I keep an apartment in Bel Air and can host. So if you are free in the EVENINGS - let me know.
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I AM LOOKING FOR A REAL LOVER - NOT A GAME PLAYER; NOT CHAT. I want someone who can meet WEEKLY in the evening. I always play safe - no exceptions. Say hi and tell me something about yourself and I will say hi back!
I also need to say some things and if I sound bitchy - sorry. I have had enough BAD sex to last forever. SERIOUSLY! I have a good love life at home and have the privilege of having a lover. That being said:
*I want a lover that has a nice cock. Sorry. You do NOT need to be huge - but I want at LEAST 6" and a nice girth.
*I am looking for someone who can keep a hard on WITH A CONDOM ON. I am not looking to give you a BJ to show that I like you. I can suck a mean cock. And will do it as a part of playing if we click. BUT I do not want to hear excuses about why you can not stay hard with a condom on. I play safe only and if you can not fuck with a condom on - we are just not going to make it work. I mean that.
*I want a lover who isn't "once and done" and who can last more than 1 or 2 minutes. Seriously folks - it is just not satisfying to have you TRY and fuck with a half hard cock for a good minute or two and then you are happy and done. NOT WORKING FOR ME.
*I'm looking for someone who can hang out for a few HOURS - not minutes. I want to have sex. Chat. Have sex. Grab a bite to eat. Have sex. Have fun. Laugh. Enjoy each other. Fucking for the sake of fucking doesn't do anything for me. I have to "click" with you or it is not worth my time.
*Cleanliness counts fellas! Take a shower before we meet. Or if you can't and you come over to my apartment - then feel free to help yourself to a washcloth and soap in the bathroom. Yep - the apartment actually has hot and cold running water and I have plenty of good old soap and washcloths and even nice fluffy towels. How you smell and taste matters. Seriously. I'll be all scrubbed clean - please be the same for me.
*More than anything else I want someone who can read this information and really, really, really, is who they say they are and can meet what I am looking for. I am NOT looking for Superman OR Superstud. I am looking for someone who is looking for a LTR with some passion. I am not interested in bed hopping. I want ONE lover to spend time with on a regular basis.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE meet my requests - I don't think they are unreasonable.....if you do - you can tell me.
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I am the female half of a VERY happily married couple looking to have a good time. I am 47, 5'10" BBW, big chest, red hair. Although I am happily married I have an open marriage and am allowed to go out with my husbands' full knowledge and permission. I will meet alone for the right person. I am now, have always been, and always will be, disease and drug free and expect the same. I don't drink or smoke and prefer non-smokers. I am VERY sexually adventurous, fun, outgoing and looking for added fun - not "a thrill a minute" but potentially a long term friendship with a lot more. I just LOVE playing with tall, DARK and handsome men - YUMMMMMY! But more important than that - I am looking for a friend and a lover. I am looking for a boyfriend - someone to grab a bite to eat, then go fuck our brains out - not necessarily in that order. I am NOT looking for a young stud, but rather a man with experience who knows what it takes to please a woman AND IS WILLING TO DO IT. I promise to take care of you too - but only if I am taken care of as well. If you understand what I am saying, then we are half way there already!
My Ideal Person:
I believe in having a good time in whatever you happen to be doing and carry that philosophy into the bedroom (or wherever I play). I believe in the overall erotic enjoyment that comes from bondage, related activities and fantasies that bring enjoyment to each other. Not into real pain - just light fun pain. I believe in pleasure and pleasure enhancement that comes from toys, exploring fantasies and experimenting. Sincerity, respect, desire, and discrestion are extremely important. Communication in the bedroom is important so that everyone leaves HAPPY. Please do NOT contact me if you are married and need to meet during the day, I can't/won't do it. If you are married and can get out at night - that MAY be ok with me.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A movie theatre
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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