I'm 45 yrs old and have been divorced for 5 1/2 years. I am a lady...I am a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, and an ex-wife. I am no virgin and I am no slut. If you need to be needed, I am not the one for you. I am independent and can take care of myself. If you ache to be wanted, we should talk; I'll be great for your ego. I work a lot...perhaps a bit too much, but I'm willing to renegotiate that for the right person. I don't need anyone to pay my bills or rescue me from lonliness...or anything else, for that matter. I'd like to meet someone that doesn't need me, per se', but wants me.
OK, never let it be said that I think I know it all. What I do know, is myself. Soooo...I join an "adult " site...full of swingers, perverts, marrieds, singles, good folks, bad, lonely people, sexually unsatisfied...there's a title for all of us, right? I like sex...good sex; something powerful...fulfilling...passionate...har d...fast...tender...soft...yeah, even downright nasty, sometimes. Does that mean I am all for having wild-animal-kingdom-ohmahgawd-fuck-me-ha rd-sex with every man I am attracted to? Nah...call me old-fashioned, call me a prude, call me whatever you like, but I'm just not wired for a casual sex relationship. Don't mistake that statement for thinking I am husband hunting. I'd just like somebody that wants one woman for a good relationship...sex, laughs, dinner, maybe a movie. I don't want to own you or every spare moment you have. I don't want your money, your 401-K, your bass boat. I want you to appreciate me and my time as much as I'll appreciate you and yours.
My Ideal Person:
Do I miss the companionship of a man? Yes. Do I need a man to make me feel "complete?" No. Who am I looking for? Heck, I'm not sure; I don't know him yet. I could describe my dream man, but I'm not even sure he exists. I suppose, instead of how he looks, physically...I'm more interested in how he looks at me. The color of his eyes is less important than what lies behind them. How his face changes when his eyes meet mine, is more important to me than any bone structure or other facial feature.
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