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fear  

shylady1952 71F
17 posts
10/15/2011 7:50 am
fear


i have wondered often is fear a good thing or bad.It can stop you from doing what your heart and aching pussy demands be done.It can make a situation all the more intense tho too.Fear of being seen ,fear of being found out,just an adrenalin pusher.I want to be open honest and free,but that damm lingering bits and pieces of fear hold me back. wonder can i conquer this .I think i can ,i loose more and more as time goes on

Phaedrus61616 63M

10/15/2011 11:39 am

You might never get over the Fear, you'll just be able to deal with it better.

I'm curious though, what does the aching pussy demand to be done?


DaphneANewGirl 69T

10/15/2011 12:21 pm

My simple test, refined over a lifetime:
Is it a bomb?
Is it a bullet?
Is it a tornado?
Is it a hurricane?
Is it an automobile crash that maims the body?
If none of the above, its probably a small thing.


trucking0_13 61M

10/15/2011 1:08 pm

love to chat with you sometime


Bogie106 75M
15322 posts
10/15/2011 1:46 pm

Hope what ever is left of the fear diminishes and you can move on with life...without the fear...enjoy..


DaphneANewGirl 69T

10/16/2011 7:49 am

Many years ago I chanced upon a war story in which the older soldier advised the youthful new recruit: Accept the fact that you are already dead. Once you do that, then you can go out into that field of bullets and do your job effectively. You might even come out of it alive - for a while.

This is a truism that pretty well holds for each and every one of us. One never knows whether some car, or satellite from the sky will crash and mangle our bodies beyond all recognition. Stories abound of people who are diagnosed with cancer, and suddenly begin to live their lives for the first time.

Here, on this site, my profile marks the fact that this body I inhabit came into this world as male. Nonetheless I have chosen to move on and completely as a woman. I am a woman in a chrysalis, still in the process of formation. I live in the world as a woman daily, and my future has never seemed brighter. My daughter - who lives with another woman - advised me that queer space is safe space. True, but I move in the regular world as a woman. That is the way everyone appears to receive me, except for those who knew my male progenitor.

The fear you feel will likely never go away, but the way you respond to it can and may change radically.


forujules 51F  
3074 posts
10/16/2011 11:29 pm

Feat is something that is there. It's how you choose to deal with it, kick it in the shins, have the confidence within yourself to say, MEH, Life is worth the risk... It's how I choose to deal with it that matters... But fear can be very hard for some...

I hope you don't live in fear for much longer.. As life won't be fully lived if you don't try to find a way to move on... all the best

Come leave me some thoughts forujules I'd love to read them~xo~


rm_rover3971 52M
15 posts
10/17/2011 6:47 am

Fear is a good thing it helps keep us safe but you need to keep it in perspective to and not let it rule you. You will die at some point. everyone does so make the most of the time you have. When fear rises question it and move on. Often we get our biggest personal growths from pushing past our fears.


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