I love good red wine and single malt scotch and sharing either with an appreciative companion. I enjoy fine dining, spending time with good friends, walking the streets of a vibrant city after a concert, and sitting by the ocean on a breezy summer night. I’m a classically trained musician looking to sing a new song. I love most kinds of music (not rap...that's not music!)
I am polyamorous. If you don't understand the concept, please do some research. Am I looking for a primary partner? I suppose we all are to some degree, but I'm not actively "searching" for one just now. I believe that all things happen in their own time. For me to frantically search with the desperation I've seen in my 7 years on this site seems counter-productive to me. When it's supposed to happen, it will. I believe that it's possible to love more than one person with equal depth and intensity. I also believe that no one person can satisfy every need of another. When and if I find a "primary partner," he will have to be of the same mind.
If you want to know more about me, take a peek at my blog, songbird5419...or the discussion group I moderate. People of New England...Speak!
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for gentlemen 45-60 or thereabouts (not looking for a "boytoy") who like to take charge but are not afraid to let me drive too! I don't like to bend over to kiss a man so please be 5'10" or taller! I like men closer to my own age: there does have to be some common ground. Please have enough pride in yourself to be in some reasonable shape. I don't "require" an Adonis...god knows I'm no Athena, but I clean up well!
Please don't lead with a picture of your penis...some things were meant to be saved for that “up close and personal” time. Besides, after awhile they all look the same. Show me your face, your eyes. Some say the eyes are the windows into your soul. Perhaps I'd like a glimpse! If you can't do that, then please don't bother to contact me because I never meet anyone without a recent (g-rated) photo.
If you choose to email me, make me want to reply to you. Use some imagination and humor. ("liked your profile, wanna meet?" is not funny!) And PLEASE be able to use the English language without butchering it too badly!!! Discretion is important. I prefer not to discuss my private moments in the public chat room.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Eva Cassidy, Bonnie Raitt, Lyle Lovett, Vladimir Ashkenazy
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, An elevator, At a nightclub
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'd rather be with real people, but wouldn't turn
Sean Connery away!!! (yeah, I'm OLD!!!)
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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