I'm looking for a man who knows how to treat and spoil a woman because he enjoys seeing the smile on her face and twinkle in her eye when he brings her flowers, or caresses the small of her back while waiting in line for a movie. And he knows what his rewards will be...
I have a high libido and would like to meet men around my age for more than NSA or FWB - see "View more..." for the real scoop.
I sometimes go to clubs and play parties, and hopefully my partner would too as long as we do it at the same time, but I want my partner to be my primary and vice versa. No pun intended with the vice... well, maybe so!
I also like playing with couples (at clubs), so don't hesitate to get in touch. But smokers and married men just don't turn me on... and that's the point, isn't it?
My Ideal Person:
So how would it start? Coffee. A friendly meeting; a comfortable place. I walk in wearing something casual, not too sexy, but it shows off my curves. You've found a table out of the way where we can cozy up a bit.
We start with the all-too-common small talk. Sure, I'm interested in your work, the music and movies you like. But this is more about having THE talk. The one that first-time daters don't have. You know, the stuff you find out later, only to be... disappointed. The details that if you bring up with some people, they'd think you were a pervert, push the chair back with a loud scrape, and walk out faster than the roadrunner. But WE talk: hushed, smiling, flirting, teasing each other, brushing knees under the table.
Maybe we have similar tastes, maybe not. If we do, we know it right away. IF we're truthful with each other. And why not be? It's a waste of time if we aren't.
Then, if we figure out we're compatible, we decide what to do. It probably won't be to hop in bed right away - c'mon, don't be SO predictable. Let's build up to our first time. Because if we spend a little time getting to know each other, it will be fucking erotic. (Didn't you get enough of "just" fucking when you were younger?) Instead, we'll touch, feel, look, laugh, smile, explore, get to know each other's bodies. And leave each of us wanting and needing even more.
Did I leave anything out? If so, I'd sure like to hear your spin on it...
Oh, and if you're wondering what I think every man's dream is, scroll down to "View More..." and look for the red type... While you're at it, might as read the other stuff, too!
BTW: Please, if you're extremely conservative your other views, look elsewhere. And I will answer primarily to those who pay here - hey... I did!
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Nora Jones, Lyle Lovett, Billie Holiday, REM, Elton John,
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: YOUR desk at work
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, exhibitionism, being submissive to my dominant sir
Have you ever had cybersex?: No way. I only want skin on skin.
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