My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a man locally (please no out of state or country) I can feel comfortable with as both a friend and lover with heavy emphasis on friend. Someone who can and is willing to provide emotional support for me. They must be able to give me a reasonable amount of time and attention beyond just sex or what is the point. Now by reasonable I mean they should be able to meet at least once a week...none of the once a month or who knows when. I have just had it pointed out to me that what I am stating does not sound like an LTR (long term relationship) so let me clarify, I am looking for an LTR and not a one night stand or quickie.

I would prefer single as that seems to be the easiest to work with but am not against a married man possibly in the same situation. Now age wise....I don't mind having friends of all ages but for the main person I am looking for I would have to say in the age range of 40 to 55. There is a bit of leeway on this however I have found that I tend to get along better with men in their early to mid 40's (do not do well with men over 55) but they must have some of the same life experiences as I have.

*****Okay this is not trying to be rascist but my personal preference is Caucasian only....no black, oriental or hispanic as the body types do not appeal to me at all although I am open to friends only with anyone.

Couples...I am in to one on one only although again I am open to friends only as well.