I’m in a long distance open relationship with a man who has a home in my heart. We believe there’s room for more than one person in our lives, especially when we can’t always be together. When time allows, we do occasionally play as a couple, limited to other couples or groups (hot tubs are a weakness.)
Until now I've let a fairly solitary life, and discovered it’s far more rewarding having people to share time with. My friends say I am complex, whatever that means. I am shy and usually quite reserved at first, yet have unexpectedly wild inclinations which sometimes surprise even me. I don't like loud people, I detest cigarette smoke, and am not fond of crowds, unless I have someone to stay close to. I love being outdoors regardless of weather, walking, hiking, camping, and also like curling up with my cat, a cup of tea, and a good book. I am a good listener, nonjudgmental, and believe in accepting people for who they are, and not who I want them to be, admittedly easier said than done. I am honest, and expect honesty in return. I am attracted to the individual, not the gender. I fall in love easily, if only for the moment. I am generally not possessive (although if you want to be possessed, I'm sure we could work something out.) People are butterflies, and need to be free to choose their own flowers. I would never brush the silver off your wings.
My Ideal Person:
I am not interested in drive by sex. I’m mostly interested in chatting, and not at all interested in cybersex. I am looking for a few lasting friendships, possibly with benefits. The friendships must come first. I fancy people who are stimulating outside the bedroom, as well as in, who love to laugh, especially at themselves, who seek affection as well as passion. I want someone who isn’t afraid to tell me their desires, to be open to experimenting, yet be able to decline if it is beyond their comfort level. I am interested in people who respect themselves and me enough to practice safe sex. Kissing…there must be lots and lots of kissing.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am standing at the railing, looking out over the edge.
It is late sunset, and the sky is growing dark. There is a
mist in the air, and a soft, cool breeze. I hear footsteps
approaching behind me, but I keep my face to the panoramic
view. I sense the close proximity of our bodies, and gasp
a little at feeling your hands on my breasts, you pressed
against my back as you alternately kiss and gently bite
the back of my neck. I lean back against you, and feel your
hands travel to the top of my pants, slowly pulling them
down to reveal my buttocks. I feel you entering me from behind,
stroking me to orgasm. You pull my pants back on, as I turn
and gaze into your eyes, kiss you deeply in appreciation.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Space ship
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Prefer fantasizing about you.
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