Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > 1valleysmurf > Man vs Woman |
Man vs Woman
|
Man vs Woman So here is the age old dilemma .....Man vs Woman in the bedroom, at least to me it seems as though man has always been in charge in the bedroom and now a days it seems that the roles are changing , so why then to both men and women feel so strongly against a woman voicing her wants, needs and desires in the bedroom? You would think that a vocal woman would be appreciated and respected , but from what ive seen thats not the case, being such a woman i get alot of flack for being so open...such as i must be a slut or a and someone that women wouldnt want to be friends with and for men to stay away from. Upon having this same conversation with my older she tells me things are the same with their generation as well. oh my god people its the 21st century and even out young women are feeling as though they have no voice in the bedroom , what happened to women's rights i mean it didnt just mean we could vote, work or speak our minds in other areas so why the bedroom? I mean havent we come a hell of at farther then that! Dont be fooled I do know that sex is still a vary taboo subject but really I thought we had come so far?? |
|||
|
Its a pity that some guys don't want to hear what women want,since it your body and you that knows what gives you the best pleasure.So keep on speaking up.
| ||
12/19/2011 1:25 pm |
I am really surprised at how many women beleive they shouldnt say anything. I encourage a woman to speak up! Tell me what you like, dont like, or want! So, smurfy - tell me all you want 
| ||
1/6/2012 11:56 am |
How is anyone, man or woman ever to know what the other likes, dislikes, or wants to try if neither says anything. A lot of women still feel the man should take control and do it. Well I (man of the relationship) have always tried to do things she might like. I am rarely told what she does like, vocally. Her reaction in the bed after we have tried something is usually what I have to use as feedback. Being shy around your partner about sex gets frustrating. Ladies please just speak up, it is such a huge turn on to be told you like it there, or lick me here.
| ||
|
frankly surprises me the thing, I mean that I love the woman I want to ask what their sexual preferences are minded, love to ask and listen to the demands also because is easier to make it happy, but at the same time my dear, many women still silent and "claim" that we understand what men want, in part is possible, but understanding everything a woman likes sexually speaking is almost impossible !! I personally believe that if you find the right feeling becomes natural to talk about everything, especially in the bedroom !! of course, this is just my thoughts
|
Become a member to create a blog
