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Prefer Not to Say...
Prefer Not to Say... I have not been here very long, but this is this first thing I began to think about when considerring my blog. I have seen my fair share of fake people, but what disturbs me most are the actively dishonest people. If you don't care to complete your profile, why are you here trolling around wasting the time of people who have complete profiles? If you can't read my profile, why do you get mad and insulting when I turn your offer down becaus eyou are not what I want? I have my own standards, (and hopefully you do too) but what bugs me the most is when I see: "PREFER NOT TO SAY".... This statement, at least to me, shows that a person cannot be trusted. What is there to hide? You perfer NOT to tell me what your height and build are when we are considerring meeting? You prefer to not tell me if you are married? I am suppose to accept your offer of sex without know the basics of who I am going to be with? Very FEW people on this site are looking for a serious commitment, but I think we are ALL looking for a little trust. I trust you to be honest in this sexual exchange. I trust you to be serious and not waste time and energy. I trust you to be STD clean and safe sexually. I trust you not to put me in a dangerous situation. I trust you to know that NO means NO. I trust you with my confidentuality. I trust you to enjoy the intimacy and not hold back. I trust you to give me the same trust. |
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I agree with you on the trust issues except for the STD thing. I would hope that everyone was STD free, but that is just not realistic. When it comes to a possible sexual encounter, I am going to make sure that I have condoms. I only trust myself with my life. That being said, if a relationship moved on to being more than just FWB or fuck buddies or whatever you want to call it, perhaps the condoms would go away. But until I KNOW FOR SURE (ie, testing) that my partner is STD free, I will be using condoms.
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Thanks for the comment. The line I trust you to be STD clean and safe sexually. is my preference that all parties involved are tending to thier sexual health by being tested , and safe (using protection). Whatever the boundries that those sexually involved set,no one can afford to become so at ease that we ignore our health and safety.
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Your honesty is admirable. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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1/18/2011 5:01 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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I am Honest and Real, but still seem to be having problems, finding a Lady friend. Is It because I am married? Is there really not a lady who would want a married man on the side?
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There are PLENTY of women who are into married men, and from what I hear most (not all) of them are also married. It is simply not my taste and it is incredibly foolish when someone on the site gets upset with me because I hold this as a personal standard. My point is that you need to keep being honest about your status. There are some married men who read my blog, and can testify that they see action despite thier marital status.
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Thanks so much Bootyful, I just want to be honest, I feel thats the only way any type of long term relationship can last. I'll just keep looking for that female. But sorta in a not so populated area, so looking around 100 miles from Home in all directions. Any other pointers would be gladly appreciated!!
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I honestly don't have any guarantee to finding what you seek. I just can say tr to be patient while you sort through the crap. I am going to try to follow my own advice too
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BBW I like your blog, your thoughts and standards.
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