Hi Friends! I've been on here before, but I'm going to try again. I'm in my late 50's but I'm not DEAD!!! I want to have some fun! I love to dine out, dance, go to concerts, antiquing, festivals, flea markets, pet events, or just a nice ride in the country.
I want a partner who is still sexually active and not ready to while away his time in a recliner. I am hoping that I can find an open minded person who shares some of my beliefs, and also wants a true partner. I have studied Tantra since the early 80's and give a great Tantric massage. I'm interested in the spiritual/sexual aspects of our life and believe that we can keep that going no matter what our age. I tend to like men close to my age, but we all know age is mainly in the mind
Let me stress this again...I am not here JUST for sex. I would love an LTR if it happens to be in our future, but I'm not in a hurry. I can be patient for the right person to come along.
One thing you should know....if you smoke, I will have problems with that due to allergies. If you drink too much, I will have problems with that, although I love a glass of wine or a cocktail...just don't overdo.
If you don't like animals, don't even bother to contact me. I do rescue for small dogs, and have some of my own...my house is usually a sea of terriers.
I don't feel we have to be exactly alike, but we do have to have some basics in common....let's explore.

My Ideal Person:
UPDATE:
This is going to be my last month on here for a while. I moved back to Tennessee to help take care of my parents, and between working and doing that, there is just not much time for fun. I don't want to lead anyone on, and it's not fair to a guy to think I would have much time to spend with him, and then find out otherwise.
If you live in Franklin...I'm here now...and could possibly meet for a drink or casual relationship from time to time, so write me soon.
I can't travel...I'm not interested in someone in another state...my roots are here while I am going through all this.
My Mom is very sick and in a "home" and my Dad is living with me now.
I do apologize to all the people who have written me, and my emails have dwindled to nothing. I just feel that my life is on hold for a while, and that's not a comfortable feeling.
If you would like to write, please do...but before the end of September please.
Hugs to all xoxox

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.