truly comfortable the three of us together exploring and building up a friendship in and out of the bed. We spent hours naked together trying different things just for the sake of experimenting and looking for new possibilities of providing pleasure to each other. Unfortunately he was much younger than us and he found a girlfriend with whom he wanted to follow up with a serious relationship, something that we not only understood and were glad for him, but we knew that in his case something like that would happen eventually. I'm telling you this so you know that we know exactly what we really want.
About the bi sexuality issue, it is only focused on the sexual pleasure and the warm feeling of being caressed by both a woman and a man at the same time. The stupid gay taboo is long gone since we think there is just sex and friendship in the triad, while homosexuality is a state of mind about falling in love with someone of the same sex, something which we know we are not capable of. Once the social barriers are lifted, as you said, it's very liberating and the frontiers of what can be achieved in this type of relationship are expanded beyond imagination. It's for this reason that we are looking for a true connection, not just plain sex.
We are not looking for a third in our marriage, of course, but for a friend with no just the benefits of sex but also someone that can become attracted to us as a couple, someone who can feel comfortable and make us feel the same way, someone with whom we would enjoy a good time together, not only in bed. Obviously this will always lead to a higher level of a very intimate relationship and, once we are there, the sky is the limit. We are not asking for anything exclusive beyond the simple fact of trust and mutual understanding which is required to build up this type of special friendship. We do respect your privacy and expect the same from you, after all, this is just another of the many sides of each individual life. However, said all that, it is expected from all parties a certain level of commitment to get together as often as possible and therefore availability is important to us. The frequency of our encounters will step up the speed with which we can reach a desired level of trust in between you and us.
Now, at the same time, since this is something like a living project on itself growing in experience with every minute we spend together, we don't expect from you to perform in any way sexually or otherwise, no pressure but total relaxation, while we learn what everyone enjoys the most and discover together new venues and practices that may have never hit our brains before. Therefore we don't impose rules like no kissing or no whatever. Anything we may avoid in the beginning would be based absolutely on pure but maybe temporary physiological issues, like pain, which we don't like, or other extravagances too kinky at least for a start in a relationship. No closing any door leaves us the opportunity to explore and experiment. According to our own experience, human sexuality is like a constantly evolving organism and things that one may find repulsive today could become very pleasurable tomorrow. The question is about communication within a totally relaxed atmosphere. This is at least what we believe in and which we really want to take it further and continue this exhilarating exploration of sexuality together with a special friend. You are one of the few people who had written to us opening this type of open heart conversation about these interesting but also very private issues. Sharing them here with you I see it as a first step into building the special friendship we have been talking about. If you feel like this is something you would be interested to pursue, we would be happy to invite you to our life.
Best regards,
R and S
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Bisexuality: Sex without borders
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Posted:Apr 19, 2014 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2014 9:16 am
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In ancient Greece and Rome, people knew how to have a good time whenever they met for dinner and party. Just there were no borders or taboos about what they could enjoy together in bed. In threesomes or foursomes or more, the participants just followed the flow and played games together. Then the religious thing came in the middle and sex became a sin for the first time in the western world.
Two thousand years later, in the XXI century, after the failed hippie sexual revolution of the late sixties due to economic and political reasons, western societies are starting to venture into some of the many forbidden paths in a scale never seen before. Sex is becoming mainstream in all its great diversity. Many couples are now exploring beyond the framework of the institutional marriage. However, the legacy of the forbidden is still bothering many of us and limiting the possibilities of what we can do together, three, four or more of us in bed. We do believe that some day all the gender orientation taboos will disappear for good like the stigma of bisexuality.
Pleasure comes in many ways. Our senses are connected to our mind and the preset framework resides precisely there, influenced by the social taboos still present in our society. This subconscious state of mind is still blocking some of the many enjoyable possibilities available for more than two in bed, like the fulfilling feeling of providing pleasure for someone of the same sex. Yes, being bisexual it doesn't mean being attracted to the same sex, but being comfortable with sex in any way it can provide pleasure to the other partners and yourself. At least this what we believe and therefore willing to experiment something we are beginning to call sex without borders.
We are relatively new in this lifestyle but we have noticed that while bisexuality among our female partners is something considered normal and even sometimes desirable, that's not the case for the male participants. Many men are still avoiding the contact with another male when in bed with women. This we found to be very ridiculous if not hilarious seeing the awkward positions some men take to stay away from the other same sex partners in bed. However, the reality is that most men are currently exploring this path of truly free sex without saying it or explicitly telling in their profiles. Preferences will always exist but it doesn't mean to deny other possible interactions when having group sex involving same sex partners. In summary, we would like to hear what the community has to say about knocking down the walls and trying truly liberating new experiences of sex without borders.
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