About Me: I am looking to meet like minded people, new friendships, without sexual relations. I do want to settle down, should the 'right one' come along. Bi-curious, yet I have never dated a woman.
I am very easy to talk to and who doesn't love to get mail in the there mail box? I only ask that you read my ENTIRE profile before you do. There are certain emails that I will NOT respond to. Thank You!
Edit May 2009: I say this in the most humble, yet direct way possible! I’m just a happy Goth women that knows what she wants!
Since being on this site for a few months now, I feel it is necessary to mention a few things. I will NOT add anyone to my Network until there is some kind of correspondence and I know further communication will continue. I am not in dire straits for sex either. It isn’t a priority in any way. I also want to know the person I will be with. For those of you who are attached, married or in a LTR and your significant other doesn’t know about your Passion.com profile seeking sexual relations, please move on. I do NOT want anything to do with that situation. I however, don’t mind having a ‘non-sexual’ friendly relationship. I have a few friendships in that regard already. Everyone needs someone to talk to about things, and I see no wrong in that. I am not one to judge. If it doesn’t affect me and my life, in a negative way, as well as if it isn’t causing harm to the ‘other’ person in your life, I am fine with that. As soon as I see ANY indication of such, the friendship will end. I am NOT here to jeopardize any relationship.
I have stated in my profile below, that I am on disability, which obviously means, I have some health issues. I have months where I am sick and several months where I am the happiest Goth in the world. I do my best to keep things to myself and only discuss it when it has been established as something you ‘do’ want to know about. I am a strong individual and I DON”T need someone to hold my hand. I have been dealing with this for years. So if you can’t handle someone that deals with illness, move on. I don’t want to become close to you in ANY way, for you to later see me sick and then decide you don’t want to be apart of it.
Communication is a must! I do my best to respond to everyone that contacts me, even if I am not interested. I will reply back and let you know what my interest is in you. I am looking for friendships, more than sex. If something of the sexual nature happens, then that is an added bonus. Granted there ‘is’ an attraction by both parties. Communication via email or IM at first is a must! I look for substance in an email should you write me. I know what I have written thus far may have scared half of you away. *laughs* Not my intension in the least! I LOVE getting mail from people! It is a turn off when it is a line or two about fucking or the size of your cock….blah, blah, blah. I like intellectual, more personal data. I am NOT being picky or rigid in the least. My overall intension is to hopefully meet you at some point. I do attend Meet and Greets in my area and I have met several people individually for coffee. It is always a pleasure to finally see someone in person you have been communicating with via email.
So if you are still reading this, I will stop my little rant and let you continue on with my profile. Should you still be curious, by all means send me an email. I don't bite.....hard I look forward to talking to you! Now that wasn’t so bad, was it?
End of May 2009 Edit
Moving on….more about me! I am my 'Own' style. You either Love it or Hate. I consider myself very benevolent, esoteric and cautious. I like me and I am not changing. I am "Goth" and love boots! Especially platforms. I always try and incorporate lace in my wardrobe. Have recently started sewing and love to 'cut-n-paste' outfits that need modified. I have tattoos on my neck, wrists and ankles. I plan on getting more in the near future. I use to have my eyebrow and nosed pierced. Would like to get them done again. My favorite color is black and red. Hence the hair color.
My family and my dog are the most important things in my life. I also live a clean and sober lifestyle.
Things that are of interest to me are animals, music, cooking, arts and crafts, movies, trauma medicine, CSI, paranormal, tattoos, long drives, motorcycles, and off-road trucks (used to own one). I had training as an EMT(Emergency Medical Technician), was a 4X4 search and rescue volunteer, first aid and CPR instructor and a course in phlebotomy(blood drawing). I have also been one the other of medicine, having had MANY surgeries myself, which has ultimately put me on disability.
I enjoy intellectual conversation, well educated, open-minded personalities, spontaneity and public affection. I also like a man who is a little rough around the edges. Most of my friends are men, so it isn't out of the norm to 'rough house' a little. It keeps me strong and on my toes!
I am planning in the next few months to get my motorcycle license! I have always had a thing for motorcycles. I am quite partial to a Suzuki GSRX. I kind of look at this as a great way to celebrate my upcoming b-day as well as my 1 year anniversary of being clean and sober!
WARNING: To any institutions using this site, or any of its associated sites, for studies or projects: you do NOT have my permission to use ANY of my profile information (including text and/or photographs, videos) in any form, or forum, both currently and/or in the future. If you have already done so, or intend to do so, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy, and the violation will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.
I'm known for: Helping others is just automatic. If I see or hear someone being treated very poorly, I will not hesitate to get involved. I also have a tendency to make others laugh until they cry or simply pass out. I have a rather wide variety of humor. I would say the majority is fairly raunchy.
My Ideal Person:
I find myself attracted to men that have a 'bad boy' image. I love long hair, but then I also like bald men as well. Bonus points if you have tattoos and piercings. I have curves or padding I suppose you could say. So I look for someone that would work well with my beautiful size. Height is also important, especially when I am wearing platforms. I also think it is important for a man to NOT be afraid to kiss. Hmmmmmm.....the art of kissing in itself is incredibly euphoric. There may be very few times when it isn't necessary. I also find the neck to be a very neurotic part of the body. Especially when squeezed tightly.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Switchblade Symphony, Wumpscut, Ramstein, Marilyn Manson, Korn, Disturbed, Evanescence, Dead Can Dan
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: On an autopsy table.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: No particular place
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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