I'm interested in meeting a man who approaches life with the belief that there are many beautiful things out there just waiting to be discovered. Ideally he has a passion (not just sexual) for life and his beliefs whatever they may be.
My personality and character are quite strong. I prefer men with the same qualities. Just to be clear, I have no desire to engage in power struggles. He should understand that loud and aggressive does not equate to "strong." After all ...loud and aggressive people are vexations to the spirit... I think two strong minded people can compromise and have an amazing relationship.
I'd like to find a man who does not cling to me nor me to him, but rather someone who can stand beside me. I don't want a man who makes my life. I want a man who enhances it the same way I would enhance his.
The physical characteristics I am most drawn to are dark hair, olive skin (a Mediterranean look) I workout regularly and pay attention to the way I dress. I speak Spanish and French, so if there is someone out there who could at least speak French I would be really happy.
In addition to working out I enjoy going to the theater, clubs, jazz club etc....
Physical attraction is certainly important, but I need to be intellectually stimulated as well. I've found in the past that no matter how good things are if I cannot have some sort of mental/intellectual connection I get bored quickly.
One of the benefits of this site is that people tend to really be themselves and express exactly what they want. I believe this really saves a lot of time.
I realize this site attracts swingers and men who, for whatever reason, are not willing to leave their wives and girlfriends.I'm not judging but I am simply not interested so please move on.
My Ideal Person:
My ideal man is an educated professional who is physically fit. He should take pride in his appearance and appreciate a woman who does the same.
He does not have to be exactly like me but at least appreciate what I can bring to the relationship. Ideally he can enhance my life and I could enhance his.
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