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This is your body speaking, we regret to inform you that your orgasm has been declined.
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This is your body speaking, we regret to inform you that your orgasm has been declined. I'm in two minds, I hope that I'm not the only one to suffer, but I hope that no one else suffers the same as it is god damn annoying. Recently, yet not through lack of trying I have not been able to reach orgasm. I go from enjoying myself immensely, feeling the build up and at the final moment when you expect the release.... gone like a fart in the wind. As if someone has attached a switch and turns it to off at the very last second. Infuriating to have this happen once, but I think my body hates me. FIVE times this happened to me (in one session) lucky me or not quite lucky me, depending on how you look at it. I got very annoyed with myself, took a little break here and there just to prevent over stimulation as my loins were getting a bit sensitive. Not often I pull away from someone playing with my clit. So with mixing between clitoral and vaginal stimulation, sometimes both but still nothing. Don't get me wrong the crescendos were frickin wonderful but in the end I was so desperately seeking the ecstatic fanfare. I couldn't even get manage to get myself off, my body was definately working against me. My partner was worried that he was doing something wrong, HELL NO! was my response, if they were doing something wrong I wouldn't have been able to reach point of orgasm at all, let alone five times. He then started feeling guilty that he would end up coming and I hadn't. Now I have to admit here it was years (yes years) before I had any type of orgasm during sex. Knew it was possible through masturbation but no one else had ever achieved the same result. So I had become used to sex being somewhat perfunctory, I even thought that I couldn't have an orgasm during sex. How bad is that! However irregardless of whether or not I was satisfied I did always enjoy sex. When my none self induced orgasm duck was broken.... that is when all hell broke loose. I always made sure I did my damnedest to achieve the big O, lets face it, a non self induced orgasm is much much better. Well for me it is anyway. On my path of sexual awakening I did still encounter some men who only thought of their own satisfaction. Some men who did stuff I didn't think possible, most of the actions were stored in the must do again file of my brain. Getting back to the point though, he need not feel guilty about my lack of orgasm, its all worth it for me just to see theirs. I do get pleasure from seeing/hearing their pleasure. I also know that once my curse is broken that the ratio will swing in my favour again. And if it makes them feel better I have since indulged in a bit of self love and the result... Yet again a big fat NOTHING!!!!!!!!! Yep I can't even manage one on a solo mission. I know what I need to is not to fixate upon it, eventually my body will give in. This has happened before, just as infuriating now as it was back then. The first orgasm after that bout wasn't as amazing as you would expect considering the 'long' build up, I was actually a bit disappointed. I was expected this wonderous explosion in my loins, in reality I have had more powerful sneezes. Counted as an orgasm though, and the reset button in my brain had been triggered. Wondering now how long it will take for my body to reset itself again, one thing is for sure. I'm going to have fun finding out!! |
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Have you tried switching off... Then turn back on again 
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1 post 6/25/2015 5:30 am |
Are you still available gorgeous eyes. Or is this poxy website regurgitating years old profiles.
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Me and my ex went through this and after some googling we found that it could be because of using sex toys a lot. Esp the ones that stimulated her clit. It was so frustrating because she was always on the edge of climax but could never just get over the hill. The only way that we found that helped was to stop with the toys for a few weeks and then only use them sparingly after that for a while. I hope this helps. PS. Love your Blog and would love to get to know you more!
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It has always taken me a long time to cum. Recently I have added sertraline to the mix. Well know and unavoidable side effect - delays or prevents orgasm. I suffered for four months. Different to you, there was nothing there at all. Not even the beginning of a sight of the foothills in the distance. Gradually my body is adapting and I know regularly feel like there is a orgasm in me somewhere and, joy of joys,the occasional success. 8
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PS, whilst broswing Wikipedia I came across a condition (some long Greek name) where sufferers have orgasms but experience no pleasure! Something blocks the appropriate hormone release. There but for the grace...
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