[COLOR firebrick][SIZE 3] I have been through a crazy ride in this life on earth. Life brings bad and good to the table unexpected. You learn your less through mistakes. You love and hate. You realize many things and you learn to appreciate what you have. Life is chaos. Deal with it the right way. I am financially secure and not looking for a sugar daddy. I have a great job as a work comp claims adjuster which I truly love. I also have a side business making home made herbal soaps and soy candles and sell them at craft shows. I love to cook gourmet meals, fishing, football (big Green Bay Packer fan), playing cards, growing things and reading. I love war and comedy movies. I also love to travel and have made several trips the last few years to California, South Carolina, Georgia, and Arizona. I became an empty nester a year and a half ago when my youngest , Alex, joined the Army. He is now stationed in Seattle, Washington at Fort Lewis and will be going to Iraq in August 2009. I miss him terrible but I am very content with my life style of living alone. I am alone, but not lonely. I don't "need" a a steady man in my life to be happy. I have good friends and am close to my family. I never get bored..There's always something to do.. WHEN IT COMES TO SEX, I DO LOVE IT BUT I AM VERY PICKY ABOUT WHO I HAVE SEX WITH. [/SIZE][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person
I like biker, rugged outdoorsy manly looks. If you have a Harley, big plus! I love the sound and riding on the back of 'em. I prefer a guy who smokes and drinks (they are really hard to find these days!).

I love touching and being touched. I am not into guys who are totally absorbed in themselves and it's like "it's all about them." I appreciate a man who is truly interested in me and what I have to say.

Life is too short to get caught up in all the dealbreakers. It is what it is..Live life one day at a time and enjoy!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to name here

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Matthew McCaughnney.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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