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'Virgin' on the ridiculous  

69missb 44F
608 posts
12/2/2012 1:40 pm
'Virgin' on the ridiculous


I do sometimes wonder about how dumb men must think us women are. A couple of nights ago I receive a message from a 19year old who is apparently still a virgin and wanted to know if I'd take his virginity. Oh lucky me.

Not for one minute do I believe his virgin status maybe though a little lacking in sexual experience. References to his cock although backed up by picture, but made worse by saying its big for his age. If cock size really did increase as men get older then I'm definately going to start looking at older men. Phrases used especially 'sex is sex' and wanting to meet in a hotel all screamed to me this guy ain't a virgin.

When I was 19 if anyone was rumoured to be particularly well endowed he would have been fighting women off.

The main thing that ran through my mind though is, if he truly was a virgin why would he want to pick a complete stranger. Why isn't he waiting and trying to find someone to make that special moment special.

How many of us rushed into getting the proverbial cherry popped?

I started thinking about my own virginity, well when I first had sex with someone because I wanted to. Looking back, at the time no love was involved, and it just felt more like a natural progression. Would I have waited if it was truly sex for the first time, if I knew then what I know now... yes I would have.

So my fellow bloggers
Did anybody here rush? Would you have waited for the right person?

seekgoddess 67M
1007 posts
12/2/2012 2:39 pm

Mine was kind of nice strange and totally unexpected. i don't know if orchestrating the whole thing would have made it better or not. i think we're so repressive as a society in general that the whole thing gets kind of distorted and overblown anyway.


69missb replies on 12/4/2012 7:00 am:
I think there's to much expectation when it's pre planned due to all the misconceptions created by various forms of media. True you have nothing to compare it to and sex is always better with someone you have feelings for. My first thought however was 'this isn't as good as what everyone says' .

luvtolickclit99 50M
1082 posts
12/2/2012 4:49 pm

I was 17 and coundn't wait, I was teased by an older girl for a while and she made that birthday one of the Best !!


69missb replies on 12/4/2012 6:12 am:
Does sound like a great birthday.

Spirit6669 58M
2234 posts
12/2/2012 5:30 pm

How about an older man who's still a virgin ?!

Being of the blokey persuasion at the time I was in a hell of a rush Definitely wouldn't have waited ! And wanted to repeat the experience, albeit not virginly, as often as possible... still not waiting

I do a lot more waiting these days quality rather than quantity required, a real connection, and an adventure of some description.. yeah, do a lot of waiting now

Spirit6669
BLOG : Spirit6669 .. 21st Century Zen


69missb replies on 12/4/2012 6:37 am:
Good things can come to those who wait. Certainly worked for me at the moment.

Sapiophile77 46M
245 posts
12/3/2012 7:21 am

I wonder how big his cock would be at 80... i wonder if he still thought he could get it up at that age.


69missb replies on 12/4/2012 6:42 am:
Now have that thought running through my head.
Hope I'm going strong when I reach 80.

OxfordViking 47M
1 post
2/1/2014 5:51 pm

Just commenting on your remark about "fighting women off" - is that really for real? Did girls around you go for "big boys" at that age just because of their size?


69missb 44F
516 posts
2/3/2014 3:48 pm

Afraid to say definitely for real. The phrase 'bragging rights' spring to mind though may not be 100% correct. I used to work in a bar at that age so I had no choice in overhearing some intriguing conversations.


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