I am married, if that doesn't work for you please move on. I am in an open relationship. My sexual appetite cannot be filled by my wife, so she has allowed me to pursue other options as long as it does not interfere with my time at home. I travel almost every week for work, and would love to find people to play with in other cities. Most times I stay out of town Monday - Thursday, and end up making 2 or 3 trips to that city within a couple month period. I am disease and drug free, I expect the same.