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Tell us no lies
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Honestly, too many words... you are not writing to me or someone else who actually respects your sexual orientation and your wants. It's the "want to fuck" tribe that is writing to you for the most part. then didn't get beyond the 43F portion of the profile before the fingers started typing. I would shorten it: Your profile says "straight male"... we are not looking for that. Best of luck with your search. There is my 2 cents.  Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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It's just a matter of tailoring to the audience. You could offer the full explanation after to straight to the point statement. But if they didn't read and understand you are not just offering up the female half for playtime, will they do the same with the full explanation? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I absolutely hate labels. I was bullied and called names through an difficult childhood filled with upheaval and loss. I was introverted.. I have gotten over that. In my mind there is no single answer unless its a simple no thanks. Labels are based on judgements, judgements are biased and once we start judging people we limit ourselves and exclude others. While I understand a single line e-mail is pretty lame and does show limited mental capacity and poor situational awareness pointing it out does little to improve the outcome. No where on my profile do I hint at my adoration of a cute tight butt hole. Under the right circumstances (you having a cute butt hole) I may decide to share that particular affliction with you and maybe even offer to lick your butthole. If you are intolerant of butthole lickers and have a dirty big butthole then I certainly wouldn't want you to know about my love of tight cute ones. OMG you might think your butthole is the tightest and cutest and expect me to lick it. EWWWW!!!! I have lots of interests that I don't list on my profile talk to me read my blog ask questions find out but brush me off and I say thank you for sparing me from intolerance
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Think context to this blog was too understated... When we receive an email, we try to respond. Sometimes if no effort is made by the sender, we make little effort in our reply. But sometimes there are real folks on the other end and why not afford them the extra effort of an explanation of why we are not interested? Maybe there is a work around, maybe we will offer a perspective they can incorporate for some other successful connection, maybe they will simply appreciate the fact we made the effort. The other context is the ol "closet" bi male...our original post is specific to those males whom tell us they are bi, into everything we have on our profile, yet they are straight and nothing about their profile is designed to attract us as a bi male couple...the point is tailor your profile to those you seek, be true to your sexuality, respect that not all folks are going to be comfortable with whom you are, but dont lie/with hold and sacrifice your character just to get laid.
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I understand you point. If you can't be honest with yourself then how can you be honest with anyone else. Its hard not to be cynical when faced with fakes and liars. Its likely my dislike of labels is biased. I have been judged and now remain very private about myself even when I'm being open 
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It drives me crazy when a "Straight Male " responds to my profile or blogs. Cut the crap if you are into any type T-Gurl, getting head or fucking a guy YOU ARE AT LEAST Bi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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