Thanks for your visit to my profile. I am sorry to disappoint, but I am NO LONGER AVAILABLE. I have a wonderfully, amazing man who is "bananas about me" and I am certainly bananas about him! We are keeping our profiles for our personal use and to keep in touch with some friends we've made. So good luck to you! We hope you find what you're looking for.
I am a thick, sexy, curvy woman. I have long, dark, naturally curly hair and hazel eyes. I am voluptuous and sensual and when I get in the mood.... watch out.
Lets get something out of the way: WHAT DO I MEAN BY "FRIEND"? Friends are people who share fun times, call each other randomly, hang out when the mood strikes, and maybe decide to share some intimacy. All this talk about "Friends with Benefits" is a bunch of bullshit. Lets just say it like it is - You want to fuck, but you don't want to sound like a jerk so you call it "friendship". Don't tell me you want to be "friends" and then get all "wigged out" when I try to act like one!
While I understand that many people use this site primarily to find sex partners, many do not, and I am one of those people. Look, nothing I've said is code for "I'm trying to catch a man" - - get a grip commitment phobes!! The only way I want to tie a man down is with a silk scarf! However; with that said, I think we can all agree that if the "perfect person" were to come along we all would be willing to get exclusive, but I, for one, am not actively seeking commitment. - UPDATE: The right one has appeared!
I am LOYAL and when I call someone a friend, I mean it. I choose my inner circle very carefully, so if you're ever lucky enough to be included in it, don't take it for granted. That's part of why I'm keeping my profile up - to keep in touch with my friends.
I love to laugh and I love to have fun! I am classy and tolerate nothing but respect. There's nothing that turns me off quicker than men who don't know how to act.
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a "gentleman". PLEEEASE don't bother me if you like to duck n dodge, lie, blow women off, play games, or talk down to people. I'm a grown ass woman and I don't have time for men who act like little boys.
I really love to go out and have fun. I want a man who wants to take me out and have a fantastic time laughing and enjoying each other's company.
I also want a man who acts like a man - knows how to "wear his pants" so to speak and how to treat me like a lady. I find "manly" men extremely sexy. (Read a couple of my blogs and you'll see)
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Dave Matthews Band; Annie Lennox; Sarah Mclachlan; Pink;JustinTimberlake;Kanye West; Aerosmith....
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: This just may be a TRUE fantasy - I fantasize about meeting a man who may not exist. update: I FOUND HIM! :)
He doesn't have an issue with the truth. Nothing is hidden. He doesn't freak out when I show affection for him. He enjoys doing fun things with me. He treats me with respect. When/if things go sour, fizzle out, or circumstances change, we discuss it like adults. He doesn't just disappear. If I make a mistake, say something stupid, or have a weak moment he rises above it and we talk about it. He doesn't just dump me.
.....And what is his reward for being such a good, good boy??? He gets to have the true freak in me. We have amazing sex whenever he wants it. No matter what his size, he is satisfied because he knows that I am TIGHT and I have stamina that exceeds expectations. He can have me just about any way or any where he wants me. He realizes that I love sex.... I CRAVE sex. I like to ride as well as be ridden. I like to dominate and be dominated. I like to pleasure and be pleasured. I like to play... a stranger... a naughty nurse... a bad, bad girl... licking and rubbing and massaging, and sucking... while wearing my black thigh highs and stilettos... or my nightie without panties.... or nothing but the oil I've spread all over my body...
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: .. Hill Harper - He's on CSI NY. He's so friggen hot. I could lick him all day. Dermot Mulroney - He was in "The Wedding Date" and a bunch of other chick-flicks. He always has such a sensual mannerism about him that I find him a total turn-on. He's always a perfect gentleman and he's totally into his partner's pleasure - of course he's probably nothing like that in real life. Will Smith - He's so sweet and kind. BUT, I saw an interview once with Jada Pinket and she eluded to how friggin hot he is in bed. I've fantasized about him ever since. Eminem - He's such a badboy-whiteboy. He looks like he could really "put me in my place" during sex. I imagine him grabbing me by my hair....
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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