NSA sex is great, but if you are the kind of guy I'll only hear from when your cock needs servicing, please DONT contact me in the first place. I expect you to also know how to really be a friend as well as a lover.
PLEASE read my profile CAREFULLY so you can get an idea of what it is I'd like to find. Any requests for quick hook-ups or random meetings will be ignored! I have FWBs I see on occasion, but what I'd really like is one or two exciting yet reliable ongoing lovers that I see often.
I am a married PLUS SIZE (size 14/16) stay at home mom. I'm sad, frustrated, and would like to find someone that will be my lover in every sense of the word while respecting that I am unhappily married and at least for now plan to stay that way. I like to flirt and would like to feel desirable and appreciated, but not strictly from a sexual standpoint. I want to find a deeper connection with a potential lover than simply being a warm body. There has to be mutual attraction and trust there, and a relationship as friends also. I am a very passionate and responsive lover, and want the same. Lots of kissing, foreplay, and feedback. I am an honest, upfront and reliable person and I expect the same. I have actually met people on here, but please be who you say you are. I have had a few good experiences, but most did not work. Now, some turnoffs: smoking, heavy drinking, facial hair (although a closely trimmed goatee ABSOLUTELY works on some guys). Any e-mail without a face pic will not be responded to...
My Ideal Person:
I am only interested in single white clean shaven men that can host, that live NEAR me (within 30 min drive). I don't expect to be your only lover, but I DO want to be the one you want above all others. I am not a conquest or a prize, but someone you really care about. I can count on you to be dependable but exciting as well. You have time and effort to put into regular meetings, and don't have to fit me in your already crammed schedule. You have a place to host, and are eager to have me there as much as possible. I am even able to get away for overnights, eventually I would like a few of those. I want reliable and exciting partners I can depend on to give me the escape I need without trying to be possessive or jealous. You don't have to look like a movie star, but you DO have to fascinate me. For me sexual attraction begins in the mind, with conversation via chat first. I am in NO rush to meet someone new, and you shouldn't be either. If you don't have the time or the desire to get to know me, do us both a favor and move on to the next profile. You should also have an adventurous attitude towards sex, I have enjoyed a MFM and it is an experience I'd like to repeat. I'm not interested in a bunch of random hotel meetings. Be prepared for a long-term, ongoing relationship, because THAT is what I am looking for. Someone who will be interested in how I am doing on a daily basis, who doesn't just think of me when he wants to fuck. I would like someone in their 30's or 40's (or I'll consider a MATURE mid-late 20's guy) who is also discreet, trustworthy, honest...someone I could consider a real friend. I am not searching for a replacement husband, I NEVER want to get married again, but I do want to be special and cherished by someone for more than just sex.
I am NOT interested in simply being just another hookup for anyone; I wouldn't expect an exclusive arrangement between us (unless we agreed) but for the safety of us both I wouldn't want there to be a large volume of others either. Safe sex is a must, I am D/D free and want to stay that way.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: I realized my favorite, being the center of attention with two men...and would like to repeat it
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A bed, The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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