Misconceptions...
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Posted:Feb 9, 2011 3:10 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2011 7:58 pm
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This was sent to a Daddy that is a friend of mine, and it explains this all very well: mentioned the term Daddy Dom in a chat room the other day and was greeted by a resounding Yuk! It got me thinking about the misconceptions surrounding this aspect of D/s. I realize most think that it involves a father/ relationship. That isn't quite true, Daddy/little girl is a much different level. I do not know if I can explain what I mean so I will simply talk about what a Daddy Dom is to me. First I should say that in my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically (beyond the occasional schoolgirl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with .
I am always all women, and always a very independent woman. He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. So what makes a Daddy Dom? First and foremost he loves his little girl. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him. Seeing her hurt however is not something a Daddy Dom wants. He sees it as his job to protect her, both from the outside world and herself. He may love to cause her great pain in a scene, but he hates to be the one to hurt her emotionally. It hurts him to have to punish her, but he knows it is sometimes necessary.
This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, and her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined. A Daddy Dom knows the value of discipline, though at times his soft heart gets the best of him. He knows that in order for his little girl to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. He knows this hurts her, and that tears at his heart, but he also knows it is for her own good.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn't matter. To him she is beautiful. Many of you may be asking what separates a Daddy Dom from any other Dom. In most cases very little. Hopefully they all provide love, strength, protection, discipline, and acceptance. I have heard Daddy Doms described as a kinder, gentler, Dom. I like that definition though I know it won't apply to all. I guess when it really comes down to it I can't explain it. There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.
Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the centre of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for you’re every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mould you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created.
How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He accepts every part of her and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train her. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust she must know he means what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the relationship and those within. He is the one who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. I think most Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their submissiveness life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave.
Thank you DT for letting me letting me use this! 
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Afternoon Delight!
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Posted:Dec 3, 2010 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2011 1:01 pm
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I decided to come home for my lunch hour today. What do I do instead of doing something productive like picking up the house or cleaning? Of course...I hop onto Passion! So I'm checking out ppl's video's, hopping from one to the next when a particular video caught my eye. It was of a MFM. Nuff said, so I click onto it and watch... it was very good btw! I absolutely love their vids, they have 16 I believe it was. One after another I am glued to the monitor watching, and hanging on every moan. Then, big surprise...I am wanting to get off and cum too. Fuck it! Kicked off my shoes and yanked off my pants. I felt the need to grab a bullet or two as I stripped quickly. I go back to the current video I was watching.
All comfy and bare now, chair leaned back at a nice tilt and both bullets buzzing softly. The stronger one in my pussy and the one at which I can control the intensity on my already swollen clit. It does not take long for me to feel the rising sensation that I would cum quickly, but I don't want to just yet. The sensations are delicious enough that I want to preserve this state I am in. I let myself get close to the climax and then ease off, back and forth enjoying the fact that I'm teasing myself immensely!
I look at the clock and realize I am supposed to be back in about 10 min. I figure, eh screw it...I'm taking an extended lunch! It was just about then that I felt it rising so strongly that I wanted it desperately. Mmm the first wave hits and it reminds me of a rollercoaster. The buildup on the way up, and then you hit the top and rush downward feeling your stomach drop out. I love that feeling. I want more! Switch over to another of this members' videos and continue on. Oh yeah, second wave is about to hit me! Mmhmm this time I feel the release of me cumming as I gush all over my chair. It's still not enough!! I keep going as if my life depended on it. And again gush, this time more than before and I feel the cloth wet beneath me. I know I've just soaked the chair and it'll be a pain to clean, but I don't care. At that point in time, my house could catch on fire and my house burn down with the whole fire department trying to save me and watching me, and I would not care! I HAVE to keep going, because it is sooo wonderful!) It is about this time that I let out another large gush, but this time I clench my muscles and see myself squirt up onto the desk. COOL! I want more! Again I squirt, this time more, and farther. I'm thinking, that is SO HOT; I want to do it again!!! Another squirt, this one a bit farther and it looked almost like a fountain! WOW! That is soo badass! I feel my muscles spasm and clench again and I realize I shot farther. This time I shot all over the TV screen, the phone, some papers and DVDs, and OMG the wall! I take a deep breath and smile.
Then I see the mess I've made...damn. There are droplets of liquid all over my pants and the desk along with everything else. I look at the time...twenty minutes?! That was fast! Time to get dressed and go back to work. I look at my pants and figure I should get another pair to wear now. Then I see the chair. Soaked. *sighs* It is a pain in the ass to clean up a wet chair, not to mention an outline once I get it dry. Good thing I have a hand steamer to clean it with. I am going to have to wrap that damned chair in heavy-duty plastic! I had to get the tape measure and see how far I shot! Five feet!!! Holy crap, that is a bit of a distance! I am quite impressed with myself.
I decided to go ahead and wear my pants back to work. It's not like you could see a stain or an outline, I just know what I did. Even though they don't know, it still brings a smile to my face knowing I'm wearing my pants that I shot all over with my juices.
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