Interests: playing with computers, reading (especially sci-fi, humor and mysteries), almost all music including classical (which I love with a passion so sue me), fine dining and ethnic restaurants, kayaking on the bay, fun sex where you laugh sometimes, old TV shows on DVD, trying new bath products, eavesdropping on restaurant conversations, cloudgazing, buying earrings, taking things apart to see how they tick, collecting leftover screws, serious backgammon.
In the interests of truth in advertising: 5'8", 220 lbs., 42C bust, I'm not athletic (though I've started working out), my butt is large, and I jiggle in the usual jigglesome places. If you're not looking for a big girl, look elsewhere, but it you are, well...
[I apologize, but PLEASE don't ask to meet unless you live near San Diego, come here occasionally, or have plans to be here already. I don't do phone-, chat-, cyber-, cam-, or email-sex, and I'm uncomfortable with someone traveling here just to meet me. If your message shows you didn't read this, I will delete it without acknowledgment or guilt.]
I love new experiences, new people, new conversations, new toys, new ideas, new fantasies, and mild submission. Prefer taller men who sometimes enjoy talking dirty, telling me what to do and what they plan to do to me. Enjoy exploring new feelings and sensations, as well as the good old-fashioned ones, and adore kissing (which is an erotic act in itself if you're willing to be imaginative and take the time), light ticklish rubbing, and massages, giving or receiving, especially if the massager ends up taking advantage of the massagee. Also have a slight oral fetish (giving), so if you think that might bother you, better catch some other fish (hmmm...funny, no one ever seems to object to that one).
My Ideal Person:
The occasional affair is exciting, interesting and fulfilling (I take the word "discreet" seriously, believe in a healthy amount of cautious paranoia, and can walk by as if I'd never seen you before if need be). Sex-only relationships are fine, as long as there's mutual physical enjoyment and you don't watch TV at the same time. "Friend with benefits" is perhaps possible if we really hit it off and find we occasionally enjoy being out of bed together too.
You are under no obligation either physical or financial, and you'll get no hard feelings or drama from me, regardless of how things turn out - "Oh well, c'est la guerre," as Pepé Le Pew once said.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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