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MMF: Sharing a conversation
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MMF: Sharing a conversation We had many interesting exchanges with honest people who had expressed interest in meeting us. We decided to share this hypothetic dialogue which clarify many aspects of how we see the act of sharing our intimacy with an open minded male friend: Hi X We are looking for someone that is really into a 3some where there is no focus on anyone in specific but in pleasuring each and everyone of the participants. If you are fine with mutual oral male to male engagement, touching sensually in between everybody without restrictions, cuddling together the three of us, three way kissing and so on, let us know. The only rule for now for everyone is no actual anal penetration, only mild anal play between the boys in the context of the threesome is accepted. We do enjoy long foreplays, a good conversation while caressing each other naked bodies, some drinks and chat in our hottub. Now it's your turn to tell us about you. Cheers, R and S Hi guys, my experience before was mostly in being attentive to the woman, with the male being second, I've never kissed a guy, and to be honest don't know if I could. Sucking and playing I'm ok with, my last couple was all about pleasing the woman, and group oral. It was about no one being left out. The woman liked dp, so most evenings or afternoons usually lead up to that. I may not be as hard core as you are looking for, if that's the case I understand. You guys are great looking people, I think it would be a lot of fun playing together. X Hi X We spoke among us and we are a little concerned because we are not a woman focused couple and we don't want you to feel awkwardly when playing with us since we are about the three joining together without gender boundaries or rules about whom and what to touch or suck and things like that. It's not about being hard core bi, but about being with us as a couple, not just a shared wife or cuckold submissive situation. Thanks, R and S Good morning guys, I thought long and hard about your email. Let me see if I understand this, you guys have dropped all the implied social boundaries, and truly focus on pleasure and passion, for everyone. The idea of being with people that are connected at that level without social limits, is quite frankly, liberating. We are conditioned about the do and do not 's, but that closes so many doors. You have a very give and take, Ying and Yang approach to pleasure. One that I'm very interested in, to break my own boundaries and free myself from the social frameworks. I'm really interested in learning more, as this type of relationship is very new and exciting to me. X Good morning X I appreciate your response and yes you understood very well what we are at. We had a friend before who used to join us every so often and with whom we felt truly comfortable the three of us together exploring and building up a friendship in and out of the bed. We spent hours naked together trying different things just for the sake of experimenting and looking for new possibilities of providing pleasure to each other. Unfortunately he was much younger than us and he found a girlfriend with whom he wanted to follow up with a serious relationship, something that we not only understood and were glad for him, but we knew that in his case something like that would happen eventually. I'm telling you this so you know that we know exactly what we really want. About the bi sexuality issue, it is only focused on the sexual pleasure and the warm feeling of being caressed by both a woman and a man at the same time. The stupid gay taboo is long gone since we think there is just sex and friendship in the triad, while homosexuality is a state of mind about falling in love with someone of the same sex, something which we know we are not capable of. Once the social barriers are lifted, as you said, it's very liberating and the frontiers of what can be achieved in this type of relationship are expanded beyond imagination. It's for this reason that we are looking for a true connection, not just plain sex. We are not looking for a third in our marriage, of course, but for a friend with no just the benefits of sex but also someone that can become attracted to us as a couple, someone who can feel comfortable and make us feel the same way, someone with whom we would enjoy a good time together, not only in bed. Obviously this will always lead to a higher level of a very intimate relationship and, once we are there, the sky is the limit. We are not asking for anything exclusive beyond the simple fact of trust and mutual understanding which is required to build up this type of special friendship. We do respect your privacy and expect the same from you, after all, this is just another of the many sides of each individual life. However, said all that, it is expected from all parties a certain level of commitment to get together as often as possible and therefore availability is important to us. The frequency of our encounters will step up the speed with which we can reach a desired level of trust in between you and us. Now, at the same time, since this is something like a living project on itself growing in experience with every minute we spend together, we don't expect from you to perform in any way sexually or otherwise, no pressure but total relaxation, while we learn what everyone enjoys the most and discover together new venues and practices that may have never hit our brains before. Therefore we don't impose rules like no kissing or no whatever. Anything we may avoid in the beginning would be based absolutely on pure but maybe temporary physiological issues, like pain, which we don't like, or other extravagances too kinky at least for a start in a relationship. No closing any door leaves us the opportunity to explore and experiment. According to our own experience, human sexuality is like a constantly evolving organism and things that one may find repulsive today could become very pleasurable tomorrow. The question is about communication within a totally relaxed atmosphere. This is at least what we believe in and which we really want to take it further and continue this exhilarating exploration of sexuality together with a special friend. You are one of the few people who had written to us opening this type of open heart conversation about these interesting but also very private issues. Sharing them here with you I see it as a first step into building the special friendship we have been talking about. If you feel like this is something you would be interested to pursue, we would be happy to invite you to our life. Best regards, R and S |
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