My Ideal Person:
I am looking for someone who is creative, has a great sense of humor, is active, enjoys sex and is open about his needs and what turns him on. I seek someone who is a fun companion, one with intelligence and compassion, someone who is sure of who he is and what he wants. Ideally, he is well-traveled, well-read, and interesting to talk to, who feels comfortable in any situation, and can express his own emotions freely. Additionally, I am bi-curious, looking for a close female friend to get to know better. Close friends are gems and truly hard to find. I am involved in an open relationship with a man and my ideal scenario would be to find a woman who at times may join in that relationship and see where it goes. If you are a woman and possibly interested, there are certainly no contingencies or pre-determined "rules" or an expectation to join in my relationship with my partner. If you are interested in me, just contact me! Open does not mean open to one-night stands or casual relationships for only sex. I am not open to those situations. I pass no judgment on others and the lifestyles they choose to lead. I only know at this point in my life I choose very selectively who I spend time with and I am only with those who bring me joy.

I have been involved with several different threesome scenarios but that was a long time ago during my mid-twenties. Those looking for a quick thrill, no attachment of any kind, or sex in groups need not respond to my profile. We won't be a match. I need to get to know my partners first. I need to have some feeling for them, otherwise it will not work for me. That DOES not mean that I am looking to get married again or for my "soulmate" or for the love of my life. I also prefer to not be involved with those who are married and/or attached and clearly not in an open relationship. I seek those who have something to offer in the way of their philosophy, their compassion, their plans, their companionship.

I have been on this site long enough to see that there are many players, many just passing the time online for entertainment, and many clearly looking for only sex. I am not a player, or an entertainer, or someone's fuck bunny. I am looking for a spark of intelligence and wit and a "joie de vivre."

I continually revise or add to my profile. I can send you pictures via email if you demonstrate an interest. If you are not interested I thank you for reading my profile anyway. I hope you find what YOU seek.

Update 7/9/09 I generally do not respond to most flirts. Also, I do not accept friends' invitations or testimonials. I prefer my privacy and direct communication through email. That is truly the best way to get my attention. In turn, I will also not flirt with you, or ask you to be part of my friends' network, or write a testimonial about you. If I am interested in you, I will let you know. I am only a standard member so I'm limited on the number of emails I can respond to each day, but I will respond, if only to let you know I am not interested.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list but I love Edwin McCain & Big Head Todd.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have several favorite sexual fantasies, but I prefer
to tell them during private conversations.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't fantasize about having sex with celebrities,
but I don't mind studying their beautiful body parts
on television or the movies.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.