I'm feisty and know how to take charge when the situation calls for it but love being submissive to the right man. I am very generous and want to please others-as long as my needs are met as well. I am not a petite lady but I'm not obese either (at least I don't think so)
I took this test to show my color personality I already knew I was a RED but I thought what does it mean in the dating world...so when it gave me the meaning I decided why not let everyone else see it...so here it is:
Nobody Dates Like A RED This is true. When you are in pursuit of something (or somebody!), you tend to go all out. You dress to impress, you get the limo, the tickets, the flowers, the reservations, and the whole shebang. You by nature are a very competitive opponent to any other potential suitor who may come along, and you take great pleasure in taking home the prize.
You Are Highly Protective Of Your Companion When you commit to someone, they can feel your protection on all levels. You see them as part of you, and are willing to go to war verbally and even physically on their behalf. You will not back down or remain silent when your partner is being attacked. Your companion loves to know that he is being taken care of and that you will be there to back him up and defend him whenever necessary.
You Need Respect As a RED, you naturally want to be respected. In fact, it may be more important to you to be respected than loved. You also need for your partner to be worthy (and if needs be, demanding) of your respect. How can you love what you can't respect? You appreciate your partner more if they demand your respect than simply allow you free license to walk all over them.
You Need To Appear Knowledgeable You value your intellectual and logic-based abilities. You consider your ability to reason and problem-solve to be one of your greatest attributes. You want your partner to value this about you as well and to promote this image to others. If your partner were to ever embarrass you publicly, you would have a hard time ever getting over it.
You Want To Tightly Hide Your Insecurities You feel insecure about your various inadequacies, and feel powerless when such things are exposed. Therefore, it is your tendency to guard those feelings of insecurity and inadequacy very tightly even from your significant other. This is not always appropriate, and you should find someone with whom you are able to open your heart and be vulnerable to so that you learn to value yourself for who you are and not solely by what you are able to produce.
You Want Your Productivity to Be Supported REDS want to be productive, and you are no exception. You feel you are at your best when you are able to accomplish various goals. It is important that you find someone who allows you the time and the space that you need to continue to produce and do what you do best.
Top 5 RED Turn-Ons: 1. Being competent 2. Demanding attention and respect from them and others 3. Being direct, brief, and specific 4. Presenting issues logically 5. Supporting their leadership instincts
Top 5 RED Turn-Offs: 1. Embarrassing them in front of others 2. Arguing from an emotional perspective 3. Being slow and indecisive 4. Taking their arguments personally 5. Waiting for them to solicit your opinion

My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a nice clean d/d free man that knows that chemistry is important and that sex gets better and better the more you get to know their likes and dislikes...this doesn't mean that I'm looking for a long term committed relations but I sure in the hell wouldn't run from it if it was to happen in the future!
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: Under a waterfall, My desk at work
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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