looking for a gentleman but with some twist. Not too much twist. I need a patient man who can spend a few days typing before wanting to meet. I have to admit I have baggage but it is worth the trip. Mostly I can carry my own baggage but now they have wheels so it is so much easier. I want to find a relationship that is casual but safe. I enjoy the company of a man who can both listen and talk. Who lives in a world with feeling and embraces feelings. For me that is the key for meaningful sex and isn't that really what we all want in the end. NO MARRIED MEN Yes age does matter not that I don't look at those hot young bodies and think about what I would like to do but.....even if you promise to be gentle and love "older" women I need and older soul. Now the age I would like is 40 to 45 and up. I have lived and my story is not short. I can't even begin to explain the many paths my life has gone down. I have learned from each experience and try hard not to be bitter. Life is good for me now and I am ready to travel and have some fun. Semi retired/disabled from nursing. Now writing my great life story that is why no real details. You have to buy the book. I enjoy being in the Bay Area. Finding a new place to eat that is great or just stopping in the City because we find a parking space are great past times. Plans can change and be the best thing ever if we stay open to it. well here I am with all I give you now.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Well here is the truth I am Dead Head but I love most music.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having a group of close friends 6 or 8 that we can vacation
together and swap as we all wish. Or be one big group. It seems
like a real vacation from everyday life. It could be camping
one year and a cruise the next. I would like to visit a all
nude vacation spot or take a all nude cruise.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
It is not so much a fantasy but watching Brad Pitt (as much
as I hate to admit it) it helpful to get me warmed up. I don't
care what the movie is and I don't even need to hear it,
he's just so pretty.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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