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I am 45,actually single, actually bi. Openly bi, open about my lifestyle. I am 5'3 150 lbs size 14. I am funny, intelligent, articulate, kind and considerate. I am attractive, classy, self sufficient, confident, shameless, yet humble. I don't think I am god's gift to anyone. I can strike up a conversation with any stranger, anywhere, but don't always feel motivated to do that. I have 3 dogs, one cat, I like animals better than people for the most part. I have no children. I love movies, music, books, and I'm a great cook. I dislike liars. No, I abhor liars. I detest one night stands. I set the bar high, and I settle for nothing. I love all social events, concerts, comedy clubs, but the company is always the most important thing. I've been in the lifestyle for a long time, and it's been fun, but I'm tired of doing it alone. The ideal would be to partner up with someone, for real, who would like to pursue the lifestyle with me. I'm not looking for "the one", because I don't think that exists. I am looking for the one that is willing to take the chance at a long term deal, even though it risks both of our hearts. It is endelessly funny to me how men love to talk about "flakes" on here...and the truth is, they "flake" more than anyone. I get countless emails, and pages on im, and when I respond, they run for the hills. PLEASE!!! Don't contact me unless you are serious about meeting. I acutally meet, and fuck, and want to do it again if you are worth your salt. Please don't bother me if you aren't here to do the same. I'm not interested in chatting for life, nor in your emails telling me how wonderful I am, but never wanting to meet. Grow some balls! Sheesh!
My Ideal Person:
I respond best to intelligent, articulate, like minded people. I like men, I like women, I like couples. I have no interest whatsoever in married people playing alone, male or female. Don't bother, I won't respond. Not a moral judgment, just my preference. I will respond to NO profiles/emails without face pics. I am desperately seeking transgendered people who like females....a HUGE fantasy of mine. I must feel a mental connection to be sexually attracted to anyone, regardless of how physically gorgeous you may be. I would hope you feel the same. If it's all about looks and body for you, chances are we will not connect. I have a lot to offer, and I expect a lot in return. If it's too much for you to have a long term friendship that includes sexual benefits, that's fine. To each, his own. For me, a one night stand is an utter waste of time. I could have that anytime I please. I want more.
I like straight men, but prefer bi men. Straight just spells more limits to me. I certainly would not dismiss a straight man with whom I feel that connection, but I would prefer a man with less limits.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: sting, gwen stefani, pat benetar, heart, zz top
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: me with my back to the stick position on a baccarat table
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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