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Dodgy first messages
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Dodgy first messages This is going to be similar to an earlier post of mine but this time I responded and being in a particularily foul mood thanks to a dire day at work so guess who got a bit of my anger. Some one before has said to me my profile is like a list of demands. For those who can't see it this is my profile blurb Hate these things, be honest with me and i'll be honest in return. I fed up of being bull shitted by men. Just looking for a commitment free good time. I need to have an attraction to the face and mind first. So if you want to know more about me then read my blog 69missb. There is also a spot to leave me private messages if you want to mail me as generally I don't reply to messages sent to my inbox unless we have already corresponded. I just don't have that much time on my hands. If you can.... -please have a face picture on your profile -please don't use text speak, it annoys me as the english language has vowels and grammar for a reason -please don't post contact info Don't send long messages about what you want to do to me (not a good icebreaker! and it doesn't get me horny or interested) and if I see fit will be copied and pasted to my blog for all to enjoy. Also getting particularly annoyed with time wasters/non genuine people. I want to meet properly not just talk about it and/or arrange it to then get canceled on. I also do not and will not exchange dirty/sexy/erotic pictures. If you bear in my that I have never spoken to this man before I was a little bit pissed of when I sent this in my inbox. Bloody hell have you found anyone who can meet your demands, sounds like a job ad, maybe you should have some sort of check list or hold interviews and have a short list LOL Generally I ignore and delete dodgy and insulting messages, but as mentioned before he caught me on a bad day. My reply was.. Demands.......? They are requests and simple ones at that. A face picture, to not send contact information (which is against the sites guidelines anyway) and to not use text speak. It explains why I going to ignore your e-mail in advance, if someone really does want to meet me then it gives clear instructions on what to do. Every woman on here has there dos and don'ts, I choose to express mine first. I have talked to many people on here who have actually been bothered to read my profile properly and met a few. I see though you've only been on the site for a day. To send a message like yours is beyond my belief, its better to send no message than a message like that. Though if your intention is to annoy and alienate every woman on here then congratulations with this approach you have already cracked it. No woman will tolerate any message like that. Don't waste your time replying to this as after I've pressed send your being added to my blocked list. I'm very surpised I din't tell him to go fuck himself! |
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MissB, All you want, is a reasonable person. Someone that can type English, imagine that? I sent an email to a girl. Her response included something like, "you are light years ahead of the guys here because you can type a reasonable email in English". My experience has shown me that this is a numbers game. You just have to weed thru the losers to get to the good ones. Dont even give the losers a second thought!!!! Why waste your time with them? Many times we focus on negative things, and let them get to us. i see many girls that just get sick of the bullshit here. I guess you have a bit more optimism. i have chatted with a bunch of guys at Passion. Many guys just dont seem to have any idea. They believe that if a girl is on this 'sex site", she should just come to their house and fuck them. they are a bit confused as to why it is so hard to get a woman from this site. I just laugh, and say 'they are women". This is so funny to me, sad too. Dont these guys know anything about women? Really, most have been married. They might have learned something then. Imagine asking for a picture! Wow, you are definitely extreme, asking for a picture!!! I dont post mine, but will send one. I have no idea about the cock pictures. I just dont understand that at all. This is so anonymous here, so people can do or say anything. i figure the guys just dont care that there is a real person attached to the profile. They just think--some will, some wont, so what.. I guess you have to use that way of thought also. I hope that job of your improves!! I worked many years in the auto repair business. kisses
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Sometimes the vicariousness of it brings out the insufferability within. Would these same priks talk in the same way to feamles in the "real" world? Would so much love to hear from actual experiences! 
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Obviously as I'm not a woman I can't judge, but wouldn't it be better not to have those requests in your profile? That way you could very quickly separate those men who already know how to approach a woman without prompting from those who just don't have a clue. Again, I don't receive tons of emails from potential suitors so I don't know, but I think I'd like to see their true colours - without being told how to approach women, without being told what I expect. That way I could weed them out very quickly - which would be a good thing 'cos I'm lazy 
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10/18/2011 11:03 am |
to gag is to live
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Text talk is pure laziness, for words are all we have on here. Pics could be fake after all. Expecting success with text talk is foolhardy..
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Thanks Missb. x
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Text talk is pure laziness, for words are all we have on here. Pics could be fake after all. Expecting success with text talk is foolhardy..
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If it was as long as he claims - he probably could Fuck himself
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