I'm a trim and attractive lady, long married with grown , whose relationship has opened over the past few years. That means my voyeur husband knows all about and even encourages my dating. I am often alone when he travels and I would like to have additional nearby companions. I enjoy the occasional afternoon delight as well as romantic evenings with dinner and dancing or the theatre. Comfortable conversation and the ability to create an emotional connection are critically important factors to me. I won't pursue any relationship without that special spark that happens when the chemistry is right, but I can neither anticipate its presence nor explain its absence. If you understand this, you probably feel the same way.

My Ideal Person I seek a real friend who I can call for a date when I find an afternoon or evening free. If all you want is a quick and easy lay, don't waste your time on me. Handsome would be great but kindness and intelligence are more important qualities. I want companionship more than cock, so I want to find gentlemen who are educationally, economically and philosophically compatible with me. I want to be able to share all sorts of public social activities on my dates, not just slink off to some motel. Sometimes the three of us will be out together, and sometimes the three of us will be "in" together. Homosexuality is not even remotely part of the equation for him, but I do enjoy lots of hands and tongues all over. Sometimes, even most times, you and I will be just a couple doing our own thing, since I choose to do most of my dating when my husband is away. It is expected that you will have a substantial sexual appetite, and if you are especially well-endowed or well-muscled that might be extra fun. We really don't want to particpate in deceit, or to give a frustrated husband a place to invest time and energy that should be spent making things work better at home. That pretty much means I’m looking for single men, though if a married man can convince me of his special circumstances, or if he seeks our assistance to gently introduce sharing into his own relationship, we might be able to negotiate some arrangement. Please realize that if you report being married or "prefer not to say," and make no attempt to explain such special circumstances, I will not bother to reply. It seems as if most of the men on Passion are married and cheating, and we decline to play that game. Since my life is already nearly filled with family, friends and work, my time often comes available only on short notice. As such, I am unlikely to reply to those who do not live or work nearby, meaning not much more than an hour from Princeton. However, if you live remotely but regularly visit this area and are interested in an ongoing relationship, that might offer an appealing opportunity. No matter what about me inspires you to respond, you will get my first attention if you try to open a window on the real "you."