Narcissistic Personality Disorder????
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Posted:Mar 18, 2011 1:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2011 6:47 am
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One gentleman made a comment on one of my pictures in which i already removed. He said i have NPD as i have 116 pictures or so up. So i sent him an email asking for him to define what an NPD was. This is what he told me. He said i have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. So i sent him a message back stating why i have so many pictures up. It is not to get votes or even viewers. I do it for my own self esteem to show the world that I am back. After my marriage i left with nothing to me. I had no self esteen, self worth let alone self confidence. I did not know who i was anymore. My ex stripped me from all my positive attributes to being nothing. Sad story but a true one. That is why i wrote that blog about not judging by the covers but knowing what is written in the pages between the front and back covers. It is to deal with these knuckleheads like this that through me for a loop. So for anyone who ever hears that term.....that is the meaning of it. I wanted to tell him they are just of me. Wonder what he says about the profiles with over 1000 pictures in them and not just shots of themselves. But that is up to those people. I would never say " You have a lot of group sex shots. Dont you think one or two is enough." Why??? Because they do it for their own purposes. Each to his own. Just had to get that off my chest.
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Walk a Mile In My Shoes....
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Posted:Mar 17, 2011 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2011 9:38 pm
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Too often one is judged by what has happened in their past. All the advice i would love to offer is read between the covers before coming to a conclusion. To know another person's life is often complicated. And there are times when a finger is pointed at another without really realizing where that person ever came from in their life. Just a heed or warning. The ones who have not dealt with strife or hardship.....take heed....it might be you next time. Compassion is key in my life. In order to be loved you have to love in return.
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Take off your damn socks!!!
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Posted:Mar 17, 2011 10:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2011 5:37 pm
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One of my ulitmate pet peeves is to see guys wearing socks in sex shots. More of a pet peeve is when i am with a man who wears his socks. If you are going to be naked...be fully naked. Take off your damn socks!!!!!
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Exercise, Exercise.............Sexercise??
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Posted:Mar 16, 2011 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2011 3:27 pm
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I am always exercising. If it if not boot camp i am going for two hour long walks. To get into shape. Just wondering about if men are attracted to fit females or would you settle for someone 20 pounds overweight?? To me I have a theory that all men love toned, fit women. But then in real life i often find overweight women with men. What is up with this?? Yesterday after going for my two hour walk i stop in at Tim Hortons for a green tea and next to me there were two very overweight woman talking about their boyfriends. Yet i am not obese but trying to get toned and yet i cannot get a boyfriend. Just an observation.
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Masturbation..
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Posted:Mar 16, 2011 1:03 pm
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2011 3:08 pm
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Just wondering how many get tired of always having to masturbate. Either the vibrating hand sydrome or the hairypalm sisters syndrome. I often crave for the real deal but i wont settle for just anyone having sex with. I guess i am picky and thus i have to masturbate...alone. Even mutual masturbation is better than lonely masturbatiion to get out all my sexual frustrations out there. Just saying is all. Maybe it is my own fault for being so picky but i dont want to settle.
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Sex to me...
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Posted:Mar 12, 2011 3:32 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2011 4:34 pm
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Sex to me is so much more than the physical act. It goes way beyond that element. To me sex starts out in the brain. Attraction, compatibility and utter respect has to be there before i will even consider being with a man. I only want to be with friends. And hope one day to be with one man and explore our sexuality together. If that happens that is a bonus. If not....i will have to be content on being single.
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Friends....Quanity over Quality??
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Posted:Mar 10, 2011 4:55 pm
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2011 11:37 am
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How many of you want true friends? I am sure we all do. But it seems now adays many feel it makes some people feel better to have many friends over the quality of friends. To me i would rather have some true and faithful friends versus having a whole list of friens whom i have nothing to do with. Same as facebook. It is almost like a competition to see who can gather the most friends. I would more likely desire to have few close and good friends versus acquanitances. But each to their own.
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LIARS!!!!!
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Posted:Mar 10, 2011 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2011 6:26 pm
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I have come to the conclusion that so many liars are not only on this site but in general. Why do you suppose this is?? To make the person feel better about themselves?? To live in a fantasy world?? It ceases to amaze me just how many liars are out in life. What ever happened to integrity, honour and morales?? Just a pet peeve of mine.
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Just cannot understand the mindset...
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Posted:Mar 4, 2011 11:05 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2011 12:23 pm
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I just need to vent here. I had met a man from Red Deer and i thought we had a great connection. We met once a week and sometimes he could not get an erection but that was always okay with me. Well Yesterday i was in the Alberta chat room and a man from a couple made a comment about this friend had made about me. So as we conversed, i found out that this so called friend had told this couple i was merely a fuck friend. Well that made me feel very sad. I always told Lee that he was exclusive to me...that i would not play with anyone except him. Well the plot thickened as i was out with friends tonight and a girlfriend told me she had slept with him as well. All i could do was cry...and i could not stop. First of all...i thought this friend only was with me and then i find out he is known to many Red Deer females. Well my heart was ripped out. So is this so unkonwn in this lifestyle that one cannot be exclusive with one person. I was and still am in shock. He is a black man from Red Deer. He was on my friends list but now he is taken off. Just makes me sad. Takes my trust in the human race away.
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How do you like sex??
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Posted:Feb 23, 2011 11:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2011 4:59 pm
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Just am wondering how many of you like fast and hard sex or soft and slow way of making love. To me i consider sex as just as the physical act. Making love involves all the emotions, the tenderness and compatibility. Making love can involve both hard and fast as well as soft and slow. Just the way one approaches the subject.
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Mature woman....also known as MILFS!!!
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Posted:Feb 13, 2011 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2011 8:38 pm
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I can honestly say to all the men out there to have sex with a mature woman who knows her body and what pleasures her to no avail. But why do so many men go for the really young cute girls. Where does all of our experience come into the equation?? It ceases to amaze me as to the mentality of some men. Do they always think with their little brain?? To have a sexual experience who not only knows what turns them on but also is able to share how to get them off. Wonders is all!!!!
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NSA....
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Posted:Feb 12, 2011 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2011 5:49 am
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I cannot fathom the NSA pandemic that seems to be taking over having a good relationship. What is up with this?? Makes me wonder if there are any that are looking for something more lasting. NSA benefits when i read a profile with these three acronymns are just bypassed by me. Each to his own. But it is not for me. Jennie~
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It was brought to my attention....
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Posted:Feb 8, 2011 8:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2011 12:21 pm
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A good friend of mine made mention why i wore rings on my wedding finger when in fact he knew i was not married. I told him i wear them when i go on a date and not too sure about the guy. If he is a player i will keep them on and if he is a nice guy i usually remove them. Do you think i am being dishonest by doing this? Many are married and i am just protecting my heart from being hurt once again. As a matter of fact i had to buy my own engagement ring and our wedding bands i had to buy as well. My ex was so stingy and cheap that at times it makes my head spin as to the lack of anything he ever gave me. So i am not standing looking for handouts. I am indpenedent in that factor or life.
But the rings?? Do you think it is being dishonest or just putting me in protection mode?? And i dont wear them often. My wedding finger is usually bare anyways. Take care everyone.
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