My Ideal Person:
Guess it is time to update this poor sad profile. I am adding the following, not much information but I think the perfect guy will get the hint.

Sigh….. Not sure if it is autumn around the corner or the results of a stressful summer but right now I am feeling pretty neglected, a little bored, and very lonely. I am in need of fire, passionate flames of desire; I want the heat of your body, the pounding of your heart, the softness of your lips, the hardness of you being a man. I want you to make love to me, to fuck me deep, to make me want you, dream of you. I want to feel desirable, sexual, and alive. I need you to make goose bumps rise up and down my spine when we kiss, quenching the insatiable lust taking me to the next plateau of being. I desperately need you: a friend to chat to, a friend to console with, a friend to make hot mad passionate unbridled love at regular intervals with in a cheap seedy sex motel.

Looking for someone with a mind: intelligence, innovatively, and creativity are traits I find very alluring. The physical act of love between two should be lustful, sensual, playful, even lascivious in nature; a delight to the senses, a pleasure for the soul.

I prefer the man to be in charge to some degree, as in not me telling him what to do every two seconds or asking permission all the time. I like the man to take the initiative, that is just me.

One last thing I tend to get busy and forget to email people or keep up with them, so you need to be a little more aggressive in communicating, not hearing from me does not necessarily mean I am not interested, I just get sidetracked very easy.

Now what I do not want:

Not interested in extreme sexual activities like BDSM, watersports etc

Not into phone sex or caming per sey.. I may do so but with only a lover but no strangers, it just gets boring with someone you will have no personal contact with

Not looking for 7 different sex partners a week. I would prefer one lover in more of a long term situation than one-night encounter, but will not turn down two lovers, or three if presented.....

Not interested in shallow people, those looking for a very specific body type or hair color, etc…. keep on going because I am not dying my hair color, changing my skin tone or racial makeup for you .. and yes I was asked to believe it or not,..

If having a blow job is a major point in your life to the point where that is paramount and you expect or require it from me and not much else …. Keep on going… there are women on their knees around the corner for you and from what I hear a lot of guys on here will happily take care of you

Finally:

Please feel free to add me as a friend or send an email if we chat…… so it is easy to find you ... a lot of people on this site with similar names and I tend to forget who is who

Friends are a great addition to anyone’s life …there is no sex needed or required in a friendship … . love to hear from you if your write or like history and enjoy talking about life or need someone to rant with.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
to many to list

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
prefer not to say

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Food Play, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
prefer not to say

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