On that note, here's a bit more more about me... I'm 34, single and feel like the world is at my fingertips and I'm finally mature and wise enough to turn my dreams into my reality!!

I'm an extremely attractive Gemini, with medium length, curly, brown hair, hazel eyes and other great ASSets. I'm a people person - outgoing, bubbly and fun. I have a great sense of adventure, but also have a serious side. I'm a cultured intellectual, a hopeless romantic/dreamer and somewhat of an artist. I show the utmost dedication and devotion to the people and things most important to me in my life....

LOL.... SOUNDS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, RIGHT??!!

I have 2 degrees from NYU, but have enjoyed a never dull and forever stimulating career in the Bar/Restaurant/Nightclub Industries over the past 16 years... You name it, I've probably done it!... I can tell you more if we're a "Match"!!

MORE IMPORTANTLY:

I've been asked what I would like to do in my "free" time... Well... Ummm... I'd like to DATE!! To find Love, To find Romance!! Ha, ha!!... Yet, because of my chosen career, I've found this goal to be quite unattainable!!

TRUTH:

At the age of 34, I've NEVER had a BOYFRIEND (committed relationship)... AND, I'VE NEVER BEEN "IN LOVE" (NO!! There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with me!!!).... I continue to WATCH as all those close to me have found love/or a bond of sorts... (Lol, sucks going to weddings- especially without a date).... It SUCKS being the "3rd Wheel" among friends and family... (Actually, it's MORE depressing than anything!!) Lol... (NRF)... NOT Really Funny...

Truth be told... I've been "online dating" (because of my work hours), since I was 22!! You may have seen me on "other web sites" as well...

My Dad met my Step-mom online... One of my cousins met his wife online!! LOL... One of my closest friends met her husband online!! So, I should have HOPE!!, Right?!?

Yet, I find that the only men that contact me are the wrong ones... Maybe I'm too picky, or maybe I'm not being specific enough!!! So, here goes.....

NEEDS:

"The man of my dreams", is NOT looking for his second (3rd, 4th, etc.. love of his life).... He would be looking for something he's NEVER had in his life... Lol... I should say "ME!!" at this point, but that would be SUPER corny!!

He would be a man who has NEVER been married before, NOR, should he have kids... Who are we kidding!! If you've been married, you've obviously been in love before... And if you have kids, you'll be in love with them for the rest of your life (I can't compete with that)!!!

I'd prefer that he be "financially secure" (In other words, that you have your own car/apartment/condo/house - a job!! lol)... As, I'm looking for a "partner in crime"... Someone who can afford to INVEST in our FUTURE!!

Here's where I get worse (Hell, but I want, what I want!!)... He MUST be in shape (call himself, "athletic")... He must enjoy working out at the gym 3/4 x a week... I'm looking for partner who wants to keep me in shape (NOT fatten me up)!!

YET, My Guy will work me out hard enough so that we can enjoy fine dining/drinking/socializing with out having to worry about consequences...

GEEZ... I'm Babbling... Get my drift?!?

WANTS:

To find someone of like mind... Lol... But I'm beginning to believe that we never get what we "want" in life!!

I have Faith and Hope in Destiny.... I have "Faith" that there's some out there for me... I have "Hope" that I might meet this person one day... And I leave it to "Destiny" to choose how and when we'll meet!!

I guess the rest is up to you!!

My Ideal Person:
I'm strictly interested in dating right now. So, if you're looking for a "one-night stand" or to just hook up, then I'm not your gal...

In terms of my type, I've always had a thing for "pretty boys"... A gorgeous face with a body and brain to match... I'm looking for someone who is open and honest and who is ready to invest the time and effort it takes to get to know another person, romantically... He must be an extrovert, an exhibitionist, a sensitive romantic, an intellectual and love to have fun!! I know there must be some of you still out there and available!! Once again, please make sure to attach a face pic to your email and I look forward to hearing from you!!

P.S. I'M A SUCKER FOR DIMPLES!!


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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Fall Out Boy, All American Rejects, Eve 6, Old Madonna,
Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, LIT, No Doub

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having sex discreetly in public (i.e. at night on a park bench or at the beach or even in a club)... In a place where there's the possibility of getting seen or caught.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Voyeurism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I try not to fantasize about people and things that are too unattainable.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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