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Bisexuality: Sex without borders  

Nakedfun213 60M/58F
48 posts
4/19/2014 3:21 pm
Bisexuality: Sex without borders

In ancient Greece and Rome, people knew how to have a good time whenever they met for dinner and party. Just there were no borders or taboos about what they could enjoy together in bed. In threesomes or foursomes or more, the participants just followed the flow and played games together. Then the religious thing came in the middle and sex became a sin for the first time in the western world.

Two thousand years later, in the XXI century, after the failed hippie sexual revolution of the late sixties due to economic and political reasons, western societies are starting to venture into some of the many forbidden paths in a scale never seen before. Sex is becoming mainstream in all its great diversity. Many couples are now exploring beyond the framework of the institutional marriage. However, the legacy of the forbidden is still bothering many of us and limiting the possibilities of what we can do together, three, four or more of us in bed. We do believe that some day all the gender orientation taboos will disappear for good like the stigma of bisexuality.

Pleasure comes in many ways. Our senses are connected to our mind and the preset framework resides precisely there, influenced by the social taboos still present in our society. This subconscious state of mind is still blocking some of the many enjoyable possibilities available for more than two in bed, like the fulfilling feeling of providing pleasure for someone of the same sex. Yes, being bisexual it doesn't mean being attracted to the same sex, but being comfortable with sex in any way it can provide pleasure to the other partners and yourself. At least this what we believe and therefore willing to experiment something we are beginning to call sex without borders.

We are relatively new in this lifestyle but we have noticed that while bisexuality among our female partners is something considered normal and even sometimes desirable, that's not the case for the male participants. Many men are still avoiding the contact with another male when in bed with women. This we found to be very ridiculous if not hilarious seeing the awkward positions some men take to stay away from the other same sex partners in bed. However, the reality is that most men are currently exploring this path of truly free sex without saying it or explicitly telling in their profiles. Preferences will always exist but it doesn't mean to deny other possible interactions when having group sex involving same sex partners. In summary, we would like to hear what the community has to say about knocking down the walls and trying truly liberating new experiences of sex without borders.


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