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frustrations of a single girl
 
if like me your getting fed up of trawling through countless messages from time wasters and undesirables and those who obviously haven't read your profile. I thought I'd create a place where everyone can have a rant and a moan, seek advice give advice.
If you do have any suggestions or questions type it in the private post, you make like or dislike any response but hey, you did ask!!
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fucks sake man grow a brain.....
Posted:Mar 7, 2011 10:56 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2012 6:32 pm
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out of my little four day break, today has been the first off work. Or so I believed, how can it be classed as time off when you still get hassled from your boss..
these are the three texts hes sent me today accompanied by my replys.

boss; where is the key for mrs lo***s hyundai?
me; obviously shes not bought it in yet

boss; where is brians sick pay?
me; in the till, where you asked me to put it.

boss; there are two parcels here in your name one is the turbo for the volkswagen what do i do?
me; i'm only expecting a dvd, noting the obvious size difference, check the sender details say universal turbos and open the fucking thing.

So an ode to my boss, you have a brain please use it.........
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poor girl.....!!
Posted:Mar 6, 2011 8:19 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:12 am
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Have received this message today, I wonder if he's actually going to get anywhere....

"hi i'm a 20 year old student from bristol
my gf is away 4th till 7th of march and a few weeks in april
the thrill of cheating on her with a complete stranger is just too tempting
would love to meet up, can accom or travel
i love going down on a girl, also sex in differnet locations and dress up, or anything your into!
if you are intrested get in touch"

I mean yes he's upfront to say he's attached but to me it screams I'm a bastard avoid me like the plague. I did weirdly reply to this mail, I wrote

"your girlfriend has my deepest sympathy, I hope she sees sense and dumps your sorry ass excuse for a man"

I depise cheating, its one of the reasons why I parted company with an ex, as I caught him trying to. Wouldn't have minded so much but we had already discussed this very thing and he could have had any woman he wanted. The only clause was I would of needed to be there to join in the fun.

I admit I don't have the best grasp on the male mind ever but surely enjoying two women at once without fear of repercussion is better than cheating. Or is there a certain thrill about cheating...?
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just my luck
Posted:Mar 5, 2011 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2011 3:49 pm
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For the first time in ages I have a full four days free, no work, no nothing. Shame I've got no 'special' plans to keep me occupied. So imagine how I felt when I wake up this morning with a cold.... I love my immune system for doing this to me.
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tough choice
Posted:Mar 2, 2011 1:39 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:09 am
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Similar to a few people or the worldly population, I hate my boss with a passion. For a long time I have been looking for a new position before I go completely insane or end up in prison for murder.
Recently a fantastic vacancy has come to my attention and after updating the particulars on my CV. I find out that one of my colleagues who is also one of the key workers (there is only five people including me where I work so we're all pretty much important) is quite ill and is not going to be coming back to work in the near future if at all ever.
As much as I want to leave I don't want to leave my other colleagues high and dry as I'm basically the only person there who can do my job. So do I send of my CV and see what happens as I might not even be successful with the application or stay loyal and cope with the extremely tough roller coaster that awaits with a boss who would quite happily fuck me over if it was in his better interests....?
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TYPICAL...........
Posted:Feb 27, 2011 5:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 2:41 pm
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As mentioned in last post had a meet arranged for sunday (being today) after getting a little confusion sorted. Just received a mail saying he has to cancel. For fucks sake, break needed please!! And people wonder why I'm so hesitant at arranging anything, I'll tell you why I'm getting fucking annoyed at being continually blown out.
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nothing interesting...........
Posted:Feb 25, 2011 1:03 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 9:11 am
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Just thought I'd let you know that I'm still here.
Unfortunately nothing particularily interesting has happened, still looking, still no action. More of the usual men cancelling and/or ceasing contact with me for no apparent reason. Nothing I'm not used to. So much so I would say I'm actually turning into a bit of a bitch and doing the same in return. For just once can I be given a break..........
Though saying that I have a meet and drink arranged for either this sunday or next sunday...
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chase or not chase
Posted:Jan 31, 2011 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 2:43 pm
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Not so long ago, someone said to me that he was getting annoyed with being expected to be the one to do all the chasing all the time. I thoroughly agreed with him. But after all the work I've done lately with no fruition, I'm beginning to realise why some women don't bother putting that extra bit of effort in. Cause I've reached the point where I'm so disillusioned by the whole experience I'm starting to think why bother.... why should be so difficult to find a normal sane person for 'casual sex'. I admit my fussiness doesn't help or could it just be no woman like repeated rejections.
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the weekend
Posted:Jan 31, 2011 11:37 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 9:11 am
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All day people have been asking me how my weekend was. I was all set to have a fantastic weekend as had arranged a repeat liason (so knew I'd be well taken care of...)for saturday night. But unfortunately due to the dreaded flu bug my meet had to cancel. Thats not so bad you may think. On friday night I spied a familiar face who I actually know from a few years back. Anyway he mails me not recognising who I am until I tell him, a meet is quickly arranged for next week. However when I'm already feeling a bit down, he then texts to say he and his ex are going to give it another try. WTF..? why bother arranging anything if hes planning to get back together with his ex. So after a double blow have actually been quite miserable over the weekend. Housework is just not a proper substitute.
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is it just me 'the final'
Posted:Jan 26, 2011 11:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:08 am
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Well we met, and chatted for ages over a couple of drinks nothing more than that. You know when you can just tell nothing more is going to happen 'no spark' so to speak. May not be anything more but at least I have a new friend.
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VODKA
Posted:Jan 23, 2011 11:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2011 3:48 pm
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One of my friends has sent me a joke, which I thought I'd share with you all.

Ten reasons why vodka is better than a cock
1. vodka is always stiff
2. vodka doesn't get smaller when cold
3. vodka lasts as long as you want it to
4. vodka won't poke you in the back in the morning wanting attention
5. we don't care how far down our throat vodka goes
6. we can have as much vodka as we like without looking like a slut
7. you can enjoy a vodka in front of your parents
8. vodka won't get jealous if we try another vodka
9. is always there when you need it
10. vodka is always a pleasure to swallow.
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is it just me part two
Posted:Jan 23, 2011 9:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:08 am
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Well hes been in touch.... said he's been busy with work, and hes even asked to meet (secret woo hoo dance was performed) made sure I didn't say yes to quickly though and theres still a part of me thats 'not going to hold my breath'. Watch this space after tuesday.
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is it just me?
Posted:Jan 18, 2011 11:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2015 8:05 am
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Now i have to admit i'm quite fussy, for me there has to be a physical attraction first then a mental one. Some cases it's been the other way round. They could look like brad pitt but if they sound like forrest gump they haven't got a chance.

Recently I've been talking to one gentleman who I've taken a particular fancy to. Its not often someone grabs my attention, and ticks bith the physical and mental boxes.

Everything seemed to be going great even exchanged numbers and it was him who gave me his first. But from full paragraph texts, today it went to one/two sentence answers but always a question for me to reply to. Decided just leave it and wait for him to contact me next.

Bearing in mind I've not met him in person, and a meet hasn't even been suggested. Do men become disinterested when the chase is done?

Might I have said something wrong when I'm only being myself or does bluntness and honesty scare men? I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.

And (this is just for a laugh) could he just be having a bad day?

If anything happens I will keep you blogged up to date.
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decisons
Posted:Jan 15, 2011 1:11 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 2:47 pm
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have had to make a difficult decision recently, at what point is it ok to hurt someone to avoid being hurt yourself? As I feel like a complete bitch.
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