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What to do?  

jpt183 64T
15 posts
1/31/2011 7:45 am
What to do?

Ok so I went out the other night by myself to a dance club. I was dressed very pretty and was treated very well. I was actually approached by both men and women which was very flattering. I wasn't looking to get picked up, I just wanted to get out, catch a show and observe people as I love people watching. Long story short it came time to go to the bathroom. The club was very crowded and as I made my way there I'm always thinking ok which one do I go to......the ladies or the men? I gravitate towards the woman's but am so use to going to the mens so I'm not sure. As I get near the doors I feel a gentle hand on my back guiding me toward the women's (I guess I am passable)but as the door opens I see 3 or 4 girls standing in front of the mirrors chatting, laughing and checking their make up. I immediately feel anxious and turn towards the mens room and enter where I do my business then check my make up before going back to the club. Not wanting to possibly cause a scene, I chickened out at the last moment. What to do?

pationfriends69 54M

1/31/2011 9:45 am

 do you live has a woman if you live has a woman you go to the ladys room if you are a cd you go to the mans room
looking for friends for fun and friendship


jpt183 replies on 2/4/2011 10:55 am:
See that's where labels and identity come into play for me.
Although I live as a man right now, I feel very much a woman and when dressed, I am all woman. Under the Benjamin gender identification classification I am considered a stage 4 individual on a scale of 1-5 so it goes much deeper than just being a CD. Not that there is anything wrong with being a CD, it's just that things are not always either black or white.

Outdorboy 61M

6/8/2011 1:08 am

 You are a intresting lady.


aoutdoorboy 61M

7/2/2011 12:35 pm

 Wow you are a brave girl, love to met you at that men's room.


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