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frustrations of a single girl
 
if like me your getting fed up of trawling through countless messages from time wasters and undesirables and those who obviously haven't read your profile. I thought I'd create a place where everyone can have a rant and a moan, seek advice give advice.
If you do have any suggestions or questions type it in the private post, you make like or dislike any response but hey, you did ask!!
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funny.... oh yes!! well i think so!
Posted:May 9, 2011 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2014 4:29 pm
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Further to my earlier post, he did respond. Inspiration grabbed me thanks to reading a blog post last night from babylonian [post2546650]. This is by far no where near babylonians excellent standards, but I couldn't resist the temptation. I do think though that I went to much to soon.

So boys in blue and girls pretty in pink.

intreasted

in a basic lesson of the english language?


Do you want fucked tonight???

Well spellings improved. How about a grammar lesson?


what time should i call round or were would you like to meet? happily take any kind of lesson tonight as i am really horny!!


Any objections if my brother joins in?

ok no worries what ever turns you on

would you prefer him with or without gimp suit?


So far hes not replied back. OH, What a shame, I thought we were really getting on as well. Need to go and tell my brother the bad news now. Now wheres that straight jacket.............?
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first time for everything
Posted:May 9, 2011 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2014 4:26 pm
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After many one liners, I've actually received my first one word mail. Wait for it......

intreasted


I feel so honored and special... yeah I'm trying to be sarcastic. Did actually read his profile where he claims to be the director of his own company yet hes 22, he spells bored as board, and has a few 'prefer not to says'. I know I may not be the smartest crayon in the box at times. But fairly sure the faults are glaringly obvious.

I did respond with... in a basic lesson in the english language? I'll let you know if I get a response.
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thundersprint
Posted:May 8, 2011 3:00 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2011 4:14 pm
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Have had a long weekend enjoying the annual thundersprint held where I live. Its basically a big motor bike rally held over two days. Thousands of bikers from all over the UK come to the event, and best of all its all free (well except for food and drink). Theres even a mini fun fair on sunday and now my arse and thighs are sore from going on the rides far to many times, as my friends is now tall enough for the adult rides I was dragging her onto them she was dragging me onto them. I had great fun!!!!!!! Last year I saw a t-shirt that I loved but didn't have the cash on me to buy it. Was extremely happy when I managed to find it this year. Bought it instantly.... can you see why I like it..

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i think not...
Posted:May 7, 2011 6:23 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2011 10:49 am
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oh lucky me, someones asked me to marry them by mail...... Let me think about it for a very long time.
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to breast or not to breast.
Posted:May 6, 2011 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2012 4:44 pm
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I've decided to cut my profile picture experiment short a little earlier than I had planned to. My initial idea was that a cleavage shot would garner more attention... Well number of views, flirts and hotlists certainly did go up. The level of mail however dropped though the content of those that actually managed to write more than one line pretty much remained the same. But I'm bored with it now and a lot have all said they prefer my face pic due to smile and eyes.

But one comment on a post did make me think a lot.

If I see good cleavage pics It always motivates me to look deeper and maybe even go to the profile!

Do men really make such a first impression on cleavage shot? Maybe read the profile... What!! Sorry that was my first reaction to the comment?

Do us women make the same such first impressions, as I have realised I do just that. How many men have I passed over without taking the time to read their profile. Because they have posted a not so nice profile photo.

Just to give you something to think about do remember us women have access to many things that can enhance the cleavage. So when the puppies are let loose they may not neccesarily fully be what you expected. I admit in my picture I am in a cleavage enchancing bra, they are a god send!! Without them I would have no cleavage!! Hows that for false advertising...

Some proof of without enhancement


I know everyones definition of attractive and unattractive differs, but I'm trying to make this bit all generally speaking.

Do woman presume that a man is unattractive if he elects to post a cock shot, do we hope that a well endowed man is attrractive and would we still have sex with him if we found out he wasn't attractive. I wouldn't, I have been in that situation before. Would you have sex with an attractive man if you found out he wasn't that well endowed? Yes I would, again been in that situation before. God could he make up for it.. sorry mini tangent...

Do men presume that a woman is unattractive if we post a cleavage pic, would you have sex with an unattractive lady just cause she had a cracking rack? But an attractive lady with a less than impressive cup size, yeah you men still would.

We could think of it the another way though, do we post non face pictures, because we regard ourselves as unattractive and fear being by passed for such reason.

On a whole I personally prefer face shots for profile pictures, failing that at least one in the photo album that I can look at. So I'm going to be changing my picture back to what I prefer and what I've found out many other people prefer as well.

How much of your first impressions count on the profile picture?


What if the one person we over looked was the perfect one for you?
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Gullible, naive or just plain dumb?
Posted:May 4, 2011 2:59 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2011 3:12 pm
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Am I really a fool? Do I have mug written on my forehead?

The one thing to do to really piss me off the most is to lie to me, I'd rather be told the truth that to be hurt by a lie.

Yet again I haven fallen for the words of a liar. A very simple lie at that but also one that answered many unanswered questions. I found out by accident as well and that cuts even deeper.

How many other things has this person lied to me about? Has it all just been a game for them? As everything I said and wrote was real and genuine. They seemed so genuine and caring, yet I fell for it, hook line and sinker. I'm kicking mself for believing it all and for letting them through my barricades.

Its this very act that has made me doubt again whether this site will ever work. With only a few exceptions from many, I've had to deal with loads of time wasters and pyschos, and been lied to and let down so many times I've stopped bothering to count. Its making what little faith I had left in men to a new all time low.

There is now a lead lining in my brick wall and the flowering bud has been drowned by high strength weed killer.

Two sayings are true 'nice guys always finish last' I hate being last, just once for a change can I please finish in first. The other 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' and I've been scorned!!
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first match
Posted:May 2, 2011 3:39 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2011 2:27 pm
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Tonight I got to play my first bowling match (boring I know sorry) and yes I did lose 21-8. In all honesty I was expecting to, but I also expected not to score anything at all. When some of the regular players scored less than me I'm actually quite happy with my result.
More practice required, but I got the first match nerves out the way.
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preliminary experiment results
Posted:May 2, 2011 3:20 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:53 pm
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Well the cleavage has been on display for one day now, so initial findings as follows. Number of flirts and hot lists have doubled. Only one mail mentioned my smile which means definately one male wanted to find out what i looked like.
Domino was correct that content of mails wouldn't change but have received more one liners.
Though for some reason the site deleted my original face photo so have needed to upload again this morning.
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a little change.
Posted:May 1, 2011 2:28 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2011 1:28 am
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I have decided to run a little experiment, as from what i can see a lot of the female profile pictures are of cleavage. I'm changing my picture just to see if there will be any difference in the content of mails and to see if anyone actually bothers to check my other pics to find out what I look like.
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enough already
Posted:Apr 30, 2011 9:20 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2011 12:04 pm
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For a long time I've been becoming very disillusioned with this site. Fed up with false promises, let downs and lies. Is it just me getting my own hopes up, just to be promptly kicked back down onto my arse again. I'm beginning to think why bother, maybe I'll never truly find what I'm looking for.

It takes a lot to grab my attention and interest, unfortunately for me the one person that has done that recently lives to damn far away, plus I think I've now managed to fuck that up as well.

I'm seriously thinking of closing my profile down, so I can concentrate on other things. If I'm going to build my hopes up then I want it to be for something genuine.

As I've really just had enough of this site.
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and relax......
Posted:Apr 28, 2011 12:01 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2011 4:09 pm
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I am really looking forward to finally getting to enjoy a full four days off work, garden family and friends await. Hope the sun holds out, as I'm going to try and chill and relax, as next week the boss is back from his holiday...!
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question...?
Posted:Apr 26, 2011 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2011 8:19 am
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Every single day for about three weeks now i have received a flirt from the same couple. They haven't mailed me and I haven't mailed them as I'm really not that interested and obviously I don't know if its the male or female half doing the flirting. I would of thought though that by now they'd of got the hint. I'm thinking of sending them a mail asking them to stop or should I leave it and hope that it sinks in eventually..
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rather you than me
Posted:Apr 26, 2011 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2011 11:39 am
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tonight i went to my first bowling match and the standards of the gents toilets left little to the imagination.



pretty good job its a ladies team, we were privileged enough to have a portaloo!!
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