My Ideal Person:
Someone with their own identity. I'm not looking to define or be defined by someone else. Please, please, please - if you are married, please do not contact me unless you and your spouse have an arrangement that allows you to play. I'm not looking to steal anyone's man, to be anyone's property, nor to own anyone. I don't play games and I'm not one to be played. If you don't want to take the time to get to know me at least a little before meeting (let alone trying to jump into bed) then I'm NOT your huckleberry. If you're into the wham bam, no need to inquire within. I'm not judging, just letting you know it's not what I'M looking for. I mean it when I say the friendship is important - benefits are just that, benefits. Eventually, I'd like to find my partner, but I'm not "on a mission" and I believe in going with the flow. Some people are for keeps and some are for play and I have no desire to "convert" either. Just so you know, hygiene, intelligence, and manners are potent aphrodisiacs...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Eisbrecher, Oingo Boingo, Corvus Corax, Alison Krauss,
Big and Rich, Jill Tracy

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
You'll have to ask...gotta save something for conversation...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Blindfolds, Massage, depends who I'm with

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sure... Salma Hayek - gorgeous body, spirit and intellect,
and balls bigger than any man I've ever known Gerrard
Butler - eyes, body, voice & accent, intellect, raw
sex appeal Sean Connery - rugged sophistication, voice
& accent, attitude Tom Jones - raw sexuality, voice,
and the man can DANCE his ass off Sam Elliot - voice, intellect

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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