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What do you think?  

Raven0668 55F
112 posts
5/13/2015 11:33 am
What do you think?


I can't abide rudeness! I know I have a very high set of standards that I follow & I'm always disappointed when I trust someone to have the same level and they let me down.

If you had made plans for someone and the night comes and I sit around waiting for that text that never comes, I'm going to be angry. If something has come up how hard s it to text saying just that ?? It's just common courtesy!

Instead I get a text in the morning saying... Good morning happy hump day!
No mention of our plans. I text back that I guess he had forgotten... Oh no there wass just a big emergency came up and worked all night on it!

I sent him a text telling him I was no longer interested in pursuing this any further and good luck in your search. Too hasty? Should I have given him another chance?

Would love to hear your thoughts. PS I'm a very busy gal and had to rearrange my schedule to accommodate this meeting.

pureromnce 58M
324 posts
5/13/2015 11:45 am

One and done.

If you allow him to behave like that now, how will he later once he learns that you'll accept it?

No excuse for the lack of communication...


Raven0668 replies on 5/13/2015 11:48 am:
Those were my thoughts too! Thank you for sound by and for your input!

DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
5/13/2015 11:50 am

No if they flake, ditch em


Raven0668 replies on 5/13/2015 12:10 pm:
Thank you for your thoughts!

KravenNewStuff 65M
12 posts
5/13/2015 12:04 pm

If he had a number to text you at and plans HAD been made to meet....there is NO excuse for not sending you even a short text to let you know so you can do something with your evening.


Raven0668 replies on 5/13/2015 12:29 pm:
We've been texting for a cpl of days

trythisagain66 57M
1918 posts
5/13/2015 12:07 pm

Yes, I agree with pureromnce and DoctorBooty -- never forgive anyone of anything. It'll make you such a happier person. #smh

If he appears to not have a clue as to what he did wrong or the gravity thereof, then yes, you should probably ditch him. But a single act of rudeness leading to a snap judgment is a bit narcissistic.

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Raven0668 replies on 5/13/2015 12:35 pm:
When I text that he must have forgotten, he replied that no he hadn't then went on to explain the emergency ... hot water tank leaked

kittyliquor519 59M
2730 posts
5/13/2015 7:38 pm

Yeah, I think you acted too soon. You should have definitely tried to set something up, tell him how sexy you'll dress to make up for it, etc. Get him to set up a hotel room, rent a limo etc. Absolutely this is the plan!!

Then go to a movie by yourself, turn your phone off.

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


Raven0668 replies on 5/13/2015 7:59 pm:
Oh my! Two wrongs never make a right!

kittyliquor519 59M
2730 posts
5/14/2015 7:04 am

Oh my! Two wrongs never make a right!

This is very true, however, three rights make a left

I think despite it not being thoroughly right it would have taught him a lesson...maybe

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


talldark884 59M
714 posts
5/14/2015 5:22 pm

It is never right to keep a beautiful woman waiting... (ok maybe a few minutes.... )...


buddypoke007 49M
3 posts
5/15/2015 7:32 am

He should have contacted you if he was not able to make the appointed time. It is common courtesy and shows respect.
If it was such an emergency that he could not even contact you while dealing with his emergency, he should have explained it to you at the first opportunity.

Don't let someone dis-respect/walk over you.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/27/2015 10:51 pm

I am always so dumbfounded as to why a question like this even warrants 2nd thoughts.

I mean I know the hot factor or displacement of fuilds but you state quite clear in your profile.You're exhibiting a weakness in your armor!

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