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Its in his kiss
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Its in his kiss During my break, I actually went on a proper date. Shock horror!! I was amazed, not only did he not cancel but he also showed up. The best part is it also went well, maybe a little to well. No I didn't fuck him, we arranged a second date and then things started going down hill. The date had been arranged before we'd kissed each other goodbye. There is no nice way to say he was an awful kisser. It was the ultimate mental WTF? moment. I know we all have different preferences but this guy didn't even move his mouth or his head (except to lean in for the kiss) and definately no tongue. For me a good kiss is a must, maybe I've just been lucky but generally it means sex will be equally as great. It doesn't have to make me go quick at the knees but that sure can help. At the time I passed it off as first kiss nerves but there was still a niggling doubt. So, the extremely rare second date. Quite soon into the night he invites me to the wedding of one of his mates. The wedding is in July and my first thoughts were 'fuck me, we're only on the second date and hes planning things six months into the future' and 'to serious to soon' with the alarm bells starting to ring a little bit louder. Kisses through out the night didn't differ from the previous. The clincher came at the end of the night where he 'missed' his train home. Having had this ploy used on me in the past knew exactly what his intention was yet with him not being local I was in a position where I would have classed myself as a bitch for abandoning him in the middle of nowhere. Reluctantly I agreed he could stay at mine on the proviso that nothing was going to happen. Low and behold he did try and I told him where to go, I still spent half the night awake anyway due to his foghorn snoring that probably kept the neighbours awake as well. I do still ask myself the question. Even though I haven't had sex in ages, did I give up the opportunity to have some because of how he ended up in my bed or because my first thought was if he fucks like kisses then its not worth the hassle or because I'd already decided that he wasn't one for me? I'm thinking every single one of them. |
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3/22/2012 2:36 am |
No chemistry equals no sex IMHO so I think you handled the situation very well x
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I equate people who are good kissers with people who are comfortable with their bodies and have a bit of a spark to their personality... which does make for being good in bed Does it matter why you decided not to fuck him? There were clearly enough warning signs along the way, I'm not surprised you turned him down! If you aren't into them you might as well have a wank - much easier to deal with in the morning too 
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3/22/2012 6:37 am |
Uhmm,...live & learn
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3/22/2012 6:51 am |
you came to the right decision, thats for sure, no chemistry out of bed generally mens very little in it!! No sex for ages...how come as you're a good looking and sexy woman?
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I agree with you that self-love is a whole lot more desirable than bad sex...  I also agree with you that a kiss is very telling about the sexual personality; if he's as cold when between the sheets, he's gonna leave you high and dry after his quickie...  And that, methinks, would be a waste of a good round of self-love... 
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Sounds like a lucky escape to me!
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i can not have sex with someone that cant kiss. Yes i know I am a guy, but i need that stimulation. Kissing is making a connection. It is the most erotic thing. You did not miss anything. I am glad that you did not screw him. It would have been a bad time, and you would have been mad at yourself.
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