Note up front: I don't do cam sex, cyber sex or phone sex.
Another note: I never look at profiles that don't contain at least one photo of the person belonging to the profile, and I don't reply to emails that don't include a photo. Face photos are much appreciated!
Seeking quality over quantity. A hastily-arranged spur-of-the-moment quickie is not my style.
I can't exactly describe my preferred physical type but I know it when I see it. A compact, wiry, defined body is what I picture but that is not a rigid rule.
A big brain is a huge turn-on for me. Education, yes, but lots of street smarts and common sense as well.
In sexual situations I know what I want and I'll tell you. And you can tell you want. I won’t be offended or shocked. Forthrigt and open is best.
I'm ultra-discreet. Professional, intelligent, witty, clever, creative, imaginative, up with current events, healthy (in body & lifestyle), completely disease-free. A down-to-earth, stable, reliable and self-reliant, non-clingy, highly physical, very oral, playful, humorous type. Adaptable, open-minded, believe in live & let live. Flexible both mentally and physically, well-read, interested in the world around me. I'm an animal & nature lover. I'm calm, laid-back, low-key, easy to be with, very low-maintenance. I love learning new things. Learning at least one new thing every day every day means I'm alive and living life, not just getting through it.
I don't want to change anyone and I take people as I find them. I'm well past the point where I feel like I need to acquire "stuff". Cars, houses, types if jobs don't impress me.Simple is good.
No games here, and no baggage or drama. Easy on the eyes and I've been called classy by many men in the past.
I'm not looking for a dating or a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. For now I just want the physicality that results from the two-way lust factor. If something grows from that, fine, but it is not my objective. We meet - if the lust/chemistry is there...great! If it’s not there for either or both of us we should each feel free to say "thanks, but no thanks" without anyone getting offended. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
No strings attached, ever. No pouts, fits or tantrums from me. Can be a regular thing if it's good. I prefer to be in a monogamous arrangement.
I'm willing to experiment sexually, with some boundaries. But I am not interested at all in being with another woman in any way, so if that's your heart's desire, count me out. I am strictly a man's woman...I love everything about mens' bodies. I like sex but only the hetero type. I'm not even remotely bi-curious. However, it is fine with me if the guy is bi-curious or bisexual.
The bar/party scene bores me. I'm the intimate type. I don't like loud places or loud people. I'm not a voyeur or an exhibitionist. I'm not against those, they just don't interest me.
I'm free to travel to just about anywhere (in the U.S.), almost any time.
My Ideal Person:
Open to any age and ethnicity, however, I do prefer guys younger than myself. Sorry, that’s just what turns me on. If you're hairy (not talking about the head) - all the better. Hairy guys excite me. I typically go for brunettes but gray, salt & pepper, bald (shaved or natural) are fine too.
I like the guy's height to be in the range of 5' 7" - 5' 11". 6' is pushing it somewhat. Even 5' 11" is pushing it. But a few inches taller is not a deal-breaker.
Guys who are sexually aggressive and dominant are what I want. Shy and/or hesitant guys just don't do it for me. I’m confident & assertive. I want a guy who goes for what he wants when we’re together. I’ll do the same. We can role-play, trading off dominant/ submissive, if you like. In fact, I'd like to try me as a submissive. It's all about what we feel like at the time.
Well-educated guys go to the top of the list. Plenty of street smarts count as well-educated. I like guys who can keep up with me mentally, who have good converstaional skills.
I'm not goofy, loopy, flaky, an airhead or "out there", but instead practical, logical, rational, always on an even keel. If you're l;ooking for a ditz-head you're on the wrong ad.
You don't need to try to impress me. Be who you are. I know a good guy when I find one.
Tattoos, piercings, druggies, drinkers and smokers are not for me. I will make an exception for the right person on the smoking and a few tattoos. I wouldn't make a good 'motorcycle mama". A subtle earring is OK. Studded dog collars, body armor, chains or the hedgehog look are not.
I'd like someone who takes at least a little pride in his appearance. Doesn't have to be Mr GQ but at least be clean and presentable. I am someone you wouldn't be ashamed to be seen with and I desire the same in a guy. You don't have to be preppie/yuppie but if you go out in public in sweat pants when you're not jogging, and you think the height of fashion is wearing a baseball cap during all your waking hours...uhhh, no thanks. If Larry the Cable Guy is a hero of yours...again, no thanks.
Nice teeth are a big plus. It goes without saying (but I'll say it anyway) - please have clean fingernails. Dirt or black grease under the fingernails is not a pretty sight. I like a man to be manly so sweat is fine but b.o. is not so fine.
Am I being too picky?
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, hayloft of a barn, in top of a high peak, in a seedy motel room,
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Massage, trying every position, writing & reading graphic
stories, learni
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I've had erotic dreams about a few male celebs but never
fantasize about them during waking hours.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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