I've accepted that younger isn't better and maturing has it's advantages. I now have fewer hangups and inhibitions, and accept other people's imperfections with more tolerance and understanding. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be. I enjoy my "single" status but it's also important to be able to share things in life with someone special. I believe in great sex but don't want it without at least a friendship based relationship. Sex with me should include sensuality and trust, laughter and playfulness. I enjoy an assertive man who, in turn, will respond to those times I choose to be the aggressor. I believe we can't expect to recieve what we can't give so it's an area of give and take, yes? There are areas I still want to explore but not be pushed into. Be my teacher and in turn learn from me. The adventures could prove both fun and interesting. I enjoy almost anything outdoors, whether it's sports based, walking and hiking, camping, or a backyard barbecue with family or friends. I watch very little television but will tune in to catch a Pro football game...go figure. I love to get out for dinner and music every once in a while and can dress up or down to fit the event. I have many interests and those can be shared when and if the time comes.
My Ideal Person:
He should be able to relate to everything I said above. He should be aggressive, yet sensitive, playful and able to laugh at both himself and at me when I have a "Duuh" moment. Life shouldn't be too serious. He won't want to own me but at the same time will be able to make me feel that I'm special in his life. As we get older, we tend to want to do things our own way so he'll hopefully understand when I stand my ground on some subjects as I try to do the same for him. He'll hopefully be in his late forties to early sixties and close enough geographically for meeting not to be a challenge. I ask that he not be married. Neither of us should have anything to hide. He'll want to be my best friend, my lover, my confidant, my sometime companion. He'll understand my sometimes silly, sometimes dry sense of humor and will hopefully respond with his own interested humor in return when I do something outrageous or spontaneous. You just never know where our imagination will lead us.
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