Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it turns into something serious, I won't complain. I want to find a friend that I have a strong physical chemistry with. I like to meet for a drink or two and see if there is any chemistry. An easy way to kill the mood and the chemistry is to ask me 5 minutes into the meeting if there is any ("So, what do you think?", "Do you like me?", "Do you think I'm attractive?", "What did you think of my cock pic?"). If there is something there . . .cool, game on. . . I prefer someone just go with the flow of the meeting in a natural manner.
I'm a planner. If you are not a person that can make and keep plans (barring any unforeseen circumstances) then please do not waste my time of yours . . .we will never . . .ever . . .get along.
The philosophy I live by is if it gives you that adrenaline rush, in or out of bed, it was worthwhile. . .assuming it won't kill me, you, or the both of us. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. If all goes well I'd like to be able to chill, laugh, enjoy one another . . .and then have more sex  The more comfortable I am the more likely things will go well and we can maintain a steady sexual partnership.
Sexually, I have the potential to be pretty wild, but only if the chemistry and level of comfort and compatibility is right. When I'm at home alone, I'm usually doing work of some kind or researching something. I look forward to meeting some new people/couples and seeing what may be a good situation for all involved.
If you contact me please include a face pic. I have plenty of face pics to trade. I do not post them on here due to my station in life. My career is one of the most important and fulfilling things in my life and I do not want it to be compromised.
I'm not changing my life, I'm just turning up the volume on my leisure time. If a positive long term relationships comes as a result . . .cool . . .if not, so be it.
I cannot tolerate someone cocky. You are not better than me. I am not better than you. If you behave in such a manner . . .I'm out. Batteries and porn are better than a cocky man any day.
Things I WON'T DO
* I will not meet you in a non-public place. There will be no meeting in the park or parking lot - I am not 16 years old and not looking to give you head or get fucked in the car.
* I will not come to your house so you can "make me dinner" . . .give me a fucking break . . .seriously
* I will not give you my phone number, nor do I want yours, prior to a first meeting. It's best to not exchange such things before you actually know for sure you want someone to have it and use it regularly. Some people are psycho/stalkers. If you are a person that just said to yourself, "I'm not like that . . . I wouldn't do that . . . . " then you are probably one of those people indeed. DO NOT GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER prior to meeting me or unless I ask for it for a specific reason. Also, this same notion goes towards any IM information as well. If I want it, I will ask. There is something to be said about someone's character who gives out personal information (phone number, IM handles) in an initial/first contact email.
* I will not tolerate someone who is late to a first meeting OR changes plans at the last minute for what appears to be no good reason. I will respect your time and you will respect mine. If you already know you are a "late" person or one who feels there is nothing wrong with changing plans for no apparent reason then DO NOT CONTACT ME . . . I don't have time for bs. Respect me . . .I will respect you.
* I will not be with a married man. I believe in Karma and am not trying to mess up anything I may have with someone in the future.
* I will not respond to you if your profile contains only you age, race, and hair color . . .maybe less. If you think it is okay to put prefer not to say for the grand majority/all of the basic profile questions it means that you are simply looking for something that is all about YOU. You want to look at other profiles and pick and choose as you please based on his/her answers . . .but, you don't feel the need to answer any questions so someone else can find something they are actually looking for in you (or whoever)then we will never get along. For the love of God, don't give me the "I didn't have time to fill that part out" crap because if you had time to send me an email you could have easily checked off a couple things and hit save. If you cannot comply with common decencies and typical "NETiquette" then I am not interested. There's that whole respect thing again . . . appears to be a common theme here. If you don't have it for others or yourself . . .don't contact me.
* Please do not contact more than once if I don't get back to you. To those of you who take the time to look to see if someone read the e-mail you sent. . . . .if someone deletes your message without responding . . .it simply means they aren't interested . . . that's it- nothing more, nothing less. There is NO NEED to "stalk" that person on-line and harass them simply because they didn't get back to you. If you are one of these types you may be thinking well, the least you could do is say you aren't interested . . . that would take quite a bit of time. . . and in all honesty, I'm simply not that nice. I am not even trying to say I'm all that, I don't think that for a second. However, I cannot believe how many people have sent me e-mails saying anything from "I guess I'm just not good enough for you" to "You just passed up the best thing that ever happened to you" to calling me a variety of derogatory names that are totally uncalled for. Come on people . . . .it's an internet dating/sex site where ya look at some pictures and read a blurb about someone . . . it isn't E friggin Harmony.
* I will not add you to my friend network simply because you send a request. I don't take the term "friend" lightly in any arena. All the people/couples on my friend list are people I've chatted with and/or met . . .people I know I have some sort of connection with. I will not add people as some sort of "popularity" contest. It about quality, not quantity. So, if you are "denied" it is nothing personal.
If you think I am being too harsh or too demanding then please, by all means, pass me by . . .you are not my type . . .and please do not bother to email me and tell me what a bitch I am because I simply do not care about your little and loud opinion. I'm honest, not a bitch . . .there is a difference.[/B]
With that said, if you are still interested . . .or possibly even turned on (lol) . . . .read on because there are plenty of things I will happily do for or with you.
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for someone I am compatible with both mentally and physically. Someone that can have a few drinks and share a few stories before we jump into bed. I'm looking for someone that isn't pressing me and fishing for compliments . . .people who ask, "So, what do you think?" within moments of meeting is a huge turn off.
With a female ONLY, I may need her to take control. I have had only a handful of experiences with women . . .loved them ALL . . . and look forward to more with a cool chic.
***IF THERE IS CHEMISTRY***
A good friend told me that I need to be more specific about what I am looking for sexually on here. My fear of doing such stemmed from the idea that immediately after I met a man/woman/couple they would be trying to do all the freaky things I enjoy doing as soon as I walk in the room...even if it was a restaurant. All of the things below require a great deal of comfort between two (or three  people. If all goes well, here are some things I already know I like or I am willing to experiment with. I am not saying these things MUST occur . . .just putting it out there
**ass play - not just stick your dick in my ass and hope for the best. Allow me to play with you, with your direction and discretion and vice versa
**anal sex - I've been know to love it or hate it. It truly all depends on the approach. ALWAYS start with ass play . . .if I want it, I will ask you to fuck my ass . . .plain and simple. Do not take it upon yourself to think I want it unless I ask for it.
**Strap-ons - Are fairly new for me but find that I absolutely love using one. . . on men or women.
**Tits - When I am on top, and I prefer to be most of the time, you need to pay attention to my tits. Suck them, nibble, bite . . .
**G-Spot - Make an effort to find my G-Spot and manipulate in manually . . .often. . . . if done correctly, I will squirt . . .not like on porn where I am squirting cameras and stuff . . .it's more like, damn it's a shame I couldn't protect the mattress . . .
**Eating my pussy - I love giving it and receiving it (when it is done well). I don't want a guy that goes down on me just to say he did or to shut me up. I want you to love being down there . . .and it will be obvious if you do or don't. Pay attention to what I tell you while you are down there because I will tell you what I like and what I want. Make sure you kiss me when you are done because it's simply just hot and I love how I taste.
**Giving head - Love it. I strive for perfection. I realize all men are different (in some respects) and I want to know what to do to make it great for you. If stimulating your ass is off limits then you should tell me in advance or I will try to explore because I have seen the amazing results of stimulating the prostate. . . and I like it. If you don't know what I'm talking about, google the male G (or P) spot...take an active approach in making your sex life better. After all, it isn't about quantity . . .it's about quality.
**Choke me - don't do it without direction if you have never done it before . . .this isn't like putting someone in a headlock or grabbing them by the throat like you want to throw them into a wall or something.
** Cum - I love knowing a guy is about to cum . . . and watching him come to fruition is a huge turn on for me. . .especially on my tits and even more so my face. Again, I will tell you where and how I want it.
** One of the hottest things I have experienced is having a guy cum in or on me and then going down and licking it up and then coming right back up to kiss me with his own nut in his mouth. Also find it to be an intense turn on when a guy licks his cum off my face/tits or anywhere else. I realize it's not everyone's cup of tea . . .and no it doesn't mean you're gay . . .it just means you are willing to try something that will please the shit out of me and that you may even find you like . . .stranger things have happened.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Portishead, Amy Winehouse, Metallica, many, many more
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'd rather tell you in person
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, An elevator
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Participating in Erotic Photography
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Vince Vaugh and John Cusack . . .I just think they would be
fun in and out of the bedroom . . down to earth. . .
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