Please read the ENTIRE profile before contacting me. If your attention can't stay focused for the short period of time it should take to read about me, I'm not the one for you.
Now, with that said, let's get to the good stuff. 
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Attractive, well-groomed, voluptuous, honey-skinned, fun-loving, down-to-earth, very well educated and smart woman looking for a rare combination: a highly intelligent, authentic, relatively attractive man who can eventually become a great long-term companion, friend and lover. Race unimportant. Intellect, respect, discretion and other qualities are. I'm particularly fond of the well endowed (what can I say, I like the total package).
As for me, I can be very loving, tolerant, supportive and loyal with the right person. I'm pretty normal, overall; I just happen to enjoy good sex as well as smarts.
Let me also be clear. Just because I have a strong sex drive doesn't mean I'm going to hop in bed with you the moment we meet. I'm a lady in public. I usually like to take a bit of time looking before I leap.
But once I leap, I'm all the way in. In all ways.
My Ideal Person:
Here's what I'm NOT looking for: those who are married or otherwise attached, or those who are interested in some variation of a booty call. If that's all I wanted, I could get that very easily. I'm interested in creating a genuine friendship that has the potential to become much more over time.
I also have no interest in being around people who are co-dependent or emotionally needy. Involves way too much drama and drains energy I need to reserve for me.
And please, whatever you do, don't lie about who you are, especially not to a "curious girl." Don't unnecessarily hype your personality, looks, intellect, "equipment," and other attributes. Don't lie about who you are or aren't seeing. I'm a grown up; I can take it. Don't make promises you can't keep. Don't lie about your age or show me a pic of how you looked centuries ago. I actually like men who are anywhere from 10 years younger to more than 20 years older than I am.
So just be up front and say who you are and what you really want, not what you think someone wants to hear. Be real. Be yourself. You can expect the same from me.
What I like: a good sense of humor; self-confidence without arrogance; a relatively balanced work and personal life; stability; consistency; the ability to engage in interesting conversation on a regular basis; good hygiene; stamina; intelligence; honesty; a generous spirit; self-respect and respect for others, and, of course, sexual skill.
And please know what that last term means. If you have to spend time wondering whether the definition would apply to you, we're probably not compatible.
One last thing. I know we're all getting older every day, and that none of us looks or functions the same as we did years ago. But if you're having serious erectile dysfunction issues--or to put it crudely, you can't get hard or stay hard for very long, even with the assistance of a little blue pill--it's unlikely things will work out between us. Please don't waste my time or yours if you're having those kinds of problems.
UPDATE I've met some very interesting people in my time on this site and will continue to check in to chat and hang out. But I have a feeling I'm going to be spending quite a bit of energy concentrating on one very special person I've started dating. He's quite a guy, and I don't say that lightly. I'm looking forward to the adventure ahead.
My advice, for those who want it: Be clear about what you want, and be patient. Very patient. Good things do come to those who wait.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Chicago, the Eagles, Etta Jones, Billie Holliday, NinaSimone, Steely Dan, Aretha Franklin
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Massage, ANR
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