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2/4/2011 6:51 am |
you are a sexy lady hope you get the right man for the job very sexy lady have a great day    looking for friends for fun and friendship 
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2/4/2011 8:23 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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2/4/2011 10:17 am |
You have to talk and listen. Satisfaction Is the Death of Desire
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2/4/2011 11:40 am |
Norty Natty......visit my domain.........have a browse and I will soon arouse....... you. I never crow about my excellence in deliverance,I let the ladies do that for me O O O o 0 .0 ..o   Bond James 700  The1tonyroneZone  always to provoke  the pope on dope
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Where it is easy to satisfy us guys it is much harder and takes much longer to truely satusfy a woman,but that is where some good amount of wonderful foreplay is necassary and wonderful to give.
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Hi Nat, this is not one of those topics that can be glibly splatted into a paragraph or two... So many factors play a pivotal role in the sexual enjoyment of two or more people, that it's not possible to say: "Me Tarzan, you satisfied". I know, factually, that I am an excellent lover - it's been a long journey thus far, and one that I pride myself in because I take great care to discover a woman thoroughly. Each woman is so different that some will have an almost knee-buckling orgasm just by breathing down her neck; a few will not come at all, regardless of performance. And, of course, everything in between... Young women tend to have difficulty with the unforgettably earth-shattering orgasms if, for example, they started their sexual life with masses of mediocrity. The mediocrity often implants little subconscious orgasm-reducing/blocking insecurities that resolve themselves with time, patience and a good lover. One of the most important aspects inherent in such a relationship is openness and trust. I have found that a woman's overall sexual satisfaction depends largely on her being okay with herself. Another large factor is her own willingness to discover her virtually unlimited supply of orgasms of every variety - from hundreds of consecutive tiny little blips to womb-wrenching tremblers that hijack her entire nervous system for a few minutes and leave her woozy, wobbly and wet for the rest of the day. Conversely, a person's quest to make a partner sexually contented should not turn into something that feels more like work than fun. ~ R Live, laugh, love and lead by example. - A Quiet Couch and Private Messages
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No offence Nat , but it takes two to tango, and if there isnt mutual attraction/chemistry then its all one sided
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2/6/2011 10:36 pm |
Interesting post...difficucult to ignore. Your view of "clumsy around the play-park" is 100% correct. However, only regarding SOME men. The trick for you would be to find the right man for the job YOU want done. If that involves long hours to arouse you, believe me, there are such men. If it involves spending more time in pleasuring the woman than himself, even those men do exist...men that find pleasure in watching the female body get aroused... My advise would be : if you do not get aroused in chatting, mailing, exchanging sexual ideas with him, it is unlikely that he would be able to satisfy you in bed. On the contrary side: if he intrigues your sexual mind by talking only, you stand a good chance to be satisfied in bed. After all, the mind remains the most powerful sexual tool. And if you do not know how to use it, you will likely fail in the "play-park". Last idea: I do believe in sexual chemistry. Don't expect the man to "perform" if you are not prepared to let yourself go and taken. Hope you find him... And if you do, give us feed-back. That is, if you would have the breath to do so... GOOD LUCK.
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Hi Nat / All "What takes us little effort to arouse men, takes men along a long path where they all find themselves looking for a shortcut to the destination..." Therein lies a big part of ure answer, its so damn easy to arouse men, by design its just the way it is. But then that said does the fact that it’s easier to make a man cum necessarily mean that orgasm you gave was Mind Blowing or the most awesome he could hope to have ... did the journey there take him through his inner most desires ? Sure he got off but was it kinky enough, did he get to cum where and how he fantasises about. So are we talking degrees of satisfaction and yes importantly is it Mutual? By more than just design it’s not so easy to arouse most woman. Quoting from above Looking2Go4it (a very good post in my opinion and experience) "...implants little subconscious orgasm-reducing/blocking insecurities that resolve themselves with time, patience and a good lover. One of the most important aspects inherent in such a relationship is openness and trust." These barriers cannot be underestimated, i have had experience with a lover that really takes this to extremes (She has not experienced Abuse otherwise), it’s very much a case of insecurities and lack of knowledge of sexual self. It takes forever to make her cum and sometimes no amount of effort or time can shift the block, and as time passes she gets more frustrated it becomes more impossible. At times its clear that she is not focussing on anything sexual or arousing while engaging in sex , but merely going through the motions, almost functional. In that state of mind how is it conceivable that she could expect all of a sudden half way through to get a result. His fuse has been burning already and is about to hot home and she is fighting demons of frustration at not being able o cum. I have over time realised it stems from a lack of exploring her sexual self and knowing what she likes and where some of the things she is indifferent about may take her. Things that make most woman cum in a blink are not favoured and that can vary from this time to last even. Confusing as hell sometimes. More masturbation would lend to knowing the path there and the familiarity with it would facilitate getting there quicker and more often. What to think about and focus on, instead of what will the neighbours think or whats for dinner. There are times when you have sex with someone for the 1st time that is mind blowing as hell, why not always? well that is prob down to 2 people totally in touch with themselves and experienced enough in trying enough things, to see the signs of what the other likes straight off the bat or not caring and letting go anyway which is reciprocated. This is why sex usually gets better once you get to know someone better and they get to know you, especially if at first you were maybe both holding back a bit to not seem like a freak when u both end up enjoying it laod and dirty. So to answer the question Is it realistic to expect the unforgettable straight off, 1st time ? Sometimes but if not , try again and let him know what it is that you expect and that which drives you wild ! Good Luck
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2/8/2011 3:26 pm |
damn girl id love to chat with you
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2/8/2011 10:17 pm |
I don't normally go for a second round...lol...However, on a serious note: There are at least 2 very well written comments above. Hopefully you can learn something from it. I have. But what I actually want to say is this: Thank you for your blog entry. It prompted some discussion on a topic where the sexes often misunderstand one another. And it is important to talk about it. How else would we start understanding the 'other' view...?
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the art of 4play is lost on some men...
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