Though I haven't found the one I'll be special to, I'm still eager and holding out for a good-hearted, dominant man.
To start, please know that my being on this site doesn't mean that I'm *just* looking for sex. I really want a long-term relationship, but will consider an adult friendship too.
Though ample, I'm healthy, workout (trying to be more consistent), losing weight slowwwwly, and have very nice, touchable skin.
I'm very sexual, but haven't been able to put it into practice much! I'm easily aroused (get wet at work often - there's a few men there that excite me just by walking by!) Simply whispering in my ear or fondling my breasts will usually get me started. I love to be teased.
I dislike pain, so no clamps, whips, hard spanking, etc. Light bondage may be okay, but I have no experience with that yet.
My time: Though I have a "real job," my goal is to be self-employed. I work swing shift currently (including weekends). I'm also now an alpaca farmer (small herd), so I generally stay close to home.
I'm an honest, open person by nature. One of my mottos is, "To thine own self be true, and it shall follow as night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man." However, my time and home are very precious to me, and I don't share them without my being sure that the person who does get "let in" is safe and worthy.
I know I may sound a bit bitchy here, but I'm really a sweet person most of the time! I just try to tell it like it is, so neither of us ends up wasting time. On the other hand, I am known to be a bit rebellious, so don't expect me to be a doormat!
I love to play online (on cam when the mood strikes), to be creative, to explore, and experience the senses. I'd love to have a man who knows what he wants to share all that with.
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My Ideal Person:
The kind of man who gets my attention is dominant, though not domineering; kind but no pushover; supportive but able to call me out when I misbehave (I've been known to be rebellious .
I expect respect, dependability and communication from my partner regardless of how casual or serious our relationship may be. Just because I'm a big girl don't think that I'm desperate. I'm horny, and they're not the same thing! So if you're just looking for a quick hookup, you don't need to read any further.
I like it when you make the first move. Don't worry - if I've chosen to be with you, I'm likely to be ready for your moves. When we're "busy," I like you to tell me what you like - I'm usually sexually submissive (not to be confused with a Master/sub relationship). However, I am not "easy." I'm eager to have an intimate relationship, but I don't fall down on my back at the first sign of interest. We must meet and see if we're as compatible in person as we may be online.
I'm looking for a man who can accept my limitations/imperfections, and who I can accept as well. I'm an exclusive type of person, and that goes both ways - if you're already in a relationship (even a "dead" marriage), please don't consider connecting with me. Yes, I know I said I'd accept a casual relationship, but this still applies.
BONUSES: If you're handy around the house and willing to help with small projects. If you're musically talented. If you own your own home (sorry, living in a hand-me-down RV in a park doesn't cut it - I speak from experience).
TURN-OFFS: Low intelligence. Yes, I may judge a man's intelligence by the writing of his profile. So please make an effort to punctuate and spell adequately. It's one of our first impressions of you, after all. I'm just sayin' ....
When a man makes my having an orgasm a priority. I mean, it's nice, I'd love to have one every time, but when I'm pressured to "perform" by cumming, it ruins the mood.
Men who have poor hygiene. Guess that's a turn-off for most folks anyway 
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Queen, The Monkees, Madonna, Aerosmith, Duffy, Coldplay
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: I don't know if I'd ever go through with it, but there are some men I know, who I trust, that I'd do a three-way with. I'd love to try double penetration; I think being desired and shared by two straight men is such a turn-on!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Leather
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: They come and go, but mostly I fantasize about men I know personally.
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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