please dont open with telling me your not looking for a relationship.....i find it insulting.....let me explain why:
relationships take time, i dont say hello thinking omg i wanna marry him..... i dont know you...it takes along time to get to know someone. i dont think a relationship is something you can look for anyways. i see things differently then most do.....
when you first meet someone your simply saying hi... asking a few things about eachother to see if you can have a conversation. i have no other expectations from saying hello. if you get along you might become friends who date...... eeek dont panic please..... dating is nothing more then hanging out getting to know eachother it isnt a relationship. it isnt a commitment. its simply 2 people who enjoy being around eachother getting to know eachother. it doesnt mean you will progress any further. most people forget dating is simply to have fun together. they treat it like an interview. they think dating means you have to be a couple. it isnt its simply just having fun. now a couple to me means you have had the talk and spent way more then 6 months together and know alot about eachother. you both decide what your defination of a couple is be it an open couple or closed. ive known guys i have seen for over a year and not once did i feel i was in a relationship...... so please again dont insult me by saying your not wanting a relationship.....this is Passion.com, not ehrmny.. I am very open minded to new experiences.I Have had some positive experiences with 1 on 1 and groups. More attracted to men younger then myself, but expanding on that to new things. Nothing beats the feeling of lips on your neck with hands in hair slightly pulling. I dont have any tolerance for rude behavior. were all supposed to be adults........I also try to never judge anyone for the choices they make in life or who they are. I may not get along with everyone but i respect them for their differences. Ive never felt like i belonged anyplace so i might seem distant. Im sorry.I prefer to get to know you first and no more random encounters for the most part. it makes me feel more comfortable and see if theres chemistry. If im going to kiss you i need to feel its something we both will want and enjoy. Im not looking for love , thats pathetically stupid and not what this site is for, but i am ready to date someone and go slow and see if we can get along. i want quality not quanity
My Ideal Person:
men between ages 25- 45 who are respectful and polite. Slightly agressive, good hygine, honesty and no games. Must kiss no exceptions. must want to explore things sexually we both want. I have so many wild fantasies in my head I want to try. please love watching porn of all kinds im a curious person. please moan it turns me on to go down on a guy who makes noises and shows me he loves how it feels to have me pleaseing him . i might have some submissive traits im not sure. I'd like to find out. If you dont wish to know me as a person and a friend we probably wont click. Im not on here to be the flavor of the hour either. lol
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