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dazed and confused....  

Irene978 43F
18 posts
6/2/2016 11:24 am
dazed and confused....


Along with this site, I have also been on POF. Obviously, I'm not on HERE for love or something real. I am on POF for something more substantial. Don't get me wrong, a lot of you would shit if I started looking at you with love in my eyes instead of just lust. Maybe....

Anyway, I have been talking to a guy who, up to this point, hasn't once mentioned sex beyond cuddles, kissing and hugging. it was weird and hard to get used to after being on here. It was refreshing to not talk about sex.

So far I really like this guy.... he doesn't know about this site.... :S I haven't told him. I haven't really told anyone about him either. We have our first date tomorrow night.

I assume it's too early for full disclosure....
I could be worried over nothing....
He and I might not click in person....
Or he could be really open to the idea of this....

Your thoughts?
Am I being silly?
Over thinking?
What would you do in this situation?

_Pauline_ 43F
85 posts
6/2/2016 11:32 am

I wouldn't do anything. It's not his business that you're on this site.

If you end up in a committed relationship with this man you can simply close your account here.

If you do decide to tell him you're on this site then it certainly shouldn't be a big deal. If he judges you for it then it will say more about him than it does about you.

Good luck, enjoy the date and be safe


Popularloner2 33M
6 posts
6/2/2016 1:09 pm

Nice


Irene978 43F
3 posts
6/3/2016 4:32 pm

After all that and he cancelled......


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