I'm not ready for marriage but I do think at this point in my life I do want someone in my life on a regular basis just nothing serious right now. Please do check out my blog.
(If you are married and cheating don't waste my time or your's by emailing me. If you are black and offended that my preference is not for black men there is no need to email or IM me complaining about it it's a preference get over it. Everyone doesn't like BBW's either but I don't email them whining)
I love to have a great time! I like to attend Renaissance fairs, flea markets, listen to live bands, love to go fishing and swimming, play pool, board and card games, enjoy reading, crafts, dancing, hanging out with friends! As long as I'm smiling I'm having fun!
I feel a first meeting should be somewhere quiet so that you can talk and get to know one another. I'm not meeting anyone at a motel or their home for a first meeting so don't even ask. Please don't assume I'm having sex with you right off the bat. If what you want is a slut in public I'm not your woman, behind closed doors we have a different story. If you don't kiss then we're not gonna click, for me kissing is a must and you must be a good kisser.
Don't expect oral if you don't return the favor, I love oral I'm just not interested in selfish lovers. Talking dirty is wonderful during sex I even enjoy it but outside the bedroom it's just trashy talk so don't send trashy emails. If you can't compose an email without being vulgar then we aren't going to click.
I am not bisexual but have no problem with a threesome as long as everyone involved respects that.
I'm a 45 year old divorced mom living in Northwest Alabama. I've been divorced 9 years. I'm seeking a friend with benefits in my area. I won't settle for anything less than what I'm seeking so if you are seeking casual sex or one night stands I'm not interested. I'm willing to travel 60 miles round trip tops to meet someone for a first meeting, otherwise you come to me. Once we meet and we click I am then willing to travel further to see someone. I'm also a BBW so if that is a problem move on down the line.
I travel to Birmingham Alabama and Nashville TN a couple of times a year. I visit the Tennessee Social Club in Nashville, TN as often as possible. I've also visited Sweet Desires in Birmingham AL -- both are great places to attend with very friendly people.
My Ideal Person:
My ideal person would be someone I connected with and that is also interested in a long term sexual relationship. I won't settle for anything less than friend with Benefits but if more becomes of it then that's great too. I prefer a long-term sexual relationship that also involves friendship. Although I'm not particularly seeking a romantic relationship that doesn't mean I don't want romance. I adore tall handsome men, goatees that are kept neatly trimmed, or grey/salt and pepper hair on a man. I prefer tall larger (over 6ft)frame men or BHM's. I absolutely love bald men but then I have met men with long hair that I adored. There are many things I have found attractive in individuals and these are only a few. Bald men just trip my trigger but so does long curly hair kept neat! A great sense of humor and intelligence are definitely at the top of the list along with an honest/sincere personality.
These things aren't written in stone either since personality is much more important to me than looks and I have also met some petite men that caught my attention. Intelligence and a great sense of humor are a must. I may be seeking a FWB but that doesn't mean I'll meet just anyone. To me a FWB means there is more than just sex but no emotional ties other than friendship.
I can't send winks normally but if I find you interesting I'll add you to my hotlist and if you are interested contact me and we'll go from there.
If you are picture seeking don't try and add me as a friend I only add those as friends that I am interested in meeting and only keep them on my friends list for a minimal time I'm not here to jack up a list of friends or share pictures.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've always wanted to be with two men but it's never
happened other than some "petting" with two
guys. I have to have a lot of trust in order to do this and so
far I haven't found two guys that were willing that
I knew and trusted.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Toe sucking!, Breast/Nipple but not rough
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sean Connery! I just think he's plain sexy.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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