**Just gonna put this out there.. I don't date smokers.. it is a deal-breaker!!! Sorry... just can't stand it in any amount..**
I'm looking for men to have more than just NSA (no strings attached) sex. (Please read that first sentence several times if you don't understand what that means). I don't like one night stands, or "from out of town" hit and runs. I prefer to have actual relationships, whether it's just a really intimate friendship, or a full blown love affair, as opposed to something one notch above a booty call.
I am polyamorous (polyamorous: (adj)pertaining to participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships), and am not opposed to married/taken men, but I am straight, so I wouldn't be a partner with your wife/g.f... Sorry.
I'm Pagan, but don't let that scare you off. I'm pretty normal in most aspects, I just happen to be a Witch!
Something that I find VERY sexy, especially in an online setting, is when a man sends an email saying hello, I'm interested in you, here's a little about me, etc etc.. as opposed to a very sexually explicit one telling me what you want to do to me, or wish I'd do to you. We all know we're here on a sexual site, but don't assume that I'm wanting to jump in my car and fly to your house based on the fact you tell me you want to eat my pussy, want to fuck me, or will make me cum all night.
I'm educated, funny, well-traveled, well-read, and easy to get to know if you just converse with me a bit.
I'm a very full-figured woman, (for those of you that get confused by adjectives like "full-figured" or "ample".. yes it DOES mean I'm overweight),but well proportioned, and very healthy. If you're looking for someone thin or hard-bodied.. that isn't me.. I have a body built for comfort and sensuality. Soft and welcoming. 
I'm pretty dominant in my relationships, both in and out of bed. What that means, aside from the obvious, is that if you are a very Alpha male who likes to be in charge of the conversation, the sex, the everything, you probably won't need to try to get to know me. I don't take orders very well. I do, however, give them wonderfully.
I enjoy LIGHT BDSM, mostly for play, not a lifestyle...
I have tattoos (3) and they are all fairly small but visible, and I intend on getting more in the future. I prefer small, intimate gatherings as opposed to huge crowds, but those can be fun once in awhile as well. I adapt pretty well to almost any social situation, whether a bbq/keg party, a night at the symphony/late supper at an elegant restaurant setting, or anything in between.
I travel a good bit, for work and for pleasure. My kids are pretty much grown, so I have lots of freedom (though not always free TIME.. hehe).
I have an active social life, a pagan group I'm fairly active in as well as my own solitary practicing. I'm organizing a womens' prison release support group, I'm writing a book, and I have three kids, so please don't take offense if I have to "fit" you in. My free time is precious to me, and I dole it out carefully. I'm sure anyone with a busy life understands this. 
My Ideal Person:
*I would LOVE to meet more local men!!*
I don't believe there is an "ideal" person.. each one of us is unique. Different people have different qualities that draw me to them. I want to meet people that share my interests or at least get to know more about the things I like, and in return, allow me to do the same for them. I would love someone to just spend time with and enjoy good conversation and music (and...). I need someone who can carry a conversation with me about things other than racing, wrestling, or hunting. Nothing at all against those things, but I have no interest in them at all. I'm not interested in men who don't want to form at least somewhat of an attachment to/with me. I would like to develop genuine, fun-loving relationships/friends sort of situations with someone(s) who is sure of himself sexually, mentally, socially, who isn't afraid to "let go of the reins" sometimes, and who genuinely understands the difference between being a dominant woman and a Dominatrix (I am the former!). I'd like to have someone that can go places with me without having to plan months and months in advance, and can be seen in public with me without ducking wives, girlfriends, ex's, etc.
Even though I'm not into the ladies, I do not mind if YOUR lady is there, watching and/or sharing YOU. No random stranger 3-somes please. If you have an open marriage/relationship, and you can have "alone" time with me away from your wife/girlfriend, please make sure you follow all her "rules" when you come see me or I come see you, because I do NOT like drama or whiney e-mails from them bitching at me for things. <--- Read that last sentence as many times as needed to understand please.
No drama, no games, just true affection, true friendship, and true passion.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Probably too many to list.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Two men and me... and they are into each other as well...
wooot!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Mmmmm lets' see.. I love Matthew McConaugheys'
voice, Antonio Banderas' face, both their bodies..
I love the dude that plays Elliot Stabler on Law and Order
SVU... Johnny Depp is almost pretty enough to be a girl..
yummy! All time favorite would probably be Peter Steele
of the band Type O Negative. Pure sex.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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